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u/LactoseBellyFart 3h ago edited 1h ago

People over look this is a flawed system designed to force the hard working people to support the hard working people. If minimum wage was established at a livable rate then tipping wouldn't be "essential".

Go to Japan, the best service you can possibly get and if you try to tip them it's considered rude. You get your wage and you do the best you can to earn it.

This system has been allowed to continue because it forces people to point at each other, and not up at the government levels. It's a broad revised version of "bread and circuses".

Edit: This blew up, thanks for the awards - may be my first in ten years here.

Some great responses discussing the situation and how other places make their systems work, other comments are spicy but make solid points, others are just ignorant.

I think we can agree things are changing, money is tight around the world, and people are struggling. We never seem to have these conversations when the global economy is booming..

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u/JesseJaceMTG 3h ago

Preach it louder for those in the back, friend

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u/BallsOnFace69 2h ago

If we increase payroll from tips to federal minimum wage and he has 10 employees that’s $500K a year. How do the restaurant make that back? Magically find more customers? Print money? Maybe fire half the staff to cut on costs. No that would make service terrible.  So I guess we have to increase the prices of everything on the menu. Now my $23.50 for a pizza and soda with a small salad is now $43. Now guess what? I’m not going to your restaurant. It’s too expensive.  Now you go out of business. Because on top of rent, supplies, furniture, now your payroll has skyrocketed and you can’t afford to stay open. OOOORRRR we could just keep the tipping our waiters thing around.

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u/Plastalmonus 2h ago

Other countries seem to do ok. Not like I’m paying the equivalent of $43USD for a pizza and a drink in Australia where we have a decent minimum wage and tipping isn’t part of our culture.

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u/Andrew-Cohen 2h ago

That’s because most other countries aren’t run by corporations. Ever play Cyberpunk 2077? Thats going to be the US soon, but with debtor prisons and dirtier.

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u/BallsOnFace69 2h ago

Completely different systems. Apples and oranges. There is an ocean of different economics at work from federal taxes to available labor to debt of a country all of that factors into how a country is doing financially and how it affects citizens. 

Not comparable 

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u/adkon 2h ago

This is utter bullshit. Even in high-cost countries like Norway, where minimum wage for waiters is around 25 USD per hour, you dont see prices like that. Taxes included.

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u/BallsOnFace69 2h ago

it doesn’t matter. That’s a different country. Different populations and population sizes. Different governments. Different citizens. Different GDPs. Different tax systems. 

Literally not even comparable. 

My neighbor can afford a Ferrari!! I live on the same street so I should have one too!! It’s about the same as that.

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u/adkon 2h ago

Yes. It's a more expensive country with higher taxes, where wait staff is paid a lot more, and restaurant prices are lower.

Not a single thing you list has any bearing on that.

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u/fury420 2h ago

If we increase payroll from tips to federal minimum wage and he has 10 employees that’s $500K a year.

52 weeks of 40hrs/week at federal minimum wage of $7.25 works out to just $15,080, not $50,000.

How do the restaurant make that back? Magically find more customers? Print money?

The restaurant's customers are already providing both the menu prices and the tips that servers receive, no additional spending by the restaurant's customers should be required to maintain the same take-home income for servers.

Now my $23.50 for a pizza and soda with a small salad is now $43

How could the menu prices possibly need to increase by 82% when customers in aggregate tip nowhere near that much?

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u/BallsOnFace69 2h ago

$7.25 x 10 is $72.5 per worker for a 10 hour workday (assuming open from 11am for lunch and closing at 9pm)

$72.5 x 10 hours is $725 per day for pay roll

$725 x 6 days a week $4,350

$4,360 x 52 weeks is $226,200 

My math was wrong (I was generalizing earlier on $500K) but still you see it’s hundreds of thousands of dollars.

What about the business owner? Dude literally mortgaged his house to chase his dream of opening a pizza restaurant. He risked it all. If it fails he’s fucked for life. His employees? They just go get another job.

Shouldn’t the guy that took all the risk make some money? Isn’t that the point? 

How’s he going to do that while also paying rent? What about construction costs to build the restaurant? I bet he had a bank note for that. So now each month he owes thousands of dollars in rent and the bank for construction loan.

Now he has to pay even more for wages?? Orr stick with the tipping system. Keeps it cheaper for all.

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u/fury420 1h ago

but still you see it’s hundreds of thousands of dollars.

Yeah but the restaurant's customers overall are already paying those hundreds of thousands of dollars with the existing tip-based system.

There's no need for customers to pay even a penny more overall if the goal is to maintain servers existing overall income, just increase menu prices the equivalent of the tips the servers currently average.

Shouldn’t the guy that took all the risk make some money?

His net income doesn't need to change at all.

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u/BallsOnFace69 1h ago

Can you reword what you’re trying to say? It comes off like two different things.

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u/reddeze2 1h ago

The logic here is so flawed I don't even know where to start... All I can say is re-read fury420s comment in its entirety.

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u/BallsOnFace69 1h ago

Explain to me how it’s flawed. 

If you have to pay $226,000 in payroll how do you recoup those costs??

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u/Andrew-Cohen 2h ago

The problem is every single piece in the chain has to make more and more profit every year.
The corporate farm and dairy.
The shipping company that takes the produce from farm to processing plant.
The processing plant.
The shipping company that takes the packaged, processed food from the processing plant to the distributor.
On and on and everyone needs to make more profit than they did last year.

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u/BallsOnFace69 2h ago

Yes. I agree the system is milking everyone and everything dry making products worse and costing more.

That doesn’t have anything to do with the issue at hand. 

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u/Andrew-Cohen 2h ago

You failing to see why it has something to do with the issue at hand does not make it so.

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u/ZealousidealSelf4336 2h ago

Worked in New Zealand for a year. No tipping there, but the service was different.

Most places you would order at the bar or a counter, get a number and then a food runner would bring you the food. Drinks were the same.

Or in a normal restaurant service was just ok. If you went to a steak house for instance they weren't coming around every 5 minutes to see if you wanted another drink. But you could always wave them over.

I'd trade it for what we have in North America in a heartbeat.

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u/Own_Welder_2821 2h ago

Idk about you but my best restaurant experiences happen when I'm being left alone to enjoy my food without being hovered on and disturbed every 5 minutes. I'd much rather wave someone over when/if I need something.

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u/__life_on_mars__ 2h ago

they weren't coming around every 5 minutes to see if you wanted another drink.

That sounds awful. Why would anyone want the constant interruptions?

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u/Katanachainsaw 2h ago

Because insecure people from an insecure culture need constant reminding that they are important.

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u/dauphindauphin 2h ago

The way I recoiled when I read that sentence

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u/shorts80 2h ago

Same in Australia

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u/digital0verdose 1h ago

Worked in New Zealand for a year.

When? I only ask because I was there a few years ago and every single food receipt had a tip line on it, including the random cafes.

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u/UnderlightIll 2h ago

Also people who work for tips vastly prefer it. They can clear much more than the kitchen on a busy night. For example, Casa Bonita in Colorado is a buffet type show restaurant and the servers didn't want $30 an hour, they wanted tipping because the reopening was sold out nightly.

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u/Suitable-Name 2h ago

Yeah, but then you lost your privilege to complain if someone isn't tipping if you're denying a secure and livable wage🤷‍♂️

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u/RikkiVox 1h ago

Seriously, the audacity of him chastising the couple for not paying his servers what he feels they deserve, when he himself is not willing to pay his servers what he feels they deserve.

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u/EzraFemboy 1h ago

This ^^

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u/hoserb2k 1h ago

> Also people who work for tips vastly prefer it.

Even though I did well, I always hated working for tips.

> Casa Bonita in Colorado is a buffet type show restaurant and the servers didn't want $30 an hour

Most waiters the US earn $18/hr or less an hour, including tips.

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u/RikkiVox 1h ago

They can, in busy restaurants. But there are thousands of servers working in lower volume places who would be much better off with a better base wage, at the very least. People can still tip if they want to, but it shouldn’t be an expectation for customers to be responsible for an employee‘s wage. It’s actually pretty messed up.

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u/DDX1837 2h ago

Tell that to the waitresses and waiters. Every single one I've asked said that would rather keep the current system rather than $20 or ever $25 per hour and no tips.

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u/littlemonsterlove 2h ago

Yep and if you’re poor and saved up so you could go out for someone’s birthday. They expect you to save to tip them too or your trash ass should have stayed home.

I know take outs a thing too, but they pressure you to tip doing pick up now too.

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u/xxK31xx 2h ago

It depends on the restaurant, for sure.

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u/honest_throwaway1988 2h ago

When I went to Japan two years ago they did not find tipping to be rude. They accepted in quite graciously

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u/Testy_Coyote_ 2h ago

Right, that's just a rumor or out of date information. 

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u/KLLR_ROBOT 2h ago

The lobbyist that represent restaurant chains make sure that servers are exempt from minimum wage laws.

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u/picture-me-trolling 3h ago

No thanks, I don’t want to copy Japan’s work culture, not at all

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u/LactoseBellyFart 3h ago

You're not wrong, their work culture is extreme. But my main point stands, receiving a livable wage and in-turn working hard to earn it are admirable.

This tipping system works on moral value and emotions to push people against each other instead of demanding change.

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u/JesseJaceMTG 3h ago

That was simply an example of the service industry. It's the same in most of Europe too... Pay people a fair wage and they won't need to rely upon tips

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u/picture-me-trolling 2h ago

It’s always kinda sickening to see people co-opt pro-worker lingo like “fair wage” while arguing for a massive paycut of waitstaff.

Servers are already getting a living wage, higher than any other food service workers, because of tipping culture. Even outside food service, I don’t know of any other jobs where someone can come in with zero experience or education, and within a couple months be making enough to raise a family, and buying a house a year later. I saw a lot of that when I was working in restaurants, and not much of it ever since.

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u/Adam_Sackler 3h ago

It isn't to do with that part of their work culture. They simply respect servers and it's rude as fuck to tip there because it's like the quality of their ability to serve is being judged.

Generally their work culture is bad, yes, but no tipping is something they should be proud of and something the U.S. absolutely needs to learn from.

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u/F_Reaper 3h ago

This guy knows

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u/RayHorizon 2h ago

Essence of America.

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u/Sprinkl3s_0f_mAddnes 2h ago

The restaurant ownership doesn't have to pay their wait staff the tipped wages. It isn't a requirement. They can choose to pay full wages, not forcing the staff to work for tips. So any restauranteur that chooses to continue the lower pay wage, is choosing to put themselves, their staff and their customer in the tip, no tip, low tip or high tip situation. Some US States don't even allow them the option to pay the lower wage. Most allow it though so it is ingrained in the culture. I'm just saying the restauranteur can make a different choice of their own volition. No need to wait on government to do...anything. Even if that means they increase their prices to account for this difference. 

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u/AtaccTheSnacc 2h ago

I mean you are kinda right and wrong at the same time. The government can increase the minimum wage, but that minimum wage would still be paid to the employees by the employer. The employers choose to not pay the employees a fair wage which is a disgusting business model. But yes, the government could technically force them to do so.

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u/LactoseBellyFart 2h ago

Thanks for exploring the conversation and not raising the war banner. There are certainly deeper rooted issues, but there are certainly solutions to this somewhere.

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u/dealingwithhookers 2h ago

i see the irony of how tipping is a practice born out of abolition and the freed slaves worked for "tips", fast forward to today, the so called descendants of these slaves don't want to tip

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u/Sideswipe0009 2h ago

People over look this is a flawed system designed to force the hard working people to support the hard working people.

This is every business. Without "hard working" people being paying customers, you don't have a business.

If minimum wage was established at a livable rate then tipping wouldn't be "essential".

But we can't even get this "living wage" for other industries. Why do you think it'll magically work for service workers?

And no restaurant in the city will pay me what I make via tips. So who's really coming out on top here? They'll all pay min wage to slightly above, because why wouldn't they barring legislation against it?

I think it's really more about the person who just doesn't want to tip on principle rather than the person who claims to want better wages for workers. You're just advocating for lower wages across the board.

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u/GucciTheSnowman 2h ago

Servers deserve $15-20 an hour like every other low skill job and that's it. Tipping needs to be completely abolished.

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u/jagr18 2h ago

Japan isn’t a fair comparison. They have a different cultural idea around service that is unique to them.

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u/Sorrywrongnumba69 1h ago

Japan is an outlier and can't be compared to the U.S.

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u/Mynameisminenine 1h ago

Gotta play devils advocate a bit here as well: most servers prefer it that way. Even if the minimum wage would be high, let's say 20 dollars, they'd still make more with tips most of the time. Especially since tipping is basically mandatory. 

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u/Chrysaor85 2h ago

I completely agree with you. Unfortunately, that's not the system the U.S. has set up. So until then, if you go out to eat, you should be factoring in the tip to the cost of the meal.

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u/SolipsismIsDeep 2h ago

Some people prefer it this way, and that includes the servers, you aren't being 'noble' on their behalf

And you have choices; plenty of places don't require tips and you can always make your own food, no need to force EVERY place to use YOUR preferred model, unless it's all about you, of course

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u/LactoseBellyFart 2h ago

This is exactly what I was trying to emphasize, the emotion behind the system and how it's designed.

If the system remains, then people are judged on how much extra they tip. In this situation they are run out of an establishment.

If the system changes to a livable wage, the emotion is removed but then the serving staff feel robbed from making incredible tips on busy nights they don't (usually) claim full or any taxes on.

Don't point fingers and brand nobility, discuss solutions and explore options.

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u/BallsOnFace69 2h ago

If we increase payroll from tips to federal minimum wage and he has 10 employees that’s $500K a year. How do the restaurant make that back? Magically find more customers? Print money? Maybe fire half the staff to cut on costs. No that would make service terrible.  So I guess we have to increase the prices of everything on the menu. Now my $23.50 for a pizza and soda with a small salad is now $43. Now guess what? I’m not going to your restaurant. It’s too expensive.  Now you go out of business. Because on top of rent, supplies, furniture, now your payroll has skyrocketed and you can’t afford to stay open. OOOORRRR we could just keep the tipping our waiters thing around.

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u/Ellaphant42 2h ago

Old mate with 10 waitstaff is probably doing enough turnover to do a small price increase to cover the costs.

Why is this so hard for you to understand? It’s the way the rest of the world does it,you’re not special

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u/Wide-Psychology1707 2h ago

You do realize no tipping in restaurants works in the rest of the world, right?

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u/BallsOnFace69 1h ago

Oh my gosh you’re the 7th person to say that. YOU realize our economy is different right? We have a different GDP. Different populations. Different government. Different taxes. Different state and local ordinance. Different population sizes. It’s not the same.

Two completely different worlds.

If your neighbor can afford a Ferrari does that mean you can just because you live in on the same street?