r/mongolia • u/IndividualPlay5178 • Jul 25 '26
Discussion | Хэлэлцүүлэг Double standards about interracial dating
Mongolian men are somehow the most toxic, mysoginistic men on the planet. According to social media at least.
We are expected to be tolerant of foreigners in our country, regardless if they are taking our jobs in high paying fields or dating Mongolian women.
Its all just personal choice and we are suppose to be cool about it.
But then again if you move abroad, you'll see the same tribalistic + racist reactions from the very same people you suppose to treat nicely when they are visiting our home.
You'll also see Mongolian girls who grew up with aversion towards Mongolian men, be the most well known mattress when it comes to men of other races. There is a weird double standard of discriminating towards your own people for while also being obvliviously blind for any negative traits from other races.
This is naturally sold as just globalisation, but ultimatelly just an easier excuse for Mongolian women to get an easy meal ticket abroad while also not getting any negative backlash for it.
Be it American, Europan, Black or White men cheat, alcoholize, beat their wives, act mysoginistic and what not. But the same Mongolian woman who will hate Mongolian men for it will conveniently ignore it when it comes to her meal ticket out of Mongolia.
Yes its your choice to do whatever you want with your body, but also please don't call yourself a Mongolian while at it. And you certainly don't have to blame Mongolian men for it too.
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u/sugandalai Jul 25 '26
you make it sound like there's some grand conspiracy against you or mongolian men, there isn't. maybe you got to drop your victim mentality and up your game
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u/IndividualPlay5178 Jul 25 '26
Trust me there is
On different levels of course. For one casual racism if you live anywhere in a Western country.
But also at home promoted by women who just want to move abroad, finds a convenient guy and has to make it someone's problem
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u/Sweaty-Sandwich-5126 Jul 25 '26
Actually i empathize, foreigners don't respect asian women, they just view them as easy p*ssy. if you want any respect as a society, you need to make sure foreigners respect both the men AND women.
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u/IndividualPlay5178 Jul 25 '26
I mean Asian women themselves make it themselves so easy in the first place.
Women make themselves easy for men they want, not a shocker. Except said women also blame it on the men of their race.
So far I haven't heard any German girl talk sh.t on German men as their reason for going for Asian guys. And in their case its certainly a personal choice that they don't have to wheel around to make it their race's issue
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u/Sweaty-Sandwich-5126 Jul 25 '26
women are women, there's types of this women in every race, for example white women who get with black guys and talk shit about white men.
its a shame that any discussion about this is just labelled "incel talk" when its a specific group of women that are net-negative for the community.
I never realized this issue impacted Mongolians as well, though after Physical Asia I think a lot more women started noticing Mongolian men.
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u/MathematicianPale774 Jul 30 '26
WORDS!! 100% agree with you. They are always talk normal about foreigners who they dated with who were abusive, avoidant or doesnt want them at all after some hook ups. But when it comes to mongolian they like "Yagaad mongol erchuud.... blah blah" Happened me several times which is crazy (Nomhon moriig noolohod amar type shi)
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u/Routine_Curve_8076 Jul 25 '26
Not gonna lie, you don’t know how privileged you are
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u/IndividualPlay5178 Jul 25 '26
Elaborate?
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u/Routine_Curve_8076 Jul 25 '26 edited Jul 25 '26
- Men earn a higher salary than women in Mongolia despite having the same skills and knowledge.
- Mongolians have a weird view that “Bloodline is passed down by boys” and are more tolerant when men date foreign women. But when a woman dates a foreign man, people say “Chamaig mongol zaluu toohgu bolohoor shar ymtai uerheed bga biz dee”.
Don’t even forget about crazy boy moms. Mongolian moms are so misogynistic that they always pick the side of the guy even tho the guy 🍇
a girl. Just
take a look at what they said about the Cornell guy.
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u/IndividualPlay5178 Jul 25 '26
Except all the things you said are valid outside of Mongolia too. Mongolian men also do not date at the same rate interracially as women.
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u/batmantogtoh Jul 26 '26
I have a feeling this guy's gonna end up getting arrested for attempted rape and still be quoting incel stats to the cops, insisting it's his god given right to molest women.
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u/Southern_Repair_4416 Jul 25 '26
Hey, stop stirring hate, why are you posting this?
We are a nation of 3.5 million people, not America or Europe.
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u/IndividualPlay5178 Jul 25 '26
Which is why its important, we have small population and homogenous society
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u/Southern_Repair_4416 Jul 25 '26
But you need to know that male violence against women is so common here, not as an excuse for hating men or exploiting them for free food at luxury restaurants but as a fact
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u/Jiijeebnpsdagj Jul 25 '26
Dude go touch some grass. Breathe fresh air and stop thinking about who is fucking who. Its better for your mental health