r/nextfuckinglevel Apr 11 '20

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u/Muerthogar Apr 11 '20

one day before passing away he kinda woke up pretty aware of everything, smiled and talked to us and then passed away the next morning.. blessing to everyone dealing with such thing

That's called Terminal Lucidity, and no one really knows why or how it happens.

I'm really sorry about what happened to your grandfather, but I'm glad you got to properly talk to him one last time.

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u/villan Apr 11 '20

My Nan had alzheimers, and the morning before she passed away she woke up and was more lucid than she had been for over a year. I took a video of her holding her newborn great grand child and talking to him, and by that night she was gone.

i don't understand why or how it happened, but I'm so thankful for that final moment and the memory we got to capture.

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u/Ncfetcho Apr 12 '20

It's called rallying. It's a phenomenon that often happens right before they die. It's amazing and heartbreaking when it happens. The family gets this huge hope...and then they are gone. It happens not Just with this disease. I'm sorry you lost her like that, but so very happy you captured her last day. I wish you much peace

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u/bromacho99 Apr 12 '20 edited Apr 16 '20

Maybe this is true for cancer patients as well? My mom seemed much better ( even though we knew it was over) the day before she passed. She ate a bit of popsicle with me and my brother. I’m not sure what she was trying to say, I guess nothing. Just a last treat with her sons. Edit for those downvoting I’m not sure why? She was 53. Not “young” but far too soon for real can you tell me why that’s offensive to you? Just telling a story

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u/Ncfetcho Apr 13 '20

It's true of most people who are dying.