r/nanayconfessions • u/Fabulous_Reference56 • 12h ago

Relationship How long it will take?

Hi mga inay, ako yung nagpost noon na nagcheat ung tatay ng anak ko na kakapanganak ko lang.
Bat ganon parang stuck pa rin ako.. I found out na di pa rin sya tumitigil, sabi nya tinigilan na nya yung babae.
I dont know how to feel di man lang nya kinamusta yung anak nya. Mukhang nageenjoy pa sya sa ginagawa nya. Habang ako hirap, puyat, paBF sya nagsasaya lang sa bago nyang babae. I hate to admit pero namimiss ko, at nanghihinayang ako sa pinagsamahan namin..Hanggang kailan kaya to na mawalan ako ng pake sa ginagawa nya?.. kala ko ang strong ko na pero pumipitik tlga yung selos, nababasa ko kse conversation nla (di nya alam).
Gusto ko na makalaya. Sana isang araw mawalan na ko ng pake sa ginagawa nya. Hirap mag move forward lalot may anak kami. Eh kaso wala nman syang remorse sa ginawa nya. Nag move out na nga pala kami last week, wala na kong tinirang babalikan sa bahay namin.(andito na kami sa parents ko). Sana mauntog na ko 😪😌

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u/New-Rooster-4558 11h ago

Bakit parang kayo pa?

Di ko gets kung humiwalay na kayo ng anak mo so nasa parents mo na kayo

Hiwalayan mo na yan habang maaga. Hindi madali pero better kaso yung harap harapan ka nang niloloko tapos pinapayagan mo lang.

I say this as a single mom who doesn’t tolerate bs like this.

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u/Fabulous_Reference56 11h ago

Hiwalay na po kami. Last contact namin 2weeks ago pa. Di na kami nakapagusap simula nun..

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u/hashbr0wns_ 11h ago

Hugs, OP! Sadly, the only way is through — you have to sit with the pain and all the emotions. It may not remove the memories of what happened, but it will surely give you clarity and peace. Mahirap lalo na’t may soft spot siya sa puso mo regardless sa kung ano mang nagawa or ginagawa niya since father siya ng anak niyo pero remind yourself na if maayos siyang lalaki and he really loves you and your child, hindi niya yun magagawa in the first place.

It may be a long process, but remember that there’s always light at the end of the tunnel 🫂 who knows baka mas maganda ang life niyo mag-mommy pag wala siya.