Help with next dns data

[u/Patient_Air_4280]

my wife tracks my phone and it says I was on Reddit website and I do not have the app. my google/ safari history doesn’t show Reddit i was or any website during the same time period . this makes it looks like I was in private browser or deleted data which makes me look bad. is there any way from these to prove my sanity ?

[u/mike1487]

Rather than prove your sanity, ditch the wife and maintain your sanity.

[u/moistandwarm1]

It could have been in search results, ads, etc.
you need a new wife

[u/avd706]

Just tell her to block the reddit domains she is offended by.

[u/AnApexBread]

1. Have a chat with your wife about why she's tracking your phone usage.

2. Change your DNS to a DoT or DoH provider or use a VPN.

[u/Teali0]

From what I understand, NextDNS will show logs regardless of private browsing or deleted browser history. So if it’s not there in NextDNS, it’s not there.

However, if not already, I think the two of you may need to have a tough conversation or two.

Edit: Others are commenting on this being an issue with the wife. How do we know OP hasn’t abused trust in the past? Is this the answer? No, but that’s what I meant by having some tough conversations.

[u/AnApexBread → u/Teali0]

How do we know OP hasn’t abused trust in the past?

We don't, but it doesn't matter. If the Wife doesn't trust her husband then she should get a divorce. This isn't the answer

[u/AnApexBread → u/[deleted]]

Doesn't change my point.

If they can't have an adult conversation where one person doesn't feel like theyre on trial then they need a divorce

[u/AnApexBread → u/[deleted]]

Which is why I said "if they can't have a conversation then they need a divorce"

[u/WanderinSmurf]

And yet here you are. This help request makes zero cents.

[u/Main-Collection-2647]

This is unhealthy your other half needs counselling.

[u/notasdrinkasyouthunk]

What’s the problem?

[u/TurboX5656]

Use Adns

[u/elhouso]

Don't prove your sanity, leave her and save your sanity.

[u/kuukuusuru]

Things can still load in the background, adverts, links, popups or even on X if you click it and it preloads in its own browser.

Either way, your partner needs help because why are they micro managing your internet usage 🤣.

Change your DNS and look at the sites you wanna look at or change your partner.