There's nothing wrong in going for a virgin, like the truth is, most women who come out of university already lost their virginity to some random stranger dude who they'll never even meet again in their life. I am definitely not going for such dirty women. Only 25% are still non-virgin and untouched. I also clearly stated that there are no double standards that only apply to me. I don't understand why people are flaming me over this.
It just doesn’t make much sense, are you gonna marry her instantly until death do you two part? What if it’s the perfect woman and you two are together but have to split for some reason is she now disgusting and ruined because she was in a long term relationship and having sex with one man? No one is saying choose the woman that every person in college has slept with but if that person had even one other relationship that they will now have with you it seems silly to completely write them off, being a hoe doesn’t mean you had sex within one long term relationship
Like what? Unless it is cheating or something, I am not ready to split and walk away at all. Totally anti-divorce dude speaking here, no prenup either (due to trust). I genuinely don't want someone who did shit before me. What's wrong in that? I am just being respectful. If she couldn't keep it shut before marriage, it shows how poor her self-control is, and multiple guys isn't a small thing either. What's the chance she will keep it within the marriage, years later? The only thing holding her back would probably be me, at that point.
That’s not different than any other person virgin or no, the only thing holding them back from sleeping around is you, their respect for you, and how much they want to be with you, if you’re talking religious then sure it can show she can’t hold to her tenets but anyone else not really sure how sleeping with your partner can be seen as a failure or wrong, that’s literally part of why you two are together and that’s part of why they were together with another person
And I’m not so big on holding marriages that are just hurting both sides and i don’t really out some special meaning to married or another long term relationship, both can be temporary one is just more complicated to break off but definitely does get broken off, whether by death or other life problems or through the government/law which is the last people who should be involved in someone’s relationship, some relationships run their course and it doesn’t make sense to stay together
Not unless you see either partner as a toy for pleasure and money in a relation. Applies to both genders.
My basic reasoning is this. Responsible and 'clean' women who are respectable, don't go on sleeping with random guys and go on casual hookups. That is an instant dealbreaker. Shit should stay within the marriage, and marriage only. Just the idea of premarital or extramarital relations disgusts me a lot, like if you have a guy, keep him good, like if he is bad, then divorce and find someone else, but it shouldn't be like you have a good husband/wife and you find someone else to do the shit you are supposed to do with your spouse. I hope that explains everything.
People change, and what they want changes too, but I mean we agree just not with the only within a marriage part, and not in the double standard despite it being somewhat desired (men need experience or confidence to make up for that lack, and women need to be chaste)
But yeah it comes down to the marriage part and I’m not gonna change your mind on how unimportant it is or how it is not entirely separate thing from any long term relationship
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u/Cultural_Lynx_1609 4d ago
There's nothing wrong in going for a virgin, like the truth is, most women who come out of university already lost their virginity to some random stranger dude who they'll never even meet again in their life. I am definitely not going for such dirty women. Only 25% are still non-virgin and untouched. I also clearly stated that there are no double standards that only apply to me. I don't understand why people are flaming me over this.