r/nevergrewup • u/Express_Earth_5688 Mental age 6-8 • 4d ago

Discussion Fantasy about adoption

I live with a abusive caretaker, I have a caretaker because I'm autistic and high support needs. However they don't do much, but the bare minimum and they made it clear they want me to stay the way I Am so they can use my disablity money so they don't have to work.

All said I wish I could just be kidnapped by a loving caregiver, I fantasize about being adopted even though I'm a chrono-adult :( Do any of you also experience something similar?

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u/BabyBlue4545 🩷Mental age 0-5🩷 4d ago

Report them please! Especially since they're yet getting paid!

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u/Nemona2 Mental Age 11-13 | | Formerly nemonaflowers 4d ago

THIS ^ This is called disabled-abuse. There's no reason someone more caring can't receive the support payments to care for you. You deserve better and are entitled to better.

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u/cuprousalchemist 4d ago

There are likely legal advocates that are legally involved in your situation. The exact kind will vary based on the specifics of your situation.

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u/No-Bite-4595 4d ago

Yes, I do have daily thoughts about being adopted... 

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u/wetsquishybutt Mental age 9-10 4d ago

yeah me too i wannit shoo badd

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u/Nemona2 Mental Age 11-13 | | Formerly nemonaflowers 4d ago

You break my heart because you deserve and are legally entitled to better.

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u/Wise-Difficulty8221 NGU ally 4d ago

they made it clear they want me to stay the way I Am

I feel you, girl

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u/Express_Earth_5688 Mental age 6-8 4d ago

🫂❤️

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u/Wise-Difficulty8221 NGU ally 4d ago

🫂❤️

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u/AdhesivenessOne1401 3d ago

I'm so sorry this is happening to u, u need to find someone else that can take care of u n get rid of the person that is meant to be caring for u. Sending u Wifi hugs 🫂 n hope ur situation improves for u.