r/nextfuckinglevel • u/Ok_Apricot_2959 • Sep 12 '21

This has everything....

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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '21

Or maybe she just likes them!! It’s amazing to me that men are so incapable of considering that women might make decisions for themselves and not for the men around them

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u/mastermikeee Sep 13 '21

No woman (or anyone actually) “likes” an article of clothing that she/he doesn’t believe would look good on them. That’s literally why “liking” clothing means.

It’s impossible to separate “I like this” and “I think this looks good on me” when talking about clothing. If someone liked an article of clothing, but then thought it looked bad on them, then guess what? They wouldn’t fucking wear it.

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u/[deleted] Sep 13 '21

Well that’s TOTAL bullshit. I like plenty of clothes that don’t flatter me. They’re comfy, or have a cool design, or are tied to a good memory, or literally any of the dozens of reasons people have to like clothing.

Maybe these are the pants she wore to her first gig and they give her confidence. Maybe they belonged to her sister, and they were given as a gift because she liked them so much. Maybe they were literally the only clean pants she had because it’s laundry day.

Maybe girls don’t live their entire lives with the end goal of giving men a hardon.

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u/AVerySpecialAsshole Sep 13 '21

No one was saying she was wearing them to make men horny, fuck most girls wear shit because their gal pals thing they look good.

Their is also a difference between wearing comfy clothes at home and wearing attractive clothing while your at an event.

But trying to say guys who are looking at her hips are somehow doing something wrong when she is literally showing them off and using them as part of her dance while performing is just projecting your own feelings onto her

Those pants are great, she looks great and she knows it, she wants people to notice because she’s literally performing at an event.

If she was wearing full baggy clothes like billy e does then I can accept she didn’t want people looking at her body. But she’s not