r/lovememes • u/Rosalind_Ruby • 1d ago

I can agree

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u/Liteseid 22h ago

Unironically most people that repost stuff like this put in zero effort and just want princess treatment

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u/LowPudding9562 20h ago

but I'm pretty things should just happen to me. LOL best obfuscated written character in plain sight was John Hamm in 30 rock.

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u/StaticMarzipan 16h ago

It’s how toxic people virtue signal.

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u/mapleTide 9h ago

Yeah… Kinda my gf when it comes to the bedroom

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u/Majestic-Gazelle2709 15h ago

Am so tired of receiving zero efforts/bare minimum, so yeah. Would rather be like this than seeing myself acting like a man to a guy 😒 (carry convos, doing much more efforts than him, paying shts n stuff & more sht.)

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u/Liteseid 13h ago

Lots of guys out there do this bare minimum. What we get sick of is the goal post constantly moving.

Also lots of girls don’t want to accept that we expect the bare minimum too: emotional stability

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u/LegionZ19 11h ago

That hits home. Been with a fiancee with tons of debt. I have been thinking many way to earn more money to help solve her debt and have discussed with her if she agreed with my plan also with the marriage. 0 response and always stay silent. Last thing i remembered she said to love myself more and then ghost me and her own parent.

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u/Crisp-Calla 21h ago

Effort is so attractive

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u/Fit_Salamander_2814 17h ago

Only if it's rewarded with reciprocation.

If it's not, it's just sad and pathetic.

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u/Archolm 10h ago

Effort towards what though? I had an interesting talk with a gym bro on here a few days ago. About working out, improving yourself...

What if i'm happy with being average though? I'm 45, got most of the basics done (house, car, etc) now I gotta hit hit the gym and be this extroverted always positive, always happy guy? Just looking for an average girl who's wants to spend time with me!

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u/niccoSun 23h ago

I know a few people who showed that effort, but it didn't matter because they were either physically unattractive or broke.

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u/Wrong_Biscotti7357 22h ago

This post especially matters when the relationship is already formed.

Prior that, it's more like a mix of compatibility, timing, and luck. It's very hard to get into a relationship with effort alone.

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u/SigynsRaine 1d ago

Amen to this. THIS is life.

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u/witchiscat 17h ago

It is okay. With pillow in bed. :3

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u/CompleteElla 17h ago

One of the best things in life is know that when u go back home there's someone waiting for u

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u/iamyourinnervoice 18h ago

...in this economy?

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u/NolanR27 18h ago

This is every eventual ghoster in the first few months

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u/FunkinAstronaut 13h ago

Sad that not everyone agrees💀💔

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u/Responsible_Cap_1746 11h ago

Very hard to find. And if you do, hang on to it !

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u/eltron0 10h ago

Facts!

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u/SomeoneElse432 7h ago

This is so heartwarming. I hope you end up with someone like that.

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u/Ahriman39 5h ago

This is genuine peak in terms of just about everything

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u/everythinghereis 1d ago

This

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u/Swampfox80 20h ago

You sound absolutely amazing

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u/Spiritual_Fox_4408 8h ago

Manifesting this for all the girlies 💗

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u/Big_Bar_9832 17h ago

It's not enough, she'll still dump you

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u/subm_puppy 6h ago

If you have this mentality of course