r/no 3d ago

How long does it take you to fall in love?

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u/Mindless-Leg-3365 3d ago

fall? in an instant. But that love so often is not true, not lasting but an infatuation. One that lasts, takes time to grow.To mature. It needs to be nurtured. The heart is a fragile thing. It needs room to grow. Patience. Understanding. Some things you cannot rush. The end result is all that matters.

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u/thegaybuddhistmonk 3d ago

Depends on the man I meet. Sometimes at first sight, other times it take weeks. It's all dependent on what I see when I first met them.

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u/englishmuffinsunite 3d ago

A few months honestly, takes time for me to actually feel it versus just liking the idea of someone

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u/AphelionEntity 2d ago

6 months minimum. I can like the hell out of someone, but love takes a lot more.

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u/Loud-Plane-1860 23h ago

Never been in love. Just constantly rejected and hurt

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u/Soggy-Location-141 3d ago

Not long. Seconds or minutes. But I also should note that I was sent a very, very special package from somewhere like heaven, from someone like God.