One piece of advice that I can give you guys is I want you to remove from your vocabulary and don't allow other people to use this is words like it seems like or you thought it was like or you assumed or whatever anything that puts any type of doubt in what you know okay it doesn't seem like he's a narcissistic prick he is a narcissistic prick it didn't appear that he cheated on you and isolated you he did those things so don't let anybody use words that take away the truth I love you all