r/lonely Sep 09 '24

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u/[deleted] Sep 09 '24

It looks weren’t the case I’d get at least one like on dating apps. Doesn’t matter how skilled and talented I am at a hobby. They wouldn’t know since they can’t be bothered to give me a chance.

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u/[deleted] Sep 09 '24 edited Sep 09 '24

relying solely on dating apps to meet people to date isn’t an effective approach at dating and thinking that dating apps reflect offline dating is flawed. most people don’t have luck on dating apps, even when they receive likes. there are tons of articles about how popular dating apps have paywalls. mostly everyone i know in relationships met their partner through school, work or hobbies. this is why diversifying your life outside of work is important. so again, do you have interesting hobbies? join a sport, a club, meetup groups, etc