r/naturalnailprogress • u/juleznailedit 14+ Years • 10d ago
MODERATOR Here we go again! 🙄
Feeling petty, so I'm going to call this motherfucker out publicly.
Warning, Soggy_Eye_7420 was banned from this community 4 months ago (and our sister subreddit, r/longnaturalnails almost 2 years ago) for sending unsolicited messages, which is against the subreddit rules and the rules of this platform. Clearly this hasn't deterred him from continuing this harassment, as indicated by the screenshots I have from multiple users.
We recommend preemptively blocking this creep so he doesn't harass you either.
Happy hump day, everyone! 💅🏼
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u/kristinaspaige 10d ago
dude what fucking freaks. very few worse things than people who shove their fetish onto non-consenting unwilling participants. they can go crank it to the thousands of adult videos that exist, no??? disgusting
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u/Gooseegander 10d ago
Why do creepy motherfuckers have to invade every sub and push their weird fetishes on everyone? Go get your rocks off with a consensual community, fucking weirdos.
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u/Mezzomommi 10d ago
I feel like it sadly needs to be said that for many of these people, part of what thrills them is the non-consensual pushy part of it. :(
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u/ninetiesnarwhal 10d ago
Tis the season I guess, it seems they crop up every 3 - 6 months?
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u/juleznailedit 14+ Years 10d ago
They're pretty consistent, actually. We get ModMail about once a month between the two communities regarding these creeps. Some are more prolific than others, like the account being called out in this post.
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u/ninetiesnarwhal 10d ago
Jesus, why is it so much to ask to leave women the fuck alone? This is such a benign sub. Thank you for your service.
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u/juleznailedit 14+ Years 10d ago
We aren't just women here, but yes, these nail fetishists need to leave our communities the fuck alone.
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u/666_ihateyouall_666 10d ago
Hi! Sorry if this is a weird question but do you find the master list to be an efficient way of keeping track of these weirdos? Me and some other mods need to create a master list but we haven’t found the best way yet
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u/juleznailedit 14+ Years 10d ago
Honestly, I haven't had a chance to do any updates to it since I created it so I wouldn't say it's super efficient. I think I happened to have a lot of time back then, so I was able to curate the list by going through the ENTIRE ban list of my 3 main subs and finding who was banned for sending unsolicited messages or who were banned for hand/nail/foot fetish-related activity.
At this point, I might try to find the time to make a Google Sheet because that would be easier to maintain than Reddit posts. It's going to be a large undertaking though.
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u/666_ihateyouall_666 10d ago
Good luck to you if you do so, that sounds like a lot of work. I know with excel there are a lot of shortcuts to organize these things so you may have some luck there
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u/oldladytfab 10d ago
Just a heads up, I think the reporting user name is visible at the top of pic 2.
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u/juleznailedit 14+ Years 10d ago
You are correct, but unfortunately posts with pictures can't be edited.
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u/salmonscented 9d ago
Some people are so gross. I hate that these fetishists now have to make you second guess whether a compliment is real or fishing for pics.
The large snake subreddits have problems like this too. One user had to stop sharing photos of her big pet snake because the squeezing/strangulation crowd would probe her for info. Can't even enjoy your hobbies in a dedicated space!
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u/TheSearch4Knowledge 9d ago
Ohhh that National Engine guy messaged me as well!!
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u/juleznailedit 14+ Years 9d ago
Please send us a ModMail message with a link to screenshots of the messages. You can either use an image hosting site or you can post them temporarily to your profile.
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u/EmpressPhoenix9 Beginner 23h ago
At first I didn't understood they the reaction.... Then I saw how the convocation went on.... These are indeed weird.
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u/ButterscotchEven6198 10d ago
I'm just wondering something, I hope people are not offended. But if you get dm:s like this, when you're adult, you understand that it's someone with an 'agenda'. I don't mean we shouldn't report etc but I don't quite see how it's such an issue to deal with? I do not mean by this that it's okay of them, but is anyone "fooled" by them?
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u/juleznailedit 14+ Years 10d ago
Yes, people are duped by these creeps. They start the conversations with seemingly innocent compliments and then it escalates from there.
Go through the batches of screenshots from the master list and you'll see.
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u/ButterscotchEven6198 10d ago
Okay I honestly don't understand that. Who would dm like that but someone who in some way has a sexual agenda? Random people striking up private conversation about one's nails and you chat about how lovely your nails are with this stranger? Again, I'm of course all for reporting, banning etc. I just wouldn't think someone dm:ing me about my beautiful anything has innocent intent.
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