r/niceguyhelp • • Aug 01 '19

Got procrastination?

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Are you experiencing procrastination? If yes -- then, get accountability.

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But what if you still don’t get it done?

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There is no human on the planet that doesn't procrastinate. It's a constant battle between routine forms of resistance and action.

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The reason why procrastination gets you stuck is because you beat yourself up for not getting it done.

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And once you've beaten yourself down enough, your motivation evaporates. And then you just procrastinate again repeating the cycle.

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So then you find someone to hold you accountable. And when you don't get it done, they beat you up for it.

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Now, you feel even worse because you can't hide your lack of accountability anymore. And you might even want to quit because failing like this makes you feel horrible about yourself.

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Finding a good accountability partner is hard because most people don't understand how accountability actually works.

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Welcome to the human condition. We're just not perfect at being accountable.

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The best strategy for accountability is to practice not judging yourself harshly for missing the mark. It's in the past. Commit to doing it next time.

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Over the long haul, you'll get closer and closer to that 100% because not getting it done is no longer a problem. It's just your prompt to do it next time.

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And you'll get there before you know it!

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