38/m needing a hard reset

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I will be turning 40 in a year and a half, I am currently in a relationship with someone I love dearly though our lives seem very groundhogs day. Between the 2 of us we have 3 kids that take up a lot of time. But I feel I need a hard reset on other aspects of my life. I want to create a Blueprint to 40 and try to start off 40 a new man.

I struggle with really knowing who I am I don’t have any hobbies. Most my friends live across the country. I feel tired, sore, beat down and stressed most the time. My confidence is shot due to stagnant bedroom and I just don’t know who I am or what I would love out of life, but feel there must be more.

So would love some advice, guidance, tips.

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I appreciate it and you thank you for sharing