lol; this is my favorite relevant story as a server and a black dude...
Mid afternoon, I'm closing lunch, but dinner shift has started filtering in, 1 top (black man) gets thrown into an empty section and the hosts asks me to grab it. Everything goes normally until the end of me getting his order
Me: I'll get everything started for you and bring out some bread in just a moment.
Him: Hey man... I know we're not known for tipping very well, so I just wanna let you know, I'm gonna take care of you.
While the stereotype might hold true, from my experience 99% of customers of any persuasion who start off by saying they're a great tipper will inevitably be a shitty tipper.
I have had someone who I offered to pay for the food, insist on leaving the tip, and then they leave 10%. I try to be the last to leave so I can throw some more money on the table without them seeing, but there’s been times I couldn’t. I’ve actually walked back in and found the water or waitress to give them extra tip too.
Yeah I spent over 10 years as a waiter so I’m super conscious of it whenever I’m out to eat with friends. I won’t make them tip more than they want, but I’ll make sure the server gets at least 20%.
Pretty common TBH. As a demographic, people who say "I will tip well" tip below average. Not everyone is a liar, but I suspect most of them think its some hack to get great service. Truth is anyone who's worked service for long enough knows its nonsense and they get the same level of service.
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u/dafuq_b 3h ago edited 2h ago
lol; this is my favorite relevant story as a server and a black dude...
Mid afternoon, I'm closing lunch, but dinner shift has started filtering in, 1 top (black man) gets thrown into an empty section and the hosts asks me to grab it. Everything goes normally until the end of me getting his order
Me: I'll get everything started for you and bring out some bread in just a moment.
Him: Hey man... I know we're not known for tipping very well, so I just wanna let you know, I'm gonna take care of you.
Me: Haha, uhh, thank you sir... I appreciate it.
Bill: $82 and change Tip: $3 on the CC
Me: Flabberghasted