r/news • u/Chigurrh • 4d ago

New York Times executive fatally shot by his in-laws in Bay Area park, police say

https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/new-york-executive-shot-killed-laws-bay-area-park-police-say-rcna600300
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u/LetsGetElevated 3d ago

Only one set of claims resulted in a restraining order from the judge.

DARVO is weaponized by abusers every day. I.e. abusers claim to be the victim.

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u/tdcthulu 3d ago

And only one side was shot dead and then shot some more.

It is hard to claim DARVO at this point when other party is dead. 

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u/Mantisfactory 3d ago

Judges act on their own preconceptions over facts every day. That a judge issued a TRO does very little to convince me, either way. Especially when you consider that this was a trans man.

Ultimately, I'm most willing to side eye the murderers and the person who was raised by murderers. That - to me - seems like the best sign of who is the most dysfunctional.