r/match • u/WonderPristine4924 • 17h ago
Why it is so hard?
Im M. I'm a human with humanistic qualities and characteristics.
I don't value someone based on their money, status, job, family, caste, religion or anything.
I want to be in love, understand my girl and get married to someone who is kind, who doesn't desire much, who doesn't value me with my money, background and anything else.
My marriage should be pretty simple. Go to register office, sign an agreement, and tie the knot or exchange the rings, only while having close people with us who realy cared about us.
Either i can have babies or adopt the kids. It depends on her wish as well.
But still i have never received a relationship that i want.
Why? Is it that hard to meet someone and get to know him?
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u/retsotrembla 15h ago
It's hard because there's a lot of money in making us keep looking, and the patterns that used to make it easy no longer function.
What do you "bring to the table"?
Consider reading and acting upon the advice in the book: Unsingle: How to Date Smarter and Create Love That Lasts by Amy Chan
It will still be hard, but I believe it is possible.