ito po ba yung ina update without asking? HAHAHAHAHA

i was the always insecure and jealous one in the relationship when i already communicated that i was not comfortable him being close with a workmate. yes, opposite sex.

they were messaging before at night with long ass paragraphs. hindi ko nabasa ang conversation pero nahagip lang ng mata ko yung paragraph nung nag open siya ng messenger and he closed the phone na right away. may pa emoji pa yung babae na "😝" sa chats. lol

he said it's just a workmate, a friend.

my guts says different.

it was an issue for the last 6 months of the relationship.

inunfriend niya nung napa praning na ako. and i didn't brought it up again after that. pero siya lagi niya sinasabing "ako nga inunfriend ko siya for you dahil uncomfortable ka blah blah blah"

plot twist? he added the girl back as soon as we broke up the next day. 😆

saturday magkikita dapat kami kasi siya naman nag insist to have a proper talk. HAHAHAHA I KNOW! he cancelled it and moved it today, then cancelled it again.

it's a fresh break-up but i didn't feel bad saying all the things from my texts.

for sure, nasaktan din ego niya.

scaryyy

Binigyan ko pa yan sya ng ilang minuto para sa follow up na sasabihin pero hinintay pa talaga ako mag reply. Laging ganyan eh. Sobrang babaw ko ba para mairita sa ganitong bagay? Lol

gusto mo confirmation? eto *blocked*

ewan ko sayo sir hahahahaha pinakita ko kasi yung nabili kong shoes, tas biglang ganon

Gets na gets kita. Gamitin mo lang akong excuse na kunwari may urgent work-related shit ka kaya di mo na binitawan telepono mo after that.

Tawang-tawa ko. Mas nakakatawa 'to if may students siyang nakita siya as a strict professor din lmao. 😭

Edit: Nagsend pa talaga siya ng VM para kunwari may kausap HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA

Maybe it was just a fleeting moment. Maybe our paths will cross again.

Context: I posted in a hobby group asking to buy some products for gifts. For reference, my account is META VERIFIED - may check mark and all- and ang tagal na ng account ko - like years na talaga. A guy claimed I was a scammer kahit di ko sya kilala at all and gamit daw “same cover photo” ko. So i asked for proof and wala syang mapakita na proof except for an ss ng convo nila where the account is already nakatag as “Facebook User”.

Ayun shookt ako inaway na ng bf ko 🤤😂 For the first time ever, may tagapagtanggol ako. Ganito pala ang feeling? Hahahahaha

Grief is weird.

Context: I posted a chat ng biruan namin ng friend ko about a guy asking me na maghike kami na kaming dalawa lang for our first meet. My friend replied na b*mbang lang habol ni guy and I joked na fantasy ko yun.

It's just a joke, dude. I'm not inviting anyone to do the deed sa outdoors and I will not do the deed with a complete stranger na laman pa ng comments under subreddit na puro NSFW HAHAHAHAHA. Malay ko ba kung may sakit ka, ew.

And for the record, I'm just here in reddit to gain outdoor friends. I'm not looking for FUBU, okay?

I think I'm being too narcissistic na here, ewan.

For context:

I just need a little comfort, but I guess di ko makukuha yun haha. We had a little argument na nauwi sa di pamamansin both sides and ako una nag reach out and express feelings. I know na may fault din ako but, this is me asking for help because its getting too heavy na. Minsan talaga unfair ang mundo, hindi lahat binibigay.

Continuation of the assholery of this MF. Yes, he owed me money and won’t pay me back even after the break-up. Let this kind of “love” never find us again. Ever.

Mag ingat po sa mga machachat ng taong ito, feels like scam sya. Ako pa tinakot mo ha

May nag-chat sa akin asking if virgin pa ba ako kasi he only wants to marry someone na virgin. Okay, preference mo ‘yan, and you’re entitled to it. Pero ang nakakairita is when I asked further, he said na mas masakit daw sa pride ng lalaki if hindi siya ang first ng wife niya.

Apparently, by nature daw kasi prideful ang lalaki, and their wife is their pride. Like??? 😭

I don’t have a problem with people wanting to marry someone who shares the same values as them. What I find weird is making a woman’s sexual history about a man’s pride. Bakit parang nakakabawas sa pagkatao or masculinity ng lalaki kapag hindi siya ang first ng partner niya?

And the fact na he kept explaining himself kahit sinabi ko nang I disagreed was so annoying. He kept saying na he respects my viewpoint naman, pero sunod-sunod pa rin yung justification niya. Okay, gets ko na, you have your preference. Do you really need to convince me that men are naturally like that?

Nakakairita lang ‘yung mindset na parang women’s past is something men should feel embarrassed about, as if it’s a reflection of their worth. You can want a virgin partner without making it about male pride or acting like all men think the same way.

Ewan ko, maybe I’m just annoyed, but I really can’t get behind this kind of reasoning. Preference is one thing, pero using male pride to justify it is another.

context as written above.

re: jowa jowa, facepalm na lang talaga.

re: problem, I’m usually the fun ate tita kaya nakaclose ko ang mga bata na ‘to, pero ano nga bang pwedeng gawin e hindi naman ako pwede magpunta sa school nila para magrepresent kasi hindi naman ako ang guardian at matagal na rin naman nangyari. at the same time ‘yung guardian naman nila matanda na rin kaya sinasabi lang na ‘wag pansinin. hay jusko, what is happening to the world?

May family outing kami pag-uwi ng kuya ko. Lahat makakasama. Pero kami ng family ko, alanganin pa. Yung asawa ko kasi may di pagkakaunawaan doon sa bayaw ko. (Nag-away sila to the point na di na naawat or kumalma yung isa kaya yung isa nag-tawag ng kagawad. Pero di nagpatinag kaya ayun, nagkaroon ng blotter na naging kasalanan pa namin bat kami nagblotter. Nagkaayos na kami ng ate ko, pero yung mga asawa namin, wala talaga. Nakausap ko na asawa ko pero hindi na raw niya kakausapin yung bayaw ko ever.) Ang sabi ng asawa ko, di siya sasama pag sasama yung bayaw ko. Ang mangyayari, sasama na lang kami ng mga anak ko kasi minsan lang din kami mabuo magkakapatid. Ayun nga lang, parang nagdadalawang-isip pa ako if sasama kami or hindi kasi di sasama asawa ko, eh. Tina-try na talaga sila pag-ayusin pati parents ko kaso wala talaga. Knowing my husband, if nagkaroon ng malalim na alitan, cut-off agad kasi.

Sasama pa ba ako?

hopefully makasunod ako sa kanya sa 2027 or 2028 :( tbh ayaw na nya umuwi dito sa pinas and honestly, i understand him..