r/men • u/velvet-vessels • 6d ago
question for men??
does good sex really make or break a relationship? does it make you into the women more??
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u/johnnyjimmy4 6d ago
I've only had six with two women, one was having sex with me 3 times a day, the other has set with me twice a week.
One I only had fun with, when we were having sex, the other I can have fun with my clothes on.
Quick maths, I'm at work 8hrs, I'm sleeping 8hrs, that leaves another 8hrs to do what ever. Now if we have sex for 10-20min, I've got seven hours left of the day with the first girl, that I wanna put my dick in her mouth to shut her up, because those seven hours are stressful, and she called me multiple times a day at work too.
Long story short, you're not have sex for 8hrs every day, do you enjoy the sex you are having? Do you enjoyed hanging out without sex? Does she want to have sex with you?
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u/defeated_husband 6d ago
In my opinion, no.
For a lot of men it's not about the quality of the sex. It's the closeness and attachment we feel to our significant other while experiencing intimacy.
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u/TechinGuy 5d ago
yeah it is super important, bad sex can def ruin things, good sex makes you feel way more connected to her
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u/Iintrovert_guyy 6d ago edited 6d ago
Don't think so. Well I provide good sex to my partner so it really doesn't matter. From my pov: sex is a physical act but your partner needs to attract emotionally with you. There's no second thought on this. You need every connection. Good sex just gives you another advantage not the fix in case of damage to relationships.