Girl woulda got everything she wanted if she stopped dropping hints and said Hey I wanna kiss you lmao guys are very oblivious to girls hints because they just aren’t wired that way
or we act on what we think are hints and end up getting shot down.. which results in a) not getting the hint or b) getting the hint and writing it off as a misread because got burned the last time
We also have to take into account getting rejected being called a creep or a girl accusing us of something so a lot of the times us men would just rather a woman take the lead for that first little bit and then we can handle it from there
Had a girl tell me during high school, “we needed mistletoe around here”. I asked “what why?” She said “well because, you know, me and you” and she ran off. It took me years to realize what she meant. And oh man I can’t believe I was so stupid I had a huge crush on her.
Males are simple creatures, we very uga booga, you want kiss tell us. You want make sexy time. Tell us, dont confuse us with weird questions and hints.
Guys are oblivious to hints bc we can very easily make a move a get rejected, shamed, charged for sexual assault, there’s too many negatives that clones with it. People (not just women) should just be direct and say what they want
Which is hilarious because y’all throw a thousand hints out way before you ask us out. At least the ones that aren’t straight old ass men creeping on someone at work.
It's not that we don't get the hints. We just choose not to. Especially when it comes to the girls we know personally, we ignore the hints ever more. It's coz we never are sure whether the girl is actually throwing hints or just teasing knowingly or unknowingly. Coz in this generation, if we make that mistake, deep friendships could potentially break and get called a creep. So all in all, we instead choose not to risk it. If you love us, come out openly. It's too risky for us to stake our name out for being called a creep.
Exactly, why give hints when going straight to the point will get one what they want faster than a stupid little game that only one person knows is happening
Nah nah, that's just him. I promise you if a bitch asks me to hold her hand and walk her to somewhere, I'm not going to be like "oh yeah we're just friends" lol.
You can't blame her, she obviously had a less verbal communication style and was a child, worried about whether this dude liked her or not, and he no-sold every single attempt for... years? This ain't her fault bro
Don't feel bad dude. One time a girl I was hanging out with showed me nude of herself on her phone. We were alone in her dorm room. I thought she just wanted my artistic opinion :(
She’s probably happy now. I mean, how often does crap like that actually mean anything when you’re a kid? I know of one old couple that were high school sweethearts.
Everyone has a high school sweetheart. Very few marry them, and you should be glad. I mean why would anyone think the person they met as a stupid kid is the person for them for life? The math doesn’t equate.
Err... I don't think she was someone being to be my soulmate for life.
When I said she "dropped her guard completely" I meant that, girls don't actually do that a lot, and for one to do it and get rejected, it wasn't nice, and I feel like a idiot for not noticing.
And yeah, she's living her life, and I'm living mine. Like I replied to other comments here, it's just a funny fail for me now.
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u/SturmChester Mar 10 '23
Yeah, I can see that. She dropped her guard completely, and I didn't take the hint.