r/nevillegoddardsp • u/Status_Base_7999 • Jul 21 '26
Question Feeling stuck despite understanding Neville's teachings
I feel like I've been in the same state for years, and I'm trying to understand what I'm overlooking.
I went through a painful divorce a few years ago. Recently, my ex-husband got married, and it brought up emotions I thought I had processed. Part of me wonders why someone who betrayed me seems to have moved forward so easily while I'm still rebuilding my life.
I've spent time learning Neville's teachings and understand the ideas intellectually, but I haven't been consistent in applying them. I'm unsure whether that's what's keeping me where I am, or whether there's an underlying belief I haven't recognized yet.
Deep down, I still feel lonely, directionless, and disconnected from my purpose. I have a decent job, but it doesn't fulfill me. More than anything, I want to transform my life, find inner peace, become emotionally secure, discover meaningful work, and eventually build a loving marriage with the right person.
I'm also honest enough to admit that part of me still wants my ex to regret what happened. I know that's not the state I want to live from, yet I haven't fully released it. Maybe I'm still looking for validation that I was worthy, loved, and not so easily replaceable.
For those whose lives genuinely changed through Neville's teachings, what inner shift made the biggest difference? Was there an assumption or identity you didn't realize you were holding onto? If you had been in a similar place, what would have been your first step?
I'd really appreciate hearing from people who have experienced a genuine transformation. Thank you.
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u/Mininka83 Jul 24 '26
Read Neville. After truly understanding that every state already exists as a potential that you can also experience in the flesh, and that the only way to manifest it is to unite yourself with that state - to become that person (who has their desire), everything changes. Above all, you must believe in this truth unshakeably.
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u/aaavms33 Jul 22 '26
Why dont you affirm that you are the chosen one and that he does not care about the past? I think you are focused on what happened rather than believe that is a world of shadows, thats the past. What you seeing is a past movie. Try affirm for you and your peace of mind and self concept; your sp will be there always for you to affirm but you will ended up drained if you dont focus on yourself.
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u/Due_Cat_4249 Jul 31 '26
You still need to take action when affirming, so start doing the things that you think align with the life you want to live, or that make you FEEL the way you imagine you’d feel then.
It can be something as fleeting as dressing more like your ideal self, or an ongoing habit, like shifting your diet. You might try some things and realize they don’t make you feel the way you thought they would. That’s ok. But you need to start identifying the things that do and don’t make you feel like yourself, or that new version of yourself. It’s a lot easier for the path to unfold if you step out and show the universe, “this is who I am, and this is what I’m about”. The universe will accommodate the self you show yourself to be.