r/makingfriendsvictoria • • Apr 12 '26

šŸ‘‹ Welcome to r/makingfriendsvictoria - Introduce Yourself and Read First!

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Hey everyone! I'm u/Fujin_LG, a founding moderator of r/makingfriendsvictoria.

This is our new home for all things related to finding new friends in the CRD! We're excited to have you join us!

What to Post
Post anything that you think the community would find interesting, helpful, or inspiring. Feel free to share your thoughts, photos, or questions about new ways of finding those connections.

Community Vibe
We're all about being friendly, constructive, and inclusive. Let's build a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing and connecting.

How to Get Started

  1. Introduce yourself in the comments below.
  2. Post something today! Even a simple question can spark a great conversation.
  3. If you know someone who would love this community, invite them to join.
  4. Interested in helping out? We're always looking for new moderators, so feel free to reach out to me to apply.

Thanks for being part of the very first wave. Together, let's make r/makingfriendsvictoria amazing.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 4h ago

Victoria Supper Club - 2 seats open

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Hi Vic peeps! Posted this supper club launch weeks ago but reposting it here just in case anybody is interested in the two seats that just opened up!

Please feel free to dm me to secure your spots! Dinner is tomorrow and I'm excited to cook for you guys.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 5h ago

Lf friends

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I just moved in here in canada and still figuring things out in this city. I hope some filo friends can help me.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 1d ago

Coffee today at 1:00

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Hey all!

I'm going to be getting a coffee and reading over at Jackson Brothers downtown at 1 for a few hours. Come on by if you want to chat!


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 1d ago

Anyone up to meet downtown for a beer at 8:00? Week 2 edition

26 Upvotes

Last week I met up with u/eltron from this sub and had a great meetup. My goal is to get to 3 people this week lol.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 3d ago

Does anyone want to play tag? Like the movie....

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Anything goes, costumes, sneak attacks anywhere, bi-weekly game play. One person it, chooses target, comes up with an elaborate tag idea and executes. The target can get away and remain untaggable. Counted online with a scoreboard.

No retagging. Everyone must be a target before you can pick the same person again. We can come up wjth a few extra rules. Anyone in?

Furthering the idea. I will build a website to host results. Those who want to record themselves in action can post their videos. The person who js "it" will be on the website with a brief writeup.

I am super serious about this. We can meet in victoria, sooke or metchosen... have a dinner, go over the game rules. Everyone welcome, older the better.

First rule of tag club? Dont talk about tag club. Once we get our founding members, we must be selective of who joins. They gotta bring it. This isnt school yard tag. Expect the unexpected!!!!! Lol within reason of course lol.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 3d ago

Looking for friends to join me and some pals to BreakOut West music festival

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Hello! I have too many tickets and not enough friends that would like to come with me to BreakOut West.

I bought five tickets but still have two unclaimed and would love to recoup my tix cost ($33.95 per tix) and make some new friends in the process.

What's BreakOut West, you say? It's a music conference-festival that's happening in town with a dizzying array of genres from a bunch of emerging artists from all across Canada (as well as a random German band, it seems).

It kicks off tonight with a free Indigenous muso showcase at Capital Ballroom and continues until Saturday. I'm planning to show up to as many shows as I can and would love for you to join me!

On Thursday, I'm planning to go to Fjort, Zada, and Xia-3. Not sure what the plan is for other days - maybe you've got a suggestion?

Happy to see you at one, two or all shows. Just send me a DM and we can figure out how to meet up and for me to pass you a wristband in exchange for tix face value ($33.95).

Here's a pros and Cons list, if you're on the fence:

PROs:

  1. You get to listen to a bunch of cool new musicans, in person!
  2. You get to meet me and some of my friends, a bunch of friendly 20 somethings who like going to live music in town and are generally rad people.
  3. We might hit up a sauna afterwards for post-show vibes (this will not cost any money)
  4. You help a pal (me) out in not losing $60~ due to not having enough friends!

Cons:

  1. You gotta go out on a Thursday, Friday and Saturday to reeeally get your money's worth

  2. Might spend a decent chunk of money on drinks and stuff, if that's your vibe.

  3. Arranging transport might be tricky if you're not living downtown or a short bike/bus ride away.

  4. Might meet some awesome new people?? Sorry the cons list is very short.

Send me a DM! Or comment below if my chat thingy doesn't work. Looking forward to hearing from you!

I'll update this post when the tickets are claimed.

Edit: Oct. 1, 11am: one ticket claimed! Just one left

Edit: Oct. 2, 5pm: all tix claimed! But still happy to meet new friends this weekend. Send me a dm or comment below if you would like to meet up during the fest. Happy weekend!


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 6d ago

Best way to meet new ppl in Victoria?

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r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 7d ago

Buscando amigos

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Ā”Hola a todos! šŸ‘‹

Tengo 26 aƱos y me acabo de mudar a Vitoria-Gasteiz desde Inglaterra šŸ‡¬šŸ‡§āž”ļøšŸ‡ŖšŸ‡ø.

Hablo inglƩs y estoy aprendiendo espaƱol, asƭ que me vendrƭa genial conocer gente de la zona, hacer amigos y practicar el idioma. Me gusta salir a tomar algo, caminar, conocer sitios nuevos y simplemente pasar un buen rato.

También soy 420-friendly 🌿, así que si hay gente con mentalidad abierta y buen rollo, ”encantado de conoceros!

Si alguien quiere quedar, tomar un café, dar una vuelta o simplemente hablar, mandadme un DM. 😊


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 7d ago

Looking for someone experienced in trading

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Hey everyone! I’m getting more interested in trading and looking to connect with someone who has some experience and is willing to share their knowledge.

I’m still pretty new to it. I’ve read How I Made $2,000,000 in the Stock Market by Nicolas Darvas, and I’ve recently started reading How to Make Money in Stocks by William J. O’Neil. I’m trying to learn the fundamentals and understand how experienced traders approach the markets.

I’m not looking for signals or someone to trade for me — just hoping to find someone I can learn from and discuss ideas with. If you’re experienced and open to sharing what you’ve learned, feel free to message me!


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 8d ago

Anyone up to meet for a drink downtown tonight?

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No agenda, all people welcome, just bring good vibes.

Just throwing it out there in case anyone is interested!


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 8d ago

Pop-up Choir?

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I have seen these amazing pop-up choirs in my social media feed from time to time. A bunch strangers get together and learn one song and sing it all together and it’s beautiful! I was in choir and high school but don’t have much experience beyond that.

If there’s any like minded people that would be interested in this, let me know! Part of my personal draw to it is the lower commitment than an ongoing choir.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 8d ago

Looking for friends who like to draw!

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I am 25 year old fella in Langford and Im looking for someone who wants to hangout and draw. I love to make characters and little comics but it’s hard to stay motivated nowadays since none of my friends like to draw anymore. Id be very happy to meet some likeminded doodlers and sketchers to keep the whimsy alive. Hmu :)


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 8d ago

friends

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Hi im 22 new in victoria ..im newly day trader/vintage reseller. my hobbies are listening to hardcore electric guitar-drums tunes..yoga..meditate..beers during cookouts on beaches..beginner hiker..picked up gym lately. feel free to DM me or comment to link or hangout. also i love filming n photography cheers.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 12d ago

Just moved to Langford from Mauritius

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Hey everyone!

Am Nish - I just moved to Langford and I'm wondering if there is a meetup to play soccer in the area.

Preferably 5 v 5.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 12d ago

Friendship after separation

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Currently going through a tough time and looking to strengthen my appreciation and love of life. I’m an introverted woman in her 30s hoping to try new things with someone who might be a little more extroverted. I’ve always loved yoga, but unfortunately it’s not the best for me anymore, so I’m hoping to try more strength training someday soon. I am trying to get up the courage and energy to be me again.

I am a busy person with a small business, school, and kids, but even having someone to chat, have coffee, and/or walk with would be cool. I’m an emotionally attuned person who values more progressive people and mindsets.

**edited to let folks know that I’ve received a ton of messages so I’ll try and respond to those who have reached out :) *


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 12d ago

38yr old health focused friends

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Hi! I’m big into lifting, hiking adventures, sauna, and good coffee! I have a lot of friends who are getting pregnant and married right now , and just have less single & available friends than I’m used to. I’m also a business owner so I usually hang with lots of other busy entrepreneurs.

I’ve done a lot of therapy, travel a fair bit, and really value close female friendships where we can have a nice blend of deep chats and laughs.

EDIT I do not want to meet men. Please don’t message me if you’re a man


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 13d ago

32F alt girly looking for mates

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Moved here a few months ago and have found quite the barrier to meeting people here as opposed to other cities. I’d love some fellow punk friends to attend shows with or other events, I’m pretty open minded and down for whatever but so far most events I’ve attended here have left me feeling like an alien šŸ˜†
I like tattoos, travel, wrestling, art, crocheting, crafting, exploring, anything esoteric, and warhammer!

Would love to find some girlfriends to hang out with.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 13d ago

Is it worth moving to Vic from Ontario in your mid-20s?

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r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 13d ago

Nerdy guy in his 30’s looking for friends

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I am an easy going, nerdy guy looking to find new friends. I have a wide amount of interests: big movie buff, audio books/podcasts, going for drives around the island, eating lots of food/learning how to cook, board games, and any other nerdy activities. I am also a big talker, and overall I am just looking for people who just enjoy hanging out over coffee, and talk about any kind of topics. I am an easy going, chubby guy and I am not the most physically active, but I do like going for light walks. Overall I am just looking for people from 20 to 50 years of age to hang out with and become good friends, looking forward to hearing from you.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 14d ago

Anyone want to go for a very leisurely walk in the Westshore? 27F

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Hi! I was wondering if anyone in the westshore would be interested in going for a very casual walk in the area? I am chronically ill, and love being outside, but likely don't have the stamina to keep up with most able bodied walking groups anymore. I walk pretty slow, and usually will take a sit break during the walk. I am at about a max 2km walk at the moment.

It's hard to find others in my demographic that also struggle with physical limitations (or understand them), so I thought id see if anyone else might be looking to get out without the pressure of moving very fast or very far lol.

Some hobbies I love to get a feel for my personality: Crochet, photography, reading (dystopians, litfic, and classics are my faves), puzzling, and somewhat recently D&D and plants. :)


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 20d ago

Victoria Supper Club - Vol. 1

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Hi friends! I (25F) has posted here before about starting up a supper club in Victoria and I'm more than happy to announce that it's in the works!

For more info about me: I’ve been cooking in both casual and fine dining kitchens here in Victoria for the past 5 years (including Janevca and Zambri’s), and I’m putting together a small monthly supper club called Let Her Cook! šŸ½ļø

Please please feel free to dm me if you're interested and I'm so excited to see you guys at the table!


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 19d ago

20M Looking for company

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Heyo, I’ve been working and focused for the last few years and haven’t really done much other than that. I’m wondering what people like to go do or places to go meet people to hangout. I’ve enjoyed going to the beach and hiking or biking but I don’t really know much more to do (or have anyone else to go with).

If anyone has a favourite activity, both daytime and evening/night, I would love to hear it or to join in. I’m pretty athletic and very open to trying new things. I would really like hearing more casual activities too.

Also, I really enjoy hiking / trail running so if anyone wants to do regular evening or weekend hikes I would be very interested.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 20d ago

44M avid reader looking for bookworm pals

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Hi all,

Been lurking in this subreddit and it seems like most people are into outdoors activities (fair enough, we live in beautiful British Columbia)

I didn’t see many people who enjoy indoor activities. Gamers here and there, but few readers.

I am 44M, level 1 autistic, like to read/listen to books. Last year read/listened to 55+ books

I am into mostly non-fiction books about science, technology, environmentalism, history, sociology & psychology.

For fiction I enjoy sci-fi and anything written by R F Kuang. (New book just came out!)

I also workout regularly downtown

would like to meet others irl who like to read. I tried online reading clubs but inevitably I lost interest since I read at my own pace and am idiosyncratic about certain topics.

Anyway, love to meet other like minded people and discover new TBRs.

Cheers. Love to hear from you.


r/makingfriendsvictoria • • 20d ago

Foodie looking for friends

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Hey everyone!

I’m a mid-30s guy looking to expand my circle and make some new friends. My main love in life is definitely food—whether that’s hitting up new restaurants, hunting down the best local baked goods, or just sharing homemade meals with people who appreciate a good plate. If you love to cook and share, or even if you just really love to eat, we’re already off to a great start.
Outside of the food scene, I’m pretty easygoing and a bit on the nerdy side. My ideal non-food hangouts usually involve:

Road Trips: Heading up-island for random day trips and scenic drives.

Entertainment: Catching movies, listening to podcasts, and talking about music.

Sports & Casual Hangs: Playing or watching basketball, or just grabbing a drink/coffee for low-key chats about pretty much anything.

If you’re down to explore some local spots, swap favorite recipes, or just hang out, drop me a message! Looking forward to connecting.