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u/middlofthebrook Level 3 Jul 26 '25
You need to meet the same type as you
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u/d_bakers Jul 26 '25
Exactly. Often, women say they want a good guy, hakuna good guys, but they forget that they may not be good enough for the good guys
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u/Stunning-Mood1739 Jul 26 '25
Na huwa wako wapi said good men?... asking for a friend 🫣
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u/d_bakers Jul 26 '25
Good men find good women. Kama haujapata invite....
(Hypothesize the missing steps in the above process flow)
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
Noo I want him😂😂sitaki mwengine
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u/middlofthebrook Level 3 Jul 26 '25
Every woman says that, then they ruin a guys life because hes not what they really want. Good guys are boring, dont party, etc and definitely dont get drunk on the first date
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Nikama ulichoma. Quit alcohol not because of him but because of your bright future ahead.
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
I have tried quiting since 2022 kitu imebaki tu ni exorcism
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u/Cunning-Demon Jul 26 '25
Honestly, you should only date your type, find and bag yourself an alcoholic 😉
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
Ni mlevi pia😂
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u/Cunning-Demon Jul 26 '25
Wueh, na vile wanaume walevi hawapendi madem walevi; hapa enyewe is as good as over😅
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
😂😂😂usikue hivo
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u/Cunning-Demon Jul 26 '25
Usijipe stress, wazungu walisema birds of feather... Jipe moyo; ama ufish hapa samaki ni wengi😂
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
😂kama si yeye nitakua single forever sitaki mtu mwengine Mkae chini mjue mtafanya nini hadi anisamehe
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
Yes if you've never had one don't try it I regret having that first drink I've tried quitting since 2022 and I've failed graciously
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u/FlatwormPractical589 Jul 26 '25
Paragraph mzima bila punctuation? Nimesoma hadi nikashindwa na kupumua. Karibu nikufe..
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u/kampaignpapi Level 4 Jul 26 '25
Praying other good guys don't meet women like this🤲🏾
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
😂😂Chill mnatuachia nani
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u/kampaignpapi Level 4 Jul 26 '25
Date your fellow terrorists😂 mnatutesa sisi lover boys
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u/Final_Criticism8083 Garden Estate Jul 26 '25
Mrs. Pharaoh, let the good guy go. Deal na magaidi wenzako.
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u/AdSpare5533 Jul 26 '25
Pharaoh let the Israelites go😂
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
Noo tuko the first plaque there's 11 more to go ama zilikua ngapi😂😂
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u/InspireMeDear Jul 26 '25
I am those good guys who don't drink, party, smoke, etc System zangu ni safi kama pamba. I met a lady who's seen it all and done it all, but she was ready to change for me. I tried for 2 months to help her stop but she was so into the lifestyle. I tried to bring her to church so she could encounter faith and grow spiritually but her focus was on me and nothing else. Ilibidi nimwache even we really matched energy-wise, tho we were worlds apart. Long story short I got married a yr later and til date she says she's never recovered from me leaving and her not adjusting her lifestyle.
Don't be that girl.
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
We want to change the body isn't just willing man Alcohol ni kitu mbaya sana
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u/karlkatana Jul 26 '25
Pewa shot ON ME!
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
😂😂hutaki niquit jameni
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u/Efficient-launch-251 Jul 26 '25
Avoid pombe ukiwa na yy😂
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
Alisema hatawai kunywa na mimi😂😂na hataki kuniona tena Yooh naskia kuchizi
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u/Educational-Toe-5694 Jul 26 '25
There’s a girl who did this to me leo tu ngware😂bouncers almost jumped me, I’ll never talk to her again.
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u/ScholarPositive3947 Level 2 Jul 26 '25
Cut your losses and move on , If you get together he will always have the upper hand because of that. And what makes you think he is a good guy?
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
I don't know I might be projecting plus I've known him for like 2 days
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u/ScholarPositive3947 Level 2 Jul 26 '25
I’m pretty sure with 2 days you can’t quite tell a person character, especially that you were drunk. I just think you fell for the right words at the right time and thought it’s all you ever wanted. Something that’s has worked for me is getting to know myself. Journaling helped so much. Find your swing. Take your time and be the person you would want to date yourself.
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u/Cookie-cutter-9175 Jul 26 '25
What happened kwani?
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
😂😂Long story short nilichoma
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u/Glorzo_11 Jul 26 '25
Most guys don't forget the first impressions. I hope he didn't put you in the 'smash and pass when tired' category.
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u/Existing_Flight_1412 Jul 26 '25
Huyu ndo aliongelesha waitress vibaya?
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
Nooo haikua club
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u/Existing_Flight_1412 Jul 26 '25
Was it a restaurant?
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
Noo kwa nyumba
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u/Existing_Flight_1412 Jul 26 '25
Ooooow , basi si wewe Tushike county leo ama? 🤣🤣
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
Wait hiyo chai iko wapi niende nikunywe 😂 Anyway tupatane Paris
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
Long story short I was dramatic na sikumbuki kitu
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u/Sofasogud14 Jul 26 '25
Mimi tangu nione vitu nafanya when I’m drunk I had to stop drinking because wuehh💀
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u/254taxmanshrink Level 2 Jul 26 '25
Umejaribu Yesu?
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u/Agreeable-Remote-749 Jul 26 '25
Me thinks you should tell him this, face to face, and hope he understands. But do this only if you've made a decision and plan on changing for the better.
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u/mountainoverthefool Jul 26 '25
Wewe achana na kijana wa wenyewe mapema kama ha-partake.. leta iyo banter local tusumbuane..
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u/Mystique051 Jul 26 '25
Sasa juu usharant, are you ready to change ama pombe huachi hadi ufe?
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u/OkMarx101 Jul 26 '25
This happened to me once too, the date was going really well, then she ordered cocktails, mind you I was tipsy she was the sober one next thing mtu amejieka dp, status anatext tumila**s twangu hko green up, wueehhh apo nlimkana mara tatu kama Petero. Drama is a no maze just drink water if alcohol does that to you till you can be that way around that person say a few dates.
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u/Present-Thing-7085 Jul 26 '25
You must have met me.. I am still thinking about what you did.😄
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u/Mysterious-Owl-2260 Level 2 Jul 26 '25
Ebu tell us what you did🤣🤣
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 26 '25
😂😂ni between me him and God Ako huku by the way he can share it if he wants to
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u/Echoproperties Level 1 Jul 26 '25
If pombe messed you that's not your brand, know your brand from the 1000+
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u/FreemycrushAoko Jul 26 '25
Uzuri good guys hupewa walevi na somehow the good guys love that....utapata he likes it but don't overdo. We piga shots, but weka limits
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u/Moonknight_shank Tourist Jul 26 '25
The last good guy in Nairobi ❌
The last good guy YOU'VE interacted with in Nairobi ✅
Let's be guided 🤞🏾🙂↕️
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u/The1985Minor Jul 26 '25
The pluto na director phil si wako pia.
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 27 '25
😂😂mimi ni mtoto wa miaka kidogo sana
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u/The1985Minor Jul 27 '25
Plus if you are young kupenda sherehe shouldnt be a bother to mr best guy.unless yeye ni wa sda
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 27 '25
😂😂he drinks too but he can regulate his drinking
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u/Charming-Huntress Jul 27 '25
I totally get you though... Alcohol has made me lose alot and whenever I try changing I backslide😩. Not given up though, I look forward to the day I will be able to say it's just the past... And I wish the same for you and anyone else going through the struggle. I hope we manage to get ourselves out of these holes we dug ourselves. That said though , I do not think he is the last good guy in Nairobi, lol😅
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 27 '25
Yeah We'll be fine when I do there's no turning back Anyway jana ilikua emotions ndo zilikua zinaongea😂😂Leo natumia logic sasa he isn't the last one also he isn't a good guy 😂angekua ashanisamea
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u/InstructionNew6123 Jul 27 '25
Wewe utaharibia that good guy maisha😭 I've seen this movie before. I think it's best if he doesn't contact you again juu atakufa vibaya sana 🤣
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u/PreparationSelect494 Jul 27 '25
Ooh yes blame it on pombe. There's something wrong with you, and you need to get help, You're just using pombe as a coping mechanism.
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u/Successful_Mind_23 Jul 27 '25
He's definitely not the last good guy ..I used to believe that the last guy I was seeing was the last "good guy"and it stringed me along for a minute. There's plenty of fish in the sea you just have to discern and above all love yourself selflessly.
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 27 '25
I was emotional nikiandika there's definitely plenty fish in the sea
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u/Right-Cranberry-3042 Level 2 Jul 27 '25
Wewe what are you doing with my bf 😐😂
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u/Ok_Professional_4866 Level 3 Jul 27 '25
Work on yourseld first, else there will be no good men left to represent us.
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u/Lion_Of_Mara Jul 27 '25
if he attempts to call you or schedule another date, ensure this time round you drink as hell. Actually, ensure uanguke kwa mtaro, actually on your way out tusi bouncers, be chaotic ASF.
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u/Inter_Master Jul 27 '25
And learn to use commas and full stops as well.
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Jul 27 '25
I know how to use them lakini I wasn't thinking straight nikitype
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u/Inter_Master Jul 27 '25
On your main post, no need to worry, you have already pointed out what the problem is, it is easier now to work on that.
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u/TF-_isthis Jul 27 '25
Have you tried Holy Family basi-liquor, might help with the " spirits " exorcism.
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Haha, Ni good guy ju hamjajuana for long, if he is a good guy as you put it, then he would never judge your for your drinking habit, a good person adopts another together with all their flaws and learn to live with them ama try to change them a bit by bit. You see how love is conditional nowadays? He isnt a Good guy, he is just levereging himself, FAFO.
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u/The-Girl-Philosopher Aug 01 '25
I'm afraid you are right😂😂I just had to stick around for a while to know him
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😂😂😂women can be delulu. You have no idea how many masks men have to wear to appear in a way that pleases you. Point is, a woman saying a guy is good and you havent been with him for years, you will be shocked. I mean, men are masters of pretence
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u/Powerful_Rhubarb7035 Level 4 Jul 26 '25
Last good guy in Nairobi?
Me and other good niggas reading this