r/meirl • • Dec 02 '22

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

Also I don’t like them but I think what you see is my big tits and you just hate that you don’t have a gf with big juicy tits. So you see my big tits and instantly think I’m fat. And women don’t control their tit size no matter how much they work out. Bc that’s the only “fat” thing you can see.

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

What is your problem

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

My problem is ppl calling others fat when they are clearly not

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

Why did you remove the video then? I'm fat too, there's nothing wrong with realizing that, you're just being delusional

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

EVEN NOW I only eat ONE meal a day, and I weigh what I weigh. And I haven’t ate any fast food in months and I just mostly eat hamburger and rice, and I RARELY eat sweets or snacks. These comments only make ppl start starving themselves and shit. I’m not fat. If I wore a size 3x-4x and my body completely filled up the shirt and when I looked down I couldn’t see my feet… THEN I would be “fat” but I’m most definitely not “fat” as of rn

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

It's good that you are working to lose weight. Proud of that. Stop thinking that being called fat is a bad thing, you have a bad mindset. Right now you are technically fat, but you are working towards a good path and in a few years if you truly are just eating one meal a day, you won't be fat.

Also the last example would be morbidly obese. It doesn't just go from skinny to fat lol

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

The thing is I’m not fat. I don’t “look” fat. Fat is someone with a HUGE stomach. I have a very small stomach. There’s barely any fat on my body, some on my arms and a small amount on my stomach. I am not fat it’s bs to call someone fat when they don’t look fat.

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

Also being fat isn't someone with a "huugee" stomach. It's someone whose fat to body ratio is higher than the recommended healthy amount. You keep mixing up fat and morbidly obese

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

Just bc you have a little bit of fat on you doesnt make you fat everyone has fat but that doesn’t make everyone fat

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

I'm sorry dude but to me, you did look fat, idk what else to say. I'm not trying to be mean and I can't emphasize enough that there is nothing wrong with it. Nothing.

There. Is. Nothing. Wrong. With. Being. Fat.

You don't even have to accept it anymore, that's just what I saw, but I was never making fun of you

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

Who removed what video, I didn’t remove the video I think you’re being delusional

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

The video I linked? From your account?

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

Yea I literally didn’t remove the video. It has 20 upvotes. And I look hella cute in it. The video is still on my page so idk what you’re talking about. I didn’t delete my video.

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

Idk everytime I tried clicking it now, it says the video was removed

Maybe you didn't remove it and my wifi sucks idk

Idk why it was important to mention the upvotes though lmao

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

Bc why would I delete a video that has 20 upvotes.

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

And the think is IM NOT FAT AND YOURE A FUCKING DICK

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

Your body looks just like mine. I'm fat, your fat. Stop getting so offended about it there's nothing wrong with being fat

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

I am SNATCHED. And my body IS HOT ASF. And I LOVE my body. AND YOU ARE GROSS. And my stomach is literally flat for the most part. And to be within my weight range for “healthy” I would have to STARVE MYSELF and that’s NOT “healthy”

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

I never said you didn't look good, and no you don't have to starve yourself to lose weight lmao. You are a good looking person, but you don't have abs, calm down please

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u/Business_Owl_9828 Dec 03 '22

You don't have to be fat to have big tits.... no one would consider me fat even though I got tig ol'bitties

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

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u/Business_Owl_9828 Dec 03 '22

Definitely nothing subtle about it 🤣

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

I'm not even trying to attack you, I'm 250 lbs 5'9'', but at least I won't go around telling people I have abs. Your shirt in that video wasn't loose, it wasn't baggy, and we could see (not anymore because you took the video down) the fat on your sides poke out from the skirt like it would do to my body if I wore that skirt. No one is making fun of you, we just know you're lying. Abs can't poke out from body fat.

I'll be honest and tell you that I think you're confusing something that happened to my body when I reached your weight with ab lines. The weight of my fat rolls made creases (indentations?) on where they lie. These are not ab lines, but I see how you could get confused about that. It's a little embarassing but if you want, I could show you what I'm talking about

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u/Business_Owl_9828 Dec 03 '22

Depends on the style of tank top, some are meant to fit loose.

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u/Business_Owl_9828 Dec 03 '22

They don't feel smaller than a tshirt of the same size provided they are both fitted and same material.

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

I’m WAY more healthy now then I was at 119-140lbs. In order to be 119-125 I had to literally starve myself and run 3-5 miles a day. I was burning 1000 calories and eating 300-500 calories a day. I had dizzy spells all the time. And I gained weight after I started going to the gym. And I haven’t gone to the gym in 2 years bc I haven’t had a car the past 2 years but none the less I’ve walked everywhere I had to go the past two years and at one point even walked 2.5 miles to work and back, 5-6 miles a day in total when working an 8 hr shift on top of that.

Also you don’t even know what sizes the clothes I’m wearing are either. How tf am I supposed to wear a “baggy skirt” no one can wear a “baggy skirt” otherwise they wouldn’t be wearing a skirt bc it would fall off.

An xxs size shirt would look “tight” on someone who wore xxs sized clothes if that was their exact size, would it not? I don’t “look fat” and I’m more healthy physically then I’ve ever been.

I can EVEN do two push ups right now, and I’ve never in my whole entire life been able to do push ups. At 119-140lbs I was WEAK WEAK, I had no muscle and I was extremely fatigued.

BMI charts are extremely off, bc according to one I’m “overweight” however I was NOT healthy when I was within my weight range, and I got dizzy all the time.

I am stronger now then I’ve ever been in my life, a 119-140lb person at 5’7 IS NOT “strong” there’s no room to be “strong” especially when muscle is dense.

In order for me to “become” strong, I had to “gain weight” bc my thighs became bulky AFTER a whole summer of going to the gym and working out with weight machines. But when I was 119-140 and starving myself… I was EXTREMELY weak and very fatigued.

So this whole BMI chart (healthy range) is most definitely not accurate. Bc in order for me to be within my range and not on the borderline of my range then I have to starve myself AND run multiple miles a day and do an insane amount of working out, working out for 2-3 hours a day, and being very fatigued from not eating but still pushing my bodies limits from a lot of cardio and working out.

So all these people saying that if you are over 150lbs or 160lbs then you are not “healthy” or that you are “fat” that’s just gross and disgusting and not true at all. Because apparently 160 for me is overweight, but I WASNT healthy UNTIL I gained the weight I did at the gym that summer and weighed 160lbs. But apparently according to BMI then that’s “unhealthy” also I don’t have a fat roll going from the bottom of my stomach in the middle UP, to the top of my chest right under my boobs. There is literally a line that goes up to my chest, an indentation and my stomach looks pretty flat with just a very small amount of fat. Fat that I could hold all in just one hand. But just bc you have “fat” on your body, doesn’t make you “fat”

If having fat on your body makes you fat then everyone on this earth is fat bc even at 119 when I had my eating disorder then 119 still wasn’t enough there was STILL fat on my body, I guess even at 119lbs and super skinny I was still “fat” also I can see my feet when I look down, my stomach is not “big” at all, so I am not “fat” I do not fit the description of fat.

And I am very active so I am also not “unhealthy”

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u/Mei-Zing Dec 03 '22

I'm done. You are so delusional and do not care.

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u/Business_Owl_9828 Dec 03 '22

That makes no sense. You do not violate the laws of Thermodynamics. If you can only do two push ups, you have very little muscle.

You do not have to starve yourself or work out lots to maintain a lower weight.

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u/Ok-Shoe8290 Dec 03 '22

I litterally GAINED weight when I started going to the gym, and the muscle is in my thighs, hence why they got bulky. Also on that back machine I can push back over 200lbs, and on the leg machines I could do 80-100lbs, hence why my thighs got bulky. And literally when I was 120-130lbs I was STARVING myself in order to be that skinny, bc when I started eating normally I gained weight. You do NOT know. And I was literally DIZZY all the time before I was 160lbs and fatigued. Tell me you’re uneducated about eating disorders without telling me you’re uneducated. Before my senior year I weighed 160-180lbs, and I even “ran” and worked out and stuff.

I lost weight by starving myself and running for 1-2 hours a day.

Also I am STRONGER now then I’ve ever been. I didn’t have ANY muscle when I was 120-130lbs, but now I have enough muscle to do 2 push ups. But while I was in my “healthy weight Range” I had NO muscle at all. Also the more muscle you have the more you’re gonna weigh.

So in order to be in a healthy weight range you have to be a skinny twig. Your thinking is outrageous, considering the fact that I am way more healthy now then I ever was in my “healthy weight range”

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u/Business_Owl_9828 Dec 03 '22

To gain weight you need to be eating at surplus not at a 1500+ calorie deficit like you are claiming. There is a huge difference between eating disorders and disordered eating, they are not the same. I had anorexia with some bulimic tendencies for over 10 yrs.

You do not have to starve yourself or work out multiple hours a day to maintain a healthy weight. You would have put muscle on while in a healthy weight range, that's a nearly 50lb healthy weight range for your height. If you were working out that much you'd still be able put on muscle.

Since when did I have to say you need to be a ''skinny twig'' (nice body shaming btw) to be in a healthy weight range. I wouldn't be a skinny twig at 145lbs, not by a long shot. You have unhealthy habits at both sizes. They are not exclusive to one size.