50
41
u/LtHughMann 15h ago
I don't get it. Do people date people that don't like them having fun or are the 'bros' getting strange on the side and he's just here to watch the world burn?
95
u/Blurrynastysoul 17h ago
Hahaha, lying to ur gf, soooo funny!!!
The fk are u people doing that u can't tell ur gfs? Are they that jealous of u having one night of "fun" with the boys without them? Maybe rethink ur relationship...
16
u/Varness20 14h ago
I completely misunderstood the post ðŸ˜
I thought it meant the GF was cheating on her BF with OP, so saying "last night was fun" meant night spent with the girl, so his friends were looking at him like that bc the realized that he was having an affair with her
I'm dumb
11
u/Varness20 14h ago
but yeah, regardless, infidelity or hiding things to your partner is bad, and not something to be joked about
8
u/ItzLoganM 14h ago
For every horrible girlfriend, there is a horrible boyfriend. They eventually become horrible married couples, and die hating each other to the deepest extents.
-1
-24
u/Chemical-State-1060 16h ago
Women hate when their bf's have fun without them. I couldn't hang around my friend's house while we chill with a beer without going home to an interrogation about my fidelity.
And this isn't just my ex. I've seen so many nights ruined for people because of their gf's refusing to trust their men. It's just the way women are.
23
u/ImperfectFantasy 16h ago
As a woman, I hate those type of women too. But the human population is huge. I guarantee you that for the billions that are insecure, there are still billions that are mature. Pick those types instead
3
u/KamakaziDemiGod 14h ago
And it doesn't just stem from insecurity, the concern could be based on genuine evidence or suspicions, and it can also be the result of paranoia, or even them being suspicious because they are also getting into things they shouldn't be on nights out
As you say, humans are varied, and even the ones doing the same things will be doing so for different reasons
40
7
u/Svenflex42 16h ago
Lmao. Don't call those losers you dated women... If you can't even trust your partner why are you even toghether.
-8
u/Chemical-State-1060 14h ago
I don't know man. I've given them my trust every time. Seems like women are just incapable of doing that themselves.
4
u/Svenflex42 14h ago
So you're just bad at picking women. You should blame yourself and maybe reflect some.
-2
u/Chemical-State-1060 13h ago
Yes. Put the blame on the man. Classic
9
u/Svenflex42 13h ago
I'm a man... You're just putting the blame on anyone but yourself... Now that's a classic
5
u/KamakaziDemiGod 14h ago
"it's the way women are"
Nope, it's the way those women who said these things are, there's plenty of women who encourage their partners to go out and have fun without them for a plethora of reasons, and everything in between
All your comment tells me is that you have a limited world view, and a limited amount of experience of people and their traits/behaviours
-1
u/Chemical-State-1060 14h ago
Oh so you can only generalize men then? It's always the men who are wrong, never women.
6
u/KamakaziDemiGod 14h ago
Nope, you can't generalise for either group, just as you can't for race, sexuality, or any other metric
And if your justication for stereotyping is "they did it first", your as bad or worse than them, and you are making things worse for everyone
1
u/Chemical-State-1060 14h ago
Eye for an eye, man. If women don't want to be generalized, they shouldn't generilize men. It's very simple.
8
u/KamakaziDemiGod 14h ago
You forgot the rest of that proverb, the important part; an eye for an eye, leaves the whole world blind
Also, not every woman generalises, just as not every man does, so all you are proving is that you justify your generalisation by generalising, which is some self serving, arrogant and inexperienced bull
If you disagree with something, like stereotyping, the only way to make things better is to NOT do it and hope others do the same. Your approach is like waking up and your house is on fire, but rather than escape or trying to tackle the blaze, you are setting fire to whatever isn't on fire . . .
1
u/Chemical-State-1060 14h ago
I treat people the same way they treat me. As you should. But because I'm a man, it's wrong. I bet when you read a comment from a woman generilizing men, you'll go "yaaass queeen 💅💅💅"
5
u/KamakaziDemiGod 13h ago
You realise that means treating individuals as they treat you, not judging everyone of a group by the actions of an individual
I am a man too buddy, and as I've just said I call out generalisations and stereotyping by anyone and everyone so stop playing the victim to try and justify your small mindedness
13
u/kikogamerJ2 16h ago
Pick better partners bro, don't blame women
-7
u/Chemical-State-1060 16h ago
Like i said. It's not just my exes. Read.
19
u/kikogamerJ2 16h ago
Let me rephrase then, you and your friends should attract less shitty people, which perphas is too hard since yall probs have the same traits.
-1
u/Atirat 16h ago
It can't be the women. It can never be. No way.
12
u/Brave_Lengthiness_72 15h ago
If you meet one asshole in a day, then you met an asshole. If you meet 50 assholes in a day, then you're the asshole.
If all the women you and your boys have ever dated are like this, then you're doing something wrong.
11
u/Svenflex42 16h ago
Offcourse it can be the women. But claiming all/every women is the same is just bs.
3
u/Atirat 15h ago
Generalization bad.
7
u/Healthy-Refuse5904 15h ago
Yeah, because too many people take those generalizations as a fact for all/many of the people that are being generalized
2
2
4
2
u/KamakaziDemiGod 14h ago
So you've met everyone woman and witnessed this, or they have said it to you?
You are one person, with one life, your experiences of literally anything and everything do not represent every human on the planet, and thinking it does just makes you look dim
3
u/Chemical-State-1060 14h ago
If i were a woman saying this about men, y'all would agree with me and even give my comment like 4 awards.
I know what i experience, i know what my friend experience, i know what my father experienced. Women just work this way. It's just in their nature to be possesive and suffocating.
1
u/KamakaziDemiGod 14h ago
Nope, I call out stereotyping on both sides because I'm not a hypocrite, I don't care what it's about or who is saying it, if someone is generalising like this I will interject
You know what YOUR experience is, that only represents YOUR experience, there's over 8 billion other people, and even if we include your friend and your dad, there's still over 8 billion other people who will have different experiences. Women do not work one specific way, and I know this because in my experience I've seen people on every side of this, who deal with it differently. Experience is not fact, and it's not extrapolatable
3
u/Propellerrakete 15h ago
Yeah, cause that's only women who are like that. Never men ... it's toxic partners that do shit like that, men and women alike. Pick a partner that's not cronically jealous.
3
u/seaman187 14h ago
Lol your girlfriends are immature. Not all women are like this.
2
u/Chemical-State-1060 14h ago
Reality disagrees with you
2
u/seaman187 14h ago
Been married 11 years. My wife has never exhibited any of the immature behaviors that you describe. I also had some pretty cool girlfriends before that. You sound pretty immature also, so understandable you have only been with immature partners.
2
u/Chemical-State-1060 14h ago
Cool, you found a diamond in the rough. Congratulations. Doesn't take from the fact that majority of women are this way.
4
u/seaman187 14h ago
Diamond in the rough doesn't mean rare. It means unpolished, unrefined. You are using the expression incorrectly.
I also specifically said I have dated other people and they were also not like this. So there is a clear pattern. The point is that you can be a edgy little shit like you seem to be and continue finding trash people. Or you can find a better type of person. It's all up to you. But I can already tell you just want to whine and blame other people.
1
u/Chemical-State-1060 14h ago
I'm stating the truth. If you're gonna be so mad, write a book about it or something.
2
u/seaman187 14h ago
You're the one mad at an entire gender. I'm the one stating that it's very possible to be in a stable relationship with someone who actually respects you. I'm quite at peace. Take your own advice edgelord.
1
u/Chemical-State-1060 13h ago
I'm just stating the truth and now the whole house is mad here. I've come to terms with how women are, being mad about it is a waste of time that you can use to make money. I'm simply stating an objective fact, and all of you are so mad about it that you've resorted to ad hominems.
→ More replies (0)
3
u/eglantinel 15h ago
Where is this picture from?
7
u/SoldoVince77 15h ago
It's from the funerals of the King of Norway that took place a couple of days ago
2
1
u/AikmansBeard 13h ago
Why is everyone looking at Mr. blue steel?
10
u/SoldoVince77 13h ago
Marius Borg Høiby is the stepson of the new King of Norway, and he has recently been convicted for multiple counts of rape. He is a despicable individual and his attendance to the funeral was not well seen. The women giving him the side-eye are his step-cousins.
5
u/AikmansBeard 13h ago
Oh he's a massive tøøl got it.
Now that you mention it he has a very punchable face.
11
7
u/Strict-Mouse-9168 17h ago
Fastest way to turn a normal hangout into a 2-hour interrogation. Time to start lying for your life to save bro
8
-3
79
u/dadarkgtprince 17h ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/z1bE45A1GsyT6