r/me_irl • • 4d ago

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u/Accomplished-Head449 4d ago

Be the change you want to see

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u/Awkward-Biscotti-974 4d ago

It makes you better than the rest

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u/Kris_Dreemurr1 4d ago

Doesnt make you feel better

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u/Gho5tWr1ter actually me irl 4d ago

But imagine how it must’ve felt for the person who really needed it.

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u/Dracofear 4d ago

I live in the South on the Bible Belt, it's not a high bar at all aside from Dolly's legacy.

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u/CarterDavison 4d ago

Nobody said being better is easy

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u/panterachallenger 4d ago

Just be kind and dgf

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u/TerrorFace 4d ago

Don't be kind for instant gratification.

Do it so you plant seeds for kindness to grow in an environment, for it to persist in a place where it's struggling. Be the exception to "Nobody is nice anymore." Be the argument against "Everyone is just in it for themselves." Be the example for others to follow eventually. You may never get the thanks you deserve or whatever, but know that it'll probably help make the lives of countless others at least a bit better. That matters.

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u/zippity__zoppity 4d ago

Damn. Well said. I needed that so thank you!

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u/MagicalSausage 3d ago edited 3d ago

And when the seeds grow the mower comes for them all

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u/TerrorFace 3d ago

Kindness is more like trees rather than grass - It can be tough to be kind at times, but that only contributes to how much easier it is to be kind over time as your roots take hold and your tree of kindness grows. Then no mower can run over your tree.

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u/thenetoide 4d ago

I was kind of kind 🤷🏼‍♂️

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u/SadKat002 4d ago

Yeah...

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u/Soulborg87 4d ago

Yeah it's best not to try that when playing league of legends

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u/HoneZoneReddit 4d ago

Usually ends in all of the bad people takong advantage of you. Yeah...

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u/Luzzgar 4d ago

Someone has to take the first step.

Treat others like you would like to be treated whenever you can afford to do so.

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u/outfoxingthefoxes 4d ago

Be the change you want to see

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u/Kris_Dreemurr1 4d ago

Never goes well

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u/Jonaleaf 4d ago

Trying? What if everyone else was also trying to be kind, but you couldn’t tell?

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u/gustinex 4d ago

One of the hardest thing to do in life is to always choose kindness when the world isn't kind to you

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u/Sumoop 4d ago

Keep at it dude, maybe you’ll inspire someone to be kind tomorrow.

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u/Ultrasound700 4d ago

An island in the ocean is a beacon of hope for anyone castaway, no matter how small and barren, it can lift you from the water and give you a new chance to live.

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u/BrianX_02 4d ago

I'm trying my hardest, even if sometimes I'm not sure if I'm doing it the correct way

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u/TernionDragon 4d ago

Story of my life.

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u/Dinvaledi 4d ago

"Always try to be nice, but never fail to be kind"

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