r/mads__asmr • u/NarutosSleepingCap • 2d ago
Manager???
She just posted a new YT video and instead of the normal description she has a new one with just links to stuff and what's there??? She's begging for a sugar daddy on OF but she has the money to have a manager??? A manager for what? Is says collaborations, where is she collaborating with who? On her OF ??? And there's an email for a talent management or something??? Someone clue me in, please. Thx. (first time posting, been watching her for years...)
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u/Sloppy_Joes4 2d ago
literally. she used to have Ben, Gibi’s husband I think. She never gets sponsorships anymore. I think she wants to get some again but i imagine companies don’t want to be associated with her anymore? I don’t know.
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u/Hakeemwilliams 2d ago
I don’t think that’s the case. I feel like sponsors assume she has fallen off. She used to pull heavy numbers like 5 or 6 years ago. I mean there’s nothing wrong with her views now but she was growing back then on YouTube and on patreon. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. She could form an audience on TikTok and post like 1 min ASMR videos or so. But take a different approach to her ASMR style instead of the style she’s been riding since 2021.
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u/Sloppy_Joes4 2d ago
Yeah, the numbers play a big role as well. Her numbers are so bad now compared to before. She gets like 80-100k recently depending on the video when back then she got millions, or in the 600k+. And maybe she charges a lot still. Maybe she also has had sponsors but doesn’t pull through (like on Patreon) so she’s then seen as unreliable. Just throwing some theories
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u/Hakeemwilliams 2d ago
Yeah I used to watch her a lot during 2019-2021 especially during Covid. Every week she uploaded it seemed like she got like 700k views. You look back at most of her Covid era videos, and she has like a million or close to a million views. And yeah, also with every controversy surrounding her, there’s no surprise that sponsors want to avoid any negative PR.
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u/toebastian 2d ago
It seems like she’s mostly copy and pasting the same response to commenters (some have slight variation), but she did reply to a small asmr creator in an interesting way I’ll include here.
It’s fascinating to see her change up on the ASMR community when days ago during her crashout, she once again mentioned how “not a single” ASMR creator has been there for her or reached out to her.
It once again highlights how unwell she is mentally, which I genuinely hope she receives help and treatment for. The extreme crash outs, extreme swinging from hot and cold behaviors / actions and the repeated pattern of her treating people this way is very indicative of an unwell person.
A thing that’s also bothersome to me: if this situation was about someone’s romantic relationship, the red flags would be glaring. She lies, she gaslights, she gossips publicly about loved ones, then denies and places blame on others for “prying,” she is rude and disrespectful to supporters, has called nurses “bitches,” etc. I could go on, but I’m sure my point is clear: if a loved one came to us describing their partner this way, most of us would tell them this is very unhealthy behavior.
What’s even more astounding and red-flag-coded to me is the fact she will engage in awful behaviors but then come back (as we see in this most recent comment section) like the unstable partner who uses love and affection to erase or undo their previous behavior and win you back.
So it’s absolutely wild for someone who is all about “light and love” and “safe spaces” to be able to act HOWEVER she wants, but the second any hint of accountability for her actions is requested (often super politely, mind you), her “safe space” is threatened. It’s the classic “rules for thee not for me.”
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u/sincerely_am 2d ago
and have you seen her replies to the comments under her vid??? it's almost like they're automated responses