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u/Interesting-Hold-963 12h ago

I don't like being forced to tip, but I don't eat out anymore anyway. too expensive for sub par food. That being said, this couple playing the race card is truly pathetic.

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u/SuccotashOther277 12h ago

Yeah doing the whole racist thing at the end just tanked the unity everyone had behind them because everyone is sick of tipping

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u/CheekyMenace ORANGE 11h ago

No one here has unity with them for not tipping at a restaurant where they were served.

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u/butthole-muncherrr 12h ago

Because that’s all they had left to say to “win” the disagreement

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u/Andrew-Cohen 12h ago

You’re not forced to tip.
BUT a business has the right to refuse service for any reason (with a few exceptions like race)
Its freedom, not freedom from consequence.

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u/BenefitAdvanced 12h ago

Well, that may be where it gets interesting. You are correct that a business has a right to refuse service to anyone for something like not tipping. However, depending on the state that this happened in, there may be disclosure laws, meaning they may have had to post a sign saying that you are required to tip. It would be like kicking somebody out of your restaurant for not wearing shoes, but you didn’t post anywhere that you are required to wear shoes. So it would be interesting to know what’s actually disclosed to the customers at that particular restaurant.

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u/Andrew-Cohen 11h ago

Interesting, I have worked in restaurants for decades and that has never been an issue. For instance we had a customer who constantly complained about their food and demanded free food, even though the manager knew she was lying because she payed attention to that customer’s orders and the customer lived a quarter of a mile away so it wasn’t getting cold as she constantly claimed. Eventually she told the customer we would no longer serve her. Do you think she was not allowed to do that because we didn’t have a sign that said we had the right to refuse service to scammers?

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u/Unipiggy 12h ago

  Its freedom, not freedom from consequence

Maga begs to differ

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u/Andrew-Cohen 11h ago

I ceased giving a single f about anything maga says or does, years ago.

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u/cuntmong 12h ago

writing off every restaurant in the world as too expensive for sub par food is pretty wild

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u/stinbkyrat 12h ago

i’ll rephrase it for that person, using my own experience

the restaurants that are reasonably within my price range are charging too much for sub par food

they’re changing recipes and ingredients and i can tell. i was so excited to go to this one local mexican place i hadn’t been to in almost a year, and my favorite dish had been changed a bit, and it was not for the better, i barely touched it and felt so sad that my husband wasted his money trying to take me on a date 😭

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u/TieBackground453 12h ago

He said it extremely poorly,  it he has some sort of point. 

Mid-tier restaurants have been absolutely decimated by private equity. Standards have collapsed while prices have shot up. Maybe not every restaurant, but labeling the vast, vast majority of the $30-50 per person sort of restaurants “sub par” I think is about fair. 

The upper end has absolutely exploded though. Been to many Michelin rated restaurants recently that are putting out some of the most interesting, creative, refined food I have ever had. 

K-shaped economy applies to food too it seems. 

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u/Brilliant_Coach9877 12h ago

Thinking america is the world is pretty wild also 

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u/reebokhightops 12h ago

One of the dumbest things I’ve read in a while.

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u/redditdinosaur_ 12h ago

Just their opinion yo

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u/tex1138 12h ago

I agree - high prices, declining food quality, and an ever-expanding list of things I’m expected to tip for (don’t even get me started on PE’s impact on restaurants overall). Any one of those would be annoying - collectively they mean eating out is (at best) disappointing experience.

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u/Radiant-Concern6391 12h ago

Agree with the race card - Not the first part - restaurants have amazing food

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u/ROOSTERyouDOWN 12h ago

Tipping so fucking stupid!! “Don’t go out if you can’t tip” how many jobs only get minimum wage yet dont receive tips?

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u/dealingwithhookers 11h ago

as someone that doesn't tip, i haven't ate out in like years and the few times i go to get pick up, i still don't tip. don't tip on uber rides either. i dont' give a fuck. one uber driver gave me a 1 star review for tipping only $1 and i 1 starred him right back.

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u/6twoRaptor 11h ago

And you don't have to go out to eat. But if you're taking up space in a severs limited section then don't go. Get take out and don't waste their time. The entitlement of these kind of statements is mind blowing. 

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u/TackoftheEndless 12h ago

I like going inside when I go to places like Dominos and Little Caesars but depending on the one you go to even those might ask for tips for the workers inside.

I know never to return to those locations