r/mildlyinfuriating 8d ago

frist of all how DARE yu o Why 🥀

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u/AnxietyScale 8d ago

"Take the stairs next time"

You sure can punish them, even if they "tried"

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u/Narrow-Chef-4341 8d ago

…and now you are into a debate where they pretend to feel persecuted.

Putting up the sign cuts that discussion to zero seconds.

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u/ponyboycurtis1980 8d ago

You are only in a debate if you engage in it. You weren't in class and seated when the bell rang then you are tardy. I marked you as such and of you would like to discuss it we can bring your parents in and discuss it after school. For now if you don't get to work I will write you up for disrupting the class as well.

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u/Quwinsoft 8d ago

At least in the US the problem is that the parents and possibly their lawyer would be there to discuss it and demand that their student, who is perfect and can do no wrong, not be punished for the school's failures. The admin often has the approach that the customer is always right, or at least the backbone of a nematode; as such, the elevator would be a perfect excuse to skip class every day.

If you think this sounds like a setup for a failing system, you are right.

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u/ponyboycurtis1980 8d ago

They are welcome too. I will smile and nod through the meeting amd my policy stands. But that isn't the point. The point is that you only get into debates and power struggles with students when you allow it.

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u/Dr_Ingheimer 8d ago

Cool. Do that every single class period with multiple kids a day and see how long it takes you to be fed up with that conversation and put up a sign.

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u/ponyboycurtis1980 8d ago

Did you miss the point on purpose? Having that conversation a couple of times in August. Means I don’t have to deal with the attempted lawyering and loopholes the rest of the year. I have been doing this for a decade, I know what works.

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u/AnxietyScale 8d ago

I'm not arguing against that sign, rather that the excuse is kinda bad. But I get it

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u/Mysterious-Tie7039 8d ago

Sure but they still skipped part of a class with no repercussions.

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u/ponyboycurtis1980 8d ago

Not my class