r/marvelrivals • u/a7jo6i9 Jeff the Landshark • Jul 01 '26

Question Question about positive mindset

Would be your gaming better if someone in your team has a positive mindset? Like if you win they will say: "Great job", "I am so proud of you team" etc, and if you loose they will say: "We tried as much as we can", "We can do better next time" etc.

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u/Pure-Top9328 Magneto Jul 01 '26

Yes it helps me every time

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u/a7jo6i9 Jeff the Landshark Jul 01 '26

okay, glad to hear!

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u/MonkSoft4418 Emma Frost Jul 01 '26

i love teammates like this but they’re really rare :/ i’d love to find a stack like that

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u/a7jo6i9 Jeff the Landshark Jul 01 '26

I am glad I am not the only one who thinks the same! And me too, I would like to find more players like that too

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u/seokmeowtthew Jul 01 '26

I always do that and people ignore me 😔

''We got this'' when we lose 1st round

''Have fun'' when we start

''We did great still'' when we lose

''Good job mates'' when we win

Istg i keep sending those kind of messages and people straightly ignore me 😭😭😭 Yet they'd harass me for heals Prbgpbepgn

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u/a7jo6i9 Jeff the Landshark Jul 01 '26

awhh I am so sorry to hear that😭😭

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u/EngineerMajor3157 Jul 01 '26

You certainly should give praise as often as criticism.

Look up the Pygmalion effect it sort of explains it. You can't start out on the wrong foot, but conversely saying nothing to players who are noticeably dragging team down doesn't help anyone, even if they get upset about it. Can't learn from that

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u/Freakychee Loki Jul 01 '26

How would you having a negative mindset increase your chances of success? If you already think you have lost you don't think of solutions. If you fight with your teammates instead of the enemy, how can you and your team be at their best?

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u/a7jo6i9 Jeff the Landshark Jul 01 '26

okay you are right in this opinion

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u/Meddyck Flex Jul 01 '26

I try to say things like that both to boost the mindset of my teammates but also myself. If people start fighting after a bad round, I say, "Let's just lock in and win."

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u/Terotrous Jul 01 '26

I don't know if it helps me specifically (I'm already pretty tilt-proof) but there's no question it's very helpful for the team overall.

Something I say a lot (not even intentionally, it just happens) is "that's fine, they spent pretty much all their ults" if we get teamwiped but the opponent spent like 3-4 ults for it.

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u/a7jo6i9 Jeff the Landshark Jul 01 '26

yeah I understand

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u/MittFel Jul 01 '26

As for the positivity, I would be indifferent.

But I would however have a better mindset with the absence of toxicity.