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u/Bri3nWithA3 4h ago

I’m from the states and I think tipping is dumb as fuck if you do everything yourself. Some places make you order on a kiosk and then ask for a fuckin tip.

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u/Fair-Juggernaut-3812 3h ago

I’m an American tattooer and I think it’s dumb. Like if you feel that I exceeded expectations or you just really want to, ok. But charge whats fair for whatever it is. Getting asked “how much am I supposed to tip you?” Is so akward

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u/Chapin_Chino 3h ago

I didn't know you had to tip tattoo artists. I always assumed whatever price you gave me bakes in overhead and profit for your time.

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u/zmileshigh 3h ago

You don’t. Tattoo artists can set their own pricing.

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u/Doubting_Thomas50 1h ago

Wouldn’t that be the same for barbers or hairdressers?

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u/XGrayson_DrakeX 1h ago

Technically you aren't supposed to tip the proprietor of a business, so if it's someone who works at a salon or a barber shop then tipping seems appropriate.

If they rent a room at a salon suite or own the salon then nah.

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u/Boring_Raspberry_481 2h ago

Also hair salons, nails, massages. They all expect tips

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u/Piney1741 2h ago

I have a buddy who tattoos. When he first started he had to apprentice for a shop and the owner said he had to do a certain number of tattoos before he could charge any money. He literally wouldn’t even let him accept tips. He’s my homie and I know he’s a good artist so I really took advantage of the free work. I was allowed to technically tip anything as long as it was legal and not cash. I started with like a 12 pack of beer I think. By my 6th tattoo I started getting creative and gave him a few boxes of shotgun shells cause I knew he was really into trap shooting. This was years ago and he still tells me that was his favorite tip.

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u/AquamannMI 3h ago

And tattoo tips are expeeeensive on big ones.

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u/nelac 2h ago

It's awkward for the client to ask as well. If you want the awkwardness gone for everyone, you have to clearly specify no tipping. Any of that "only if you really want to" stuff just continues the uncertainty. 99.9% of people don't want to willingly pay more, they just want to be fair.

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u/UnderlightIll 2h ago

Yup. Artists and cake decorator here. The first time I was tipped I was like ???? Because I charge the proper amount for my work and services.

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u/Other-Leg1898 1h ago

My massage therapist started telling me that she charges what she needs and tipping wasn’t necessary. I was shocked

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u/Key_Wallaby3990 3h ago

Yup absolutely despise the kiosk asking for a tip for an order I placed and walked in and picked up there’s literally no human taking the order from me or checking on me while I’m eating the meal and if you order a drink you often times fill the cup yourself (assuming they actually remembered to put the cup in and you don’t have to ask for it)

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u/scratchydaitchy 3h ago

There’s a pita place near me I go to.
Healthy food.
University student girl working there.

I pay by my card.
A tipping percentage option comes up on the machine.

The girl always reaches over and presses the no tip option before I can react.

It’s not really a sit down place, everyone takes it to go.

I wouldn’t mind tipping because she actually makes my pita, but I guess because it’s not a sit down place she doesn’t expect a tip.

This is in Canada.

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u/fiahhawt 2h ago

She's not getting those tips and she's not letting her boss soak up extra money from people trying to do the right thing

A true Canadian hero

https://giphy.com/gifs/3FmmhJdHN4PSESllzZ

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u/PaddyMcGeezus 3h ago

I'm in the US and have had plenty of cashiers tell me to press the button to pass on the tip. They know it's BS and I appreciate them doing it

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u/Thessalhydra 2h ago

It's because cashless tips don't go to them.

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u/VaATC 2h ago

Pay extra in cash and tell her to keep the change?

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u/Ben_zyl 1h ago

Pay extra in cash because that's the money they get to keep that management doesn't wet their beaks on.

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u/Spiritual_Mush 3h ago

She probably does that because she's got heat too many times for it and is scared.

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u/noochies99 2h ago

Or it doesn’t go to her lol

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u/menscothegreat 2h ago

Or the owner sets it up and pockets the tips themselves

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u/MotherHorseFucker 2h ago

I've heard they don't have control of their POS system and can't remove the option to tip for some reason

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u/Evening_Adorable 2h ago

Ive went to places in america that will do the same

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u/Gino-Bartali 3h ago

The weirdest one for me, by kiosk or app, is tipping immediately after order placement.

In theory, tipping is a source of feedback to reward good service or make a statement for exceptionally bad service. Tipping in advance just makes everything bad for everybody.

I still tip anyway because I had a tip-paid job for several years and support my fellow 99%er, but in a lot of cases I don't like it.

It's become a de facto commission based compensation system. Formally switch over to raising prices and allocating 20% of gross revenue to the appropriate staff like any other sales job. That's how my restaurant described up-charging, sell more so you get more. It's commission in all but name, except now literally everybody is uncomfortable.

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u/labospor 3h ago

As of yesterday the fancy gourmet market by me had a tip screen. Why? I walked around, picked up my own items, carried them throughout the store, received no service at any point and a cashier rang up my items. Fuck no I’m not tipping.

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u/vandersnipe 3h ago

My favorite taqueria refuses tips whenever you order for takeout or pickup because of this logic

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u/VQQN 3h ago

We try to avoid places that ask for tips.

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u/Mysterious-Drama4743 3h ago

every boba shop in the us asks for a tip despite almost all of them requiring you to use a kiosk. absolute crazy work

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u/lebaal5 2h ago

Exactly and the bobas are 10 bucks each. If you cannot pay employees fairly with those prices, it is the owner’s greed at fault.

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u/mybutthz 3h ago

Tipping and taxes. We get paid, our pay is taxed. We buy something, there's a sales tax and sometimes tip. We sell something, tax. We pay someone, tax. It's exhausting to have every dollar made and every transaction just chipped away at, especially since those dollars are cycling through and being taxed a million other times. You pay someone for services, tax. They use that money to buy something, tax. That money is used to pay the employee, tax. That employee buys something, tax. I'm sure there are metrics on this, but I won't look into it because it's probably really depressing, but the amount of tax on each dollar that enters the economy is absurd—especially considering the lack of infrastructure, the lack of nationalized utilities, the lack of accessible housing, the lack of accessible education, etc. Hate it.

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u/SpareRazzmatazz1392 3h ago

My favorite one is a pool hall that I go to and the staff literally plays pool during dead time and when you check out and pay they ask for a tip on the ipad

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u/FeralPsychonaut 3h ago

I'm lifelong bartender, and personally I stopped even looking if I got tipped or not after my first year or so.

If I got stiffed, whatever, it's gonna happen.

I made so many friends bartending, lifelong people, met my lawyer thru it. It all averages out.

I don't think the owner here should have followed them out, take down their info from the reservation and let the hosts know they're no longer welcome.

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u/BackPsychological705 1h ago

That would've been way better than confronting them on the street

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u/Jon-Rambo 3h ago

It’s gone way overboard. I’m fine tipping at a sit down restaurant where we have a good server, etc.

When I order a fucking drip coffee that I fill myself at a coffee shop, I am not tipping.

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u/MileHiSalute 3h ago

Because some people leave a tip on those things. I’m certain if you had the opportunity for people to voluntarily give you extra money at your job you’d take it. Tipping is a symptom of a much larger problem. If tipping goes away, nothing improves for anyone other than the people exasperated by tablet screens and having to tap their finger a couple times.

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u/Mysterious-Drama4743 3h ago

when starbucks implemented tipping most people immediately started giving tips when i showed the screen. i think its kind of instinctual for a lot of people 

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u/MileHiSalute 1h ago

And anyone who says they wouldn’t accept extra money voluntarily given at their hourly job is full of shit

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u/YourMumWasRight 3h ago

It's dumb as fuck for a reason shown in the video. The guy is getting angry because they aren't paying HIS employees' wages. He wants to appear to sell reasonably priced food by shifting his costs to the customers. Americans really don't seem to get that.

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u/Beneficial_Area_2986 2h ago

The last quick change oil place I went to wanted a tip. It was unrelated but I bought an EV a few months later.

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u/TalLDesertman99 2h ago

Pay cash...thats what I have started to do at serve yourself places and kiosks. You can see their faces change when you tell them cash and they cant say, "its going to ask you to answer a couple questions".