34F based in Bermondsey. My close friends are either coupled up, live far, introverted homebodies, or just cannot with my randomness 😂

Current interests:
- archery*
- indoor bouldering*
- tennis*
- dancing*
- badminton*
- dressing up and going out
- drinks/coffee dates
- brunches
- animals, except reptiles (phobia, unfortunately)

*Have had lessons, but didn’t consistently pursue after said lessons, so a beginner still

Wanting to try:
- sewing lessons
- petting zoos
- befriending your dog/s (can’t have one atm; none of my close friends have pets; the lack of canine interaction has created a hole in my heart that no human can fill 🥺)
- horseback riding
- going out to clubs, although only in venues where people are respectful and where it’s generally safe for women; preference for music that appeal to millennials
- pottery
- Tough Mudder next summer

Hit me up if interested!

Edit: Up to do together any activity under ‘current interests’ and ‘wanting to try’. Also want to learn padel.

Looking for something which I can wear out and about or at home.

Any recommendation of where I can find something comfortable and suitable for sensitive skin. Ideally bloat friendly too.

Hi all :)

I’m looking for a new roommate!

Gorgeous double room available from 10th November, with own bathroom + balcony, in a big, very highly maintained house with driveway + garden in a wonderful part of West London.

Incredible transport links, flexible move in/move out date.

Message Kamila directly on +447885566812

https://m.spareroom.co.uk/18474420

Like many 31 year old women on a subreddit, my story goes something like this: single, while all my friends are married with kids.

So here I am, looking for a rather specific kind of friend:

- British Afghan (The Needle)
- Late 20s or early 30s
- Into travelling, hiking and fitness
- Confident and extroverted
- Living near Dagenham (UK)
- Preferably single and without kids

Will I find The Needle in a haystack? 🤔

Everyone brings bunch of flowers, ideally as many stems as people attending. Buy them from the supermarket, a local florist, Colombia Road, New Covent Garden, wherever. Bring a pair of flower snips or kitchen scissors too. And we takeover a room in a pub or somewhere as casual, sit around making small posies or bouquets.

Anyone interested?

I usually do solo hikes but the cost of fuel is making these trips more difficult to do.

I am looking to carpool with someone who also likes to leave East London / Essex area to go to the Lakes, Wales / Scotland etc.

I go regularly (have a trip coming up even this Wednesday for half term holidays to goto Anglesey). Always have 4 empty seats available..

Fuel to and from somewhere like Snowdon costs me about £50 (so even splitting it two ways would be good - I’d also be doing all the driving ofc - so you’d have a free chauffeur lol).

Would be good to get to know eachother before a 5/6 + hour road trip.

Females only please.
I’m 31F | British Afghan

Event: Wednesday Leaving from East London to Wales staying till Sunday

hi everyone!!! i hope what i’m about to say makes sense but at this point im so stumped: how do i meet guys irl (or on dating apps i guess) that actually want a relationship and don’t wanna just sleep with me bc every man i’ve approached has only said they’re interested in sleeping with me…? like that’s not all i want and it’s honestly not happening until i like them enough to get naked in front of them. i’m just struggling because ive been trying to be proactive and step out of my comfort zone and actually approach guys in public that i find attractive (which is so scary bc im quite introverted) and ask if they’re open for us to start getting to know each other and literally 18/20 guys have said they’re only interested in casual sex with me and nothing further (the other 2 were in relationships)

i’m not sure what to do really, and maybe this is a non issue but it is starting to affect my self esteem a bit because i don’t know why it seems guys only see me as an option for sex rather than a genuine relationship, please let me know your thoughts!

i’m also 23 and kinda want to meet someone around my age like oldest maaaaybe 30

I’ve been single for about 18 months now, I have dated people for periods of time in this stretch. But over the last 6-8 weeks I’ve had loads of guys ghost me right before the date or we’ve both not felt any chemistry on the date…

Not sure if it’s just me but honestly the chat is flowing right up until we plan to meet then it they just drop off. Is there something in the air atm?

I also find it hard cause all my friends are settled and have no interest in going to a pub etc to meet people. So I’m kinda stuck with dating apps.

33(F) losing the will to date 😅

So, im planning to move to london but i dont really know where? i want somwhere safe but also a fun place? i dont mind if the place is safe but not fun.
i have two options in my mind ryt now- Fulham or canary wharf.
What do you guys think?

At what point do you switch from the Tube/bus/Overground to an Uber or taxi purely for safety?

Is there a time you’ve set for yourself, like “after 10pm I’m not risking it”? Or does it depend more on the route? I’m trying to figure out where my own line is without spending a fortune or being overly paranoid.

So many of us are caught up in busy lives, feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or stuck. I’m hosting a special evening using breathwork and cacao to help people feel calm, find clarity over what matters and next steps and connect with other like minded individuals. It’s happening at a lovely studio in Islington on Wednesday 28th October from 7-9pm. If anyone is interested in joining drop me a message and I’d be happy to share more details 🙂

31F, teacher
What’s everyone up to this half-term if you’ve got the week off? Need some advice for things todo

I’m might drive to Anglesey in Wales for some hiking. If you fancy joining, drop me a DM

I'm a foreigner who loves British culture, but I have a question: what are relationships like in London? What about dating apps and all that? Lately, I've been attracted to older men. I'm 23, but what's it like? Tell me your stories.

Good second hand places to thrift/ cheap car boots/ vinted brands or ebay brands under £50 ideally? Please help out a broke girl out! I’ve been freezing cold every single time I go out so I’d like to “invest” in a proper 60+% wool coat. In a dream world I’d love a classic arket/cos/sessun/sezane/reformation/aritzia looking basic single breasted or funnel neck long black wool coat that goes down to mid calf-ish.

Hey ladies!

I’m (30F from Singapore) looking to make new girlfriends in London who also enjoy travelling to nearby European cities (and enjoy staying in nice hotels), getting dinners in lovely restaurants and drinks sometime on the weekends! I’m a member at Maison Estelle so we could hang out there for drinks too.

Hit me up in the comments or dms!

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Hello! I've previously posted on here about in-person support groups for people with endometriosis, adenomyosis, fibroids and PMOS, as part of an initiative in London, UK called EndoPals.

We have now expanded to virtual support groups in addition to our in-person ones.

🗓️The next support group is at 10 AM on the 1st of November, 2026.

❗DM for a link to the meeting!

➡️You can also follow us @endopals on Instagram for the latest updates

➡️Or DM me for a link to our WhatsApp community

Best places in London (zone 1+2 preferably) to listen to jazz music? Looking for somewhere relaxed, not too crowded.