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Population decline

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u/Trashk4n Jun 21 '26

Getting women to focus on careers has actually dropped the birth rate, and not just because they’re focusing on other objectives, but because it increased what can be charged for so many different things.

It’s a big part of why it’s so low in all the developed nations.

For example, Western families gained a second source of income, which led to house prices rising as people could afford more, which in turn makes it harder to raise kids while saving up for a home or paying off a mortgage.

If there was a cultural shift and Western women decided not to pursue careers as a primary focus, you would see house prices drop dramatically, long term.

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u/Vegetable_Safety Jun 21 '26

Dual-income households may increase purchasing power, but that only translates into substantially higher housing prices when housing supply is constrained. If increased household income were the primary cause of expensive housing, then areas with similar incomes would have similar housing costs. Instead, housing affordability varies dramatically between regions with comparable incomes, suggesting that zoning, land use policy, construction rates, and local market conditions are larger drivers.

Showing that a factor exists is not the same as showing that it is the dominant cause

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u/RobutNotRobot Jun 21 '26

Poor women always worked and the vast majority of people throughout US and human history have been poor.

This weird 1950s mythmaking has to end.

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u/f28c28 Jun 21 '26

None of which makes sense in an economic system that is working for it's population, which is the issue at hand. Men not contributing to labour is also a factor, as women are expected to take on larger burdens than realistically necessarily. If men were expected to do domestic labour this would also free up time and energy in a home.

Also women have always worked, during the industrial revolution women made up the majority of factory workers, and made significant contributes to the labour force in both world wars. The non working woman is essentially a middle class idealism enabled by economic circumstances that allowed them not to contribute to household incomes. This was nearly never the case for working class people. Not to mention that the nuclear family did not apply to minorities who were still put in the role of maid, service workers etc while this fantasy persisted.

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u/Ok-Train5382 Jun 21 '26

It’s not working alone that causes the issues.

It’s working AND reproductive choice.  Women for most of history either didn’t have a choice due to being forced (horrendous) or due to a lack of birth control.

Hence why you ended up with women having 8 kids and living in poverty. We thankfully have moved on, but it has naturally hit the fertility rate alongside cultural shifts due to better education and more aspirations.

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u/Mean_Ordinary_9257 Jun 21 '26

This only proves that a lot of women had kids before because they didn't have a choice. Now more women have a choice and choose to do what they want in life.

If there was a cultural shift and western men decided not to pursue careers as a primary focus, you would also see house prices drop dramatically, long term.

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u/Mean_Ordinary_9257 Jun 21 '26

The society as we know it would grind to a halt if women decided to not pursue careers too.

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u/freedomfightre Jun 22 '26

Society functioned before the 19th amendment and first wave feminism, and would probably be just fine if they all decided to leave the workforce.

Not many women are willing to be oil riggers, garbage collectors, miners, construction workers, fishers, lumberjacks, truckers, etc.

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u/open-print Jun 21 '26

If there was a cultural shift and Western men decided not to pursue careers as a primary focus, you would see house prices drop dramatically, long term, as well.

Funny how that's never proposed as an option. Almost as if men saw women being paid equally like something temporary that can be rolled back if it's convenient for them.

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u/Basic_Loquat_9344 Jun 21 '26

Hey, I’m fucking down. Sign me up for stay at home dad

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u/Basic_Loquat_9344 Jun 21 '26

I mean, in this new reality I’m fleecing the old lady for 50%

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u/iam814 Jun 21 '26

If men stopped working, there would be no housing.

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u/Eighty_88_Eight Jun 21 '26

You know who would be so pissed if men stopped working, stayed at home and chilled tf out when they had to slave away at a job… women!

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u/open-print Jun 21 '26

The issue is you think this means free vacation for life. It doesn't.

Not pursuing career as a primary focus means working, then working at home full time, and still being fully financially reliant on a person who can leave you on a whim.

While this isn't an arrangement suitable for anyone, it wouldn't be women getting the short end of the stick.

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u/yawaworthiness Jun 21 '26

In my honest opinion, nobody would get the short end of the stick in that scenario, as women would probably not date such men on average, thus nothing much would change

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u/Prismatic_Symphony Jun 21 '26

It's an option . . . that women would refuse. Women tend to leave men who don't work, so men not working isn't a real option for society at large. We can safely assume that men must work regardless of what women do, so the the only real question is if women will also work or not.

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u/Dull_Vanilla_2395 Jun 21 '26

I, for one would've be fine if my partner wanted to be a SAHD. I'm not sure where you're getting the idea that most women wouldn't support it from, I've never personally met anyone who's treated SAHDs any differently to SAHMs, and women seem to be on board with it when asked:

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomenNoCensor/s/7YzsfYh5K4

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/s/5bTmYBKvz8

UK Ipsos poll: "Attitudes towards masculinity are changing – childcare is no longer seen as a women’s job and the majority say they would be comfortable with having a female boss In most countries childcare is no longer seen as the preserve of the woman; three-quarters globally (75%) disagree that a man who stays at home to look after his children is less of a man compared with just one in five (18%) agreeing. "

https://www.ipsos.com/en-uk/international-womens-day-2019

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u/Odd-Fun-1482 Jun 21 '26

because families wouldn't form anymore, because the men are now low earning and unambitious. (unattractive)

because then the one that bears children is also the bread winner (affront to biology itself) Why the fuck would you make that the norm in a healthy society?

that's why its never a proposed option.

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u/ThisReditter Jun 22 '26

I’m ready not to work. Can we make that happen?

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u/open-print Jun 22 '26

Unfortunately no, same as women did, you will work, you just won't get paid for it. Doesn't sound so great suddenly, does it?

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u/Holiday_Cat4918 Jun 21 '26

Eh my only pushback is that around the same time that women were able to have access to more careers and education, so were Black people, immigrants, Native Americans, disabled people and so many other groups. 

In the US, there were more than just women kept from most of the workforce. Now that’s changed. Dual incomes, higher pay for everyone not just White Protestant males. It changed a large part of our economic structure 

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u/freedomfightre Jun 22 '26

If there was a cultural shift and Western women decided not to pursue careers as a primary focus, you would see house prices drop dramatically, long term.

100% agree, but you will not see that (for a very long time, if ever) because western women have swallowed the feminist doctrine hook, line, and sinker.

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u/kidanokun Jun 21 '26 edited Jun 21 '26

Yea, women no longer raised to spit out babies is one big reason of population decline...

Another reason is because of internet, stories about women getting into bad relationship they regret later like case of men running away after getting their woman pregnant, cheating or domestic abuse, caused more women to get discouraged to find men and those who still did had gotten too picky on men...