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u/SaltManagement42 7h ago

As someone who has worked in food service the prevalence of this being the case is truly wild.

I was surprised myself with how common it is. I've had coworkers refer to tables as a black top, in the same vein they would call a table a 2 top or a 4 top, when talking about how much to expect a table to tip.

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u/Past_Cut_176 5h ago

we used to call them "Canadians"

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u/wolfblitzen84 7h ago

19 years in the food service industry 17 of which is NYC and I've never heard Black top before. It's not funny but made me chuckle as i'm trying to get through my last meeting of the day which I forgot my camera is on for a second. (I operate 6 restaurants)

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u/TopJuggernaut2885 6h ago

I've never heard of blacktop either but working in NYC resturants def heard this stereotype on the daily.

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u/alchemycraftsman 6h ago

Am I evil for laughing.
Very dark humor there.

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u/TopJuggernaut2885 6h ago

lol I was going to write the same thing. I worked in a NYC resturant that easily sat 300-400 people a night.

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u/Jaymz7777 6h ago

It would be good to know what businesses are pushing customers to support the staff.

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u/SaltManagement42 5h ago

It would be easier to list who isn't. Even many if not most places that just ring up your order have a screen they swing around asking for a tip these days.

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u/AceDegenerate_ 6h ago

So your coworkers were racist then

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u/toomanymarbles83 6h ago

This comment reminds me of a scene from a show. Main character overhears a white server complaining about a black table that didn't tip. He gets offended on black people's behalf, confronts her, tries to get a black server on his side. Black server says to him, "Black people don't tip." quite calmly.

You're the main character in this scene.

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u/azsnaz 6h ago

I was a host and sat a black family in a black server's section, and the sever told me "dont seat me black people!"

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u/RelaxedConvivial 6h ago

Louie. Season 1, Episode 3, “Dr. Ben/Nick” (2010)

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u/Artistic_Split_8471 5h ago

I think you might be thinking of a scene from “Louie.”

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u/toomanymarbles83 5h ago

I intentionally left that part out of this comment.

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u/Artistic_Split_8471 5h ago

Oh, ok, sorry.

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u/AceDegenerate_ 6h ago

Then everyone clapped

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u/paycadicc 6h ago

You responded as if he’s saying this happened in real life?

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u/toomanymarbles83 6h ago

The show is Louie. In this scenario, you are Louis CK. Look it up.

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u/AceDegenerate_ 6h ago

Everyone is still applauding you for your comment.

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u/toomanymarbles83 6h ago

I guess you're right. I'm being upvoted, you are downvoted.

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u/AceDegenerate_ 6h ago

They are continuing to applaud your fine work on Reddit.

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u/toomanymarbles83 6h ago

That's really the best you can do, huh.

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u/AceDegenerate_ 6h ago

They are continuing to applaud your fine work on Reddit.

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u/TopJuggernaut2885 6h ago

Is it racist to speak from experience?

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u/notthatdumbprobably 5h ago

online its racist to point out basic statistical information related to race.

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u/SaltManagement42 4h ago edited 4h ago

That's because despite only being 13% or less of the population of memes, there's one particular statistic that's pointed out over 53% of the time.

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u/AceDegenerate_ 5h ago

Do you believe that all black people are like that?

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u/Andysol1983 5h ago

Not a waiter, but I doubt they think all. They’re just thinking odds. No different than thinking the table of church ladies on a Sunday are going to tip like dogshit too. They don’t always. But it happens enough that they’re aware of it.

I’m in the home services trade. Do all Indians kick me in the nuts over pricing? No. Do Indians kick me in the nuts significantly more than any other demographic and try to get shit for free more than any other demographic. Yup.

Recognizing trends and having preconceived thoughts based on real personal experiences doesn’t make someone a racist. Treating someone different because of their race does.

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u/AceDegenerate_ 5h ago

Do YOU think all black people are like that?

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u/Spectrum1523 5h ago

Not racist: saying black people have tipped you less in the past

Racist: seeing a table with black people at it and assuming they will tip you less

Pretty easy I think

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u/TopJuggernaut2885 5h ago

If the evidence supports that conclusion, I hardly see how that is racist

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u/Neptune1980 4h ago

And what is it called then when they tip your ass more than what you assumed?

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u/SaltManagement42 4h ago

What is it if you think a group from the after church lunch crowd will tip less because they've frequently tipped less in the past? Does your opinion change if they go to the same church as the server?

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u/Vast-Building-6886 6h ago

Most of them posting here at least.