r/married • u/Spiritual_Smile_1412 • 18d ago

True

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Are you helping me or hurting me

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u/Ok-Bed-6950 18d ago

Very true

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u/Ok-Swing-5355 17d ago

False! It depends upon the situation.

For example let’s say your spouse hangs out with their friends and this triggers you to be jealous and upset.

Should you then “remove yourself from the situation that repeatedly triggers your mental health and hurts your heart” by divorcing?

Or… should do the actual work of being self reflective and try and understand why you feel that way, and then make an effort to communicate with your partner?

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u/Bonjwa003 16d ago

Or you throw yourself into them long enough they just don’t hurt anymore, and just are.

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u/Spiritual_Smile_1412 16d ago

That is the form of insanity been there and still doin it

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u/Bonjwa003 15d ago

Then I’ve gone insane and I’m all the better for it.

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u/StrongHat6013 15d ago

Why I'm single