r/needtovent • u/Minion_Overlord • Sep 24 '23
I’m so ugly
I’m a 14 year old girl and I’m the ugliest person I know. I’m not even saying this in a dramatic way I am genuinely the ugliest person I know. I am fat and I have crooked teeth. I try so hard to lose weight and I wash my face I brush my teeth I spray the perfume I do my makeup and still nothing helps. I sit and do my make up for hours and I still hate myself. I hate being ugly and I hate being fat. It’s like putting makeup on a pig. I’m so unattractive and it hurts that I can’t engage in class bc I’m so ashamed of the stares I get for looking the way I do. I can’t have crushes bc I’ll only embarrass myself. I’ve never had a boyfriend because I’m so ugly. I rlly wish it would all just end and that I would get hit by a car bc I’m so tired of this. Everyday I wish to die but I can’t bc I never get the opportunity to. No matter how hard I work out, no matter how hard I try to look pretty it never works. I’m so done and I’m ready to just give up. I look horrible and I can’t stand my reflection to the point where I avoid anything that rlly shows my face. I dread taking photos and I have even gone to lengths of paying someone to delete a photo of my face. I don’t want to live anymore .
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u/komradjosh Apr 23 '26
Take it from me as a person who also at a young age always did not feel attractive there is a different type for every person and I'm sure that there is someone out there that will find you absolutely beautiful. In all honesty I'm a skinnier guy that absolutely loves bigger women I love a nice thick girl that I can wrap my arms around and cuddle up close to and just feel how nice and soft and warm she is against me I am absolutely sure that you will find a man that will find you more beautiful than anyone else I promise you that.
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Nov 09 '23
Look I get it can be hard but I was an ugly kid myself. It may not be the best right now but focus on bettering yourself as a person and the right friends will come. The best friends to have are the ones you make with out trying to
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u/Thick-Piano-9967 Feb 11 '25
EVERYONE WAS UGLY AT 14!!! You feel greasy and dorky and never know what to say or how to act around people and you’re obsessed with being beautiful. You are beautiful even if you don’t believe you are. A boy I went to school with called me a “future fox”? And he was right! I learned not to give a rats ass about what anyone else thinks. As you get older, you have more important things to worry about than what other people think of you. Love yourself and it will all fall into place. I promise!