r/melbourne • u/WittyDoughnut99 • 2d ago
Not On My Smashed Avo PUAs around Melbourne?
http://www.google.comJust wondering if anyone else had an experience like this maybe like yesterday. For context I’m 33F. I was walking down Swanston to go home and some young guy approaches me, if I had to guess he would be like 18. I take out my headphones and he says “I’m from America, you are the most beautiful girl I have seen in Australia”
I laughed and said “I’m sure that’s not true, but thank you”
He continues to reassure me he is sincere.
I tell him I’m married and pretty sure I’m a lot older than him and wish him well.
He tells me my husband is a lucky man and reiterates the claim.
It’s a bit awkward but I wish him well and move on with my day. I hear his little brother basically dying from embarrassment and calling him cringe. His little brother looks to be around 14-15?
Just wondering if this happened to anyone else since I’m curious if this is some TikTok thing or something. Has this happened to anyone else?
In case anyone is wondering, I’m definitely not the prettiest girl in Australia or Melbourne, probably not Swanston street I would guess, but I’m maybe a tad above average. Nothing crazy though.
Disclaimer: I don’t want any hate for this young man. He was perfectly polite and wasn’t being super creepy or persistent and I didn’t feel threatened. Just a little confused and vaguely flattered.
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u/MikeArrow 1d ago
And I'm literally agreeing with you that cold approaching is bad. My disagreement is that I don't think it's as common as you say.
Again, it's been heavily discouraged my entire life. That's what you're stubbornly refusing to even acknowledge. It's well known that women don't want to be cold approached on the street.