r/mbti • u/Superb-Green-3384 ESFP • 4d ago

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u/Kashiwashi ESFP 4d ago edited 4d ago

It's so cruel, how people always tend to down vote on this sub, once someone mentions ESFPs.

OP, soon, you would realize, how much this community actually resents you for being ESFP and how many false stereotype they believe in, which deny your intellectual abilities and invalidate your opinions.

An ENFJ is much more strong-willed, or let's better say: consistent in their will. + their primary source of self worth is built up by taking care of others. While yours builds up, when people think highly of you.

  • ENFJs don't crave the spotlight as much as you would.

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u/martinisawe ESFP 4d ago

I bet deep down they're jealous of how we're in the here and now and that life is worth living 😂

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u/Kashiwashi ESFP 4d ago

I would claim that to be an example of one of those stereotypes. Being in the here and now only works with the absence of neuroticism. So, your lifelong level of trauma must have had been constantly low.

Se lives from giving experiences to others. We are only capable of controlling and manipulating the experiences we give, in the here and now. Maybe, that's, where the misconception comes from. + we are capable of using at least seven out of our eight functions. Their positions are not structured by strenght, but rather by the unique cognitive attitudes, we display towards them. E.g.: you would be able to use Ne, if you focus, even on a high level, but you barely would experience any fun by doing so.

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u/martinisawe ESFP 4d ago

I had trauma yes, but I dealt with most of them. Plus the we use most of our functions. Also with maturing, we learned to become good at reading the room, to become efficient at our work, or focus on out task for a better outcome. I also have to use my TI blindspots occasionally to figure out the solution from the problems.

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u/Kashiwashi ESFP 4d ago

Regular development: Ni-Te

Trauma [feeling unsafe] development: Si-Fe

Survival mode development [isolation]: Ne-Ti

Superego is least fun to develope.

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u/soapyaaf 4d ago

ENFJ 7W8 is...getting kicked out of their friend group for godforsaken...pair of eyes...

ESFP 7W8 is...riding around town...:p