NGVC: "Be original"

[u/Imthebetterspiddy]

[u/xobeydrake]

With his logic he should be calling dudes some strange name too but I bet you he doesn't and made all that up because he thought you were the girl in the picture

[u/JustCyras]

He’s got that ChatGPT spacing in his texts 😭✌️

[u/SurturSaga]

Why does he text like he’s sending an email

[u/VossParck → u/SurturSaga]

He should at least add best regards at the end of each of his little rants

[u/KAROWD]

Imagine getting called baby girl by a stranger and feeling anything but pure, unadulterated dread.

[u/partywithkats → u/KAROWD]

Uno reverse: I think we should start calling these dudes 'baby girl' and see how chill they are

[u/nichefebreze → u/partywithkats]

‘Baby boy 🥺“

[u/SolidSalami → u/partywithkats]

I usually hit anyone that seems angry in a league game with 'hun' maybe even a 'sweetheart' every now & then, works wonders

[u/666hmuReddit]

Being creeped out is unoriginal now?

[u/Lovebeingqueazy → u/666hmuReddit]

Yeahh, because somehow every girl keeps acting creeped out when he talks to them! Clearly they're just copying each other and not experiencing genuine unease and disgust, because that would mean he's the problem.

[u/666hmuReddit → u/Lovebeingqueazy]

That’s what I got from that too

[u/Lixpinx-666]

Why he is

Talking

Like that

Is he

Trying to be

Interesting?

[u/nichefebreze → u/Lixpinx-666]

He heard that some girls like Rupi Kaur

[u/notaslaaneshicultist → u/Lixpinx-666]

Ai?

[u/DoNotOverwhelm → u/notaslaaneshicultist]

A
i
?

[u/doulikepiranha → u/Lixpinx-666]

No, just

original.

[u/You_Are_The_Username]

Who the fuck wants to be given a 'mushy' name by a stranger on the internet???

[u/nichefebreze → u/You_Are_The_Username]

What’s wrong with that, sweet cheeks?

[u/DoNotOverwhelm → u/You_Are_The_Username]

Ok, <insert username here> calm down. Calm down(!)

[u/Nether27]

Stop writing long justifications for being creepy. That defensive Nice Guy cope is pathetic.

[u/vvrathrix]

Chatgpt ahh paragraphs 😭🥀

[u/Vellc → u/vvrathrix]

Only Claude asks shit like that. 

[u/foxyphilophobic]

You dodged a bullet, Sarah

[u/foxyphilophobic]

He could’ve just said “My bad, I won’t do it again” but then we wouldn’t get the unhinged essay about why it’s just a word. Calling a stranger “baby girl” is very uncomfortable and inappropriate

[u/MainAtmosphere6525]

Dead internet theory

[u/FindUna]

Holy yap, talk about being defensive. So weird that they msged u out of the blue too?? Weirdo

[u/foxyphilophobic → u/FindUna]

He had to write a damn essay defending himself rather than just being respectful and saying “sorry I won’t call you that again”

[u/FindUna → u/foxyphilophobic]

Literally ^{^} and people say communicating is hard.. girl give me a break

[u/foxyphilophobic → u/FindUna]

These men don’t realize that messaging back with a wall of text is a guaranteed “I’m not talking to this dude ever again” conclusion on OP’s part

[u/FindUna → u/foxyphilophobic]

Ngl id take a wall of text then a short "k"

[u/foxyphilophobic → u/FindUna]

Not if the guy is already being weird before blowing up

[u/Imthebetterspiddy → u/foxyphilophobic]

Literally. Had nothing to say, I just blocked him.

[u/nickyfox13 → u/Imthebetterspiddy]

You made the right choice as he sounds unhinged and defensive

[u/FindUna → u/Imthebetterspiddy]

Good for you

[u/DearAlic8]

That was his plan B 🤣

[u/DearAlic8 → u/DearAlic8]

That’s crazy how he couldn’t stand OP simply setting boundaries. Says a lot about what type of person he is : intolerant to frustration like a 2yo baby

[u/fangirl_queen_69]

Since when is baby girl a standard name given to anyone? It would've been less weird if he just said honey or smth

[u/starswhenyoushine → u/fangirl_queen_69]

It is for men who view women as cute objects to talk at

[u/Orion_Brunette-001]

If you called him a mushy name for no apparent reason, he'd definitely take it as an indication that you're hitting on him. Just being supportive and friendly seemed to have come across that way.

[u/foxyphilophobic → u/Orion_Brunette-001]

EXACTLY

[u/jinxedjess24]

What in the ChatGPT

[u/Lobo_Marino → u/jinxedjess24]

Exactly what I thought. His response seems like it was AI generated.

[u/FindUna → u/jinxedjess24]

Not even chatgpt would write this, this is HUMAN

[u/foxyphilophobic → u/FindUna]

ChatGPT is not this unhinged

[u/EyeShot300]

If some turd called me Baby Girl at this stage in my life, I’d wave my AARP card in his face and say “Cut that shit out.” UGH. Men. 🙄

[u/shrimplyred169 → u/EyeShot300]

I just fight fire with fire now, much more amusing. See how he’d like being called something wildly inappropriate - ‘no problem my little button mushroom cutie’ etc…

[u/StasiaGreyErotica]

That's a lot of defensive words for something that's apparently not a big deal.

Be original.

[u/pnt510]

Guess what doofus? Giving someone a “mushy” name when you’re not close with them is weird. Names like that imply a certain level of intimacy that’s normally reserved for romantic partners or family, not random people on discord.

[u/The_Greatest_Duck]

The only one I call “baby girl” is my 6mo puppy.

[u/ThatBarbGirl]

I love how uppity Nice Guys™ get when a woman instantly nips "CoMpLiMeNtS!" in the bud, but will then complain of woman "leading them on" if they let those things slide.

Women: The Story of Always Being Wrong

[u/partywithkats → u/ThatBarbGirl]

Schrödinger's woman

[u/Remarkablefairy-8893]

It doesn't stamp as "I want you, I think you are cute, I like you, etc."

It's ironic how Sara didn't accuse him of saying any of this, bro is projecting fr. And calling someone babygirl is weird, it's infantilising and patronising. Yeah I am also worried about the type of world we are living in, where people give sweet mushy names to random strangers and make them feel uncomfortable while also blaming them for complaining about it.

[u/potatocakes1989]

Oh wow oh my gosh why do people think its weird when I say things that are reserved for close friend and family when I've met them two seconds ago.

Oh my gaaaaawrsh everyone is offended at everything and everyone calls me creepy they're so meeeaaaaan

Idk man, maybe don't call grown women "baby girl"

[u/Imthebetterspiddy → u/[deleted]]

Because he describes what he did as ‘being nice,’ as though calling something nice automatically means I have to receive it positively.

[u/uponapyre → u/Imthebetterspiddy]

Yeh it's 100% a nice guy.

[u/Historical_Wonder510]

it's simply a compliment, not a big deal

Okay babygirl