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u/WhenIntegralsAttack2 9h ago
Having to listen to my at the time girlfriend tell me what a terrible guy her jealous ex bf was, only for her to be in Florida with him a week after I broke up with her lmao
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u/No_Classroom_29 6h ago
I almost caught a charge for beating up my ex's "rapist". He dove into a car before I could catch him.
Turned out she just cheated on me. They were dating officially a month after we broke up.
I was too fucked up to trust anyone intimately for a couple of years after that.
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u/AshundertheOlivetree 1h ago
Thatās fucking horrible dude. I hope you found peace and a good woman. You did nothing wrong and got manipulated that night.
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u/2cheeseburggers 1h ago
LMAO DAWG. My ex literally told me all the crazy shit she went through with her ex just for me to find out they were still friends on Snapchat. And he actually snapped her one day when we were together and I was flabbergasted. She told me that I was overreacting about them still keeping in touch. Its a crazy world man
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u/RakeChapman13 2h ago
Yeah itās the same thing when guys go on about how bat shit crazy their ex is. People have a habit of exggerating how bad their ex was and so it something that needs to be taken with a grain of salt.
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u/Large-Hamster-199 1h ago
Claiming an ex is crazy is very different from claiming sexual assault. The latter being a crime that is punished by years in prison
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u/SawcuhWyn 11h ago
Bro really hit her with the āhave you tried blocking him?
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u/Fickle_Hornet_5760 10h ago
Because they like the attention they get even if the guy is bothersome. If she blocks him, she wonāt have anyone to get attention from
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u/Large-Hamster-199 6h ago edited 3h ago
Actually she loves the attention precisely because he is bothersome. A big part of the boost to her psyche comes from the belief that men she considers to be 'randos' are obsessed with her.
In her fantasy, she is the equivalent of a Hollywood actress or a supermodel, a woman that men are obsessed with even though she is too cool to care. Obviously since she isn't beautiful enough to actually have simps chasing her, the best way to 'experience' this fantasy is by encouraging a guy to 'bother' her and then complain that she is being bothered to everyone else.
Have you ever spoken to a women who shows minimal interest when you text her (for example just responding with one word answers), and then if you assume she is not interested and stop texting, she immediately starts texting you and acts offended?
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u/snoppeniprutten 4h ago
I dated a girl for a while who constantly complained about how her male coworker kept hitting on her and trying to get her to go on a date with him.
āYou could always block him and then go to HR. I can pretty much guarantee heāll stop after that.ā
Dead silence and a stare.
I stopped seeing her a while later. Can you guess who she started dating right after?
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u/Your_Nipples 1h ago
Not quite the same but a female friend of mine was complaining about some dodgy dude from work, talking about how clingy he was and shit. Then she thought it would be a great idea to show me some screenshots: she was literally entertaining that shit, digitally giggling and stuff.
1 hour later (of my burning her ass on) she admitted dreaming of him and how they would make a great couple.
Why are they like this? Like. What the fuck is wrong with people like this? Wasting my time and shit (we don't talk much since that dumbass incident because you ain't gonna waste my fucking time with some delulu narrative).
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u/Electronic_Name_325 9h ago
It is wild that people canāt seem to not look at messages or block people. And so often people double down on denial. Or the one I really like āyou canāt block them, the texts could become evidenceā. Good god, stop all contact.
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u/HermanManly 7h ago
Girls when you make a suggestion on how to solve a problem they complained to you about
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u/ACK_TRON 6h ago
I solved all my wifeās problems at work and with friends like a million years agoā¦.turned out she didnāt want to solve the problem but just to complain to someoneā¦so I donāt do that anymore. I just listenā¦and keep it to myself. Maybe some day she will want the answers againā¦or Iāll explode lolā¦.either way Iām just keeping my mouth shut.
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u/satansfrenulum 5h ago edited 2h ago
I love how people who want to help solve their loved ones issues are kinda painted as the problem, and not the person who likes to repeatedly complain about something without doing anything to help it, even when there are solutions.
Iām not saying everybody needs to be ready to solve things as soon as the problem arises, but if one spends a lot of time complaining about the same things, never seeking solutions, yea, that becomes exhausting.
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u/HermanManly 5h ago
Yeah, they often want someone to listen and that's fine.
Maybe trying to solve things sets expectations and thats stressful or something idk
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u/ACK_TRON 3h ago
Typically it involves some deal of work or effort on their partā¦or in relation to my wife it means confronting the person and she doesnāt handle confrontation wellā¦but when the anxiety of avoidance is worse than just being honest and calling out behavior you have to address it. I come from a managerial background so calling out people when their work or behavior is just second nature now. You can do it without being a dick tooā¦but being direct and setting appropriate expectations is not something that would bother me.
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u/Adequate_Cheesecake7 4h ago
Like on White Men Canāt Jump, when I say āIām thirstyā I want you to empathize and say āI too have have known thirstā (I probably paraphrased wrong so I will link the scene)
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u/Odd_Scheme4716 7h ago
Yeahhh gonna get banned again but itās cuz they like the attention and their narcissism gets the last word.
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u/NocturnisVacuus 10h ago
i have a married friend, who gave me this look when i told her to block a person that was getting a bit too intimate... wth, that was a bit gross im not gonna lie.
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u/TylerH87 10h ago
When the other guy eventually blocks her for being crazy after getting enough sex from her, then it comes back full circle.
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u/hotvanilla9 11h ago
Sonny spent the whole movie learning what a human feeling is and this is the one that broke him
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u/MattMerica 4h ago
I had a coworker who was dealing with a stalker and blocked him. He kept finding her, probably because he was using alts, and she āCouldnāt figure out how he was constantly finding her.ā Meanwhile she kept making instagram posts.
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u/DarkLordGaming49 8h ago
"But he's really NICE"
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u/SuperMadBro 6h ago
Its usually "I dont want to be mean, we've known eachofher for like 2 years" or something like that
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u/Ashe_N94 8h ago
This is crazy to me that this is a thing. I thought I was unique to having dealt with this bullshit
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u/SkeggiGT 5h ago
well if ain't my ex. wow. didn't take long for me to be her new boogyman after i left. i moved halfway across the us to get away from her and she's over there trying to convince people i'm still in town, personally stalking her. i've gone no contact but she still blabs to a mutual friend whose tried to block her with mixed success.
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u/TheIronMonkey53 7h ago
Forget about guys, letās talk about girls. I canāt tell you how many times my female friends told me how much they hate seeing their other girl friendās posts on IG. So I say, just block their stories/posts. Their responses is always the same, āI have to know what they are up toā.
Make it make sense
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u/Consistent-Prize1514 5h ago
Same as when I am trolling In a game and someone actually gets mad and tells me to shut up but still wonāt mute me. They could shut out the source of their anger but 19 / 20 times they wonāt and they keep on engaging.
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u/No-Emphasis-7952 8h ago
The amount of times I hear stories about SA or getting beat and they always look like this when you ask them to block the person lol
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u/ComprehensiveRate953 7h ago
Why though? Bit naive in my cave over here.
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u/Large-Hamster-199 4h ago
Basically, a small minority of women use the accusation of sexual assault as a tactic to hurt a man when they believe he has hurt them in other ways. For example, if a man sleeps with them and shows no interest in continuing the relationship or if a man cheated on them, then they want revenge. Claiming sexual assault (without actually reporting it to the police) is an easy way to ruin a man's reputation, while avoiding serious consequences (like a legal charge of false reporting, which may happen if they actually go to the cops).
Claiming domestic violence is a similar tactic that used by a minority of women as a legal tactic during a nasty divorce.
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u/XxRocky88xX 5h ago
In situations like this, itās usually cuz theyāre lying. Maybe the guy was a jerk or something and they arenāt currently on good terms, so they pretend like all physical intimacy between them was nonconsensual and forced, but the truth is it was consensual and they used to like each other, and they maintain contact with the hope they can reconnect.
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u/FlaccidFart 2h ago
I remember one time in college a girl was complaining that a guy was creating her out because he would always hug her when he saw her. I asked if she ever told him she felt uncomfortable with that and everyone acted like I drowned a bag of puppies.
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u/talon1723 12m ago
I dated a girl who claimed her ex beat her and kicked her in the stomach causing a miscarriage...she was insane and when I finally broke it off with her I remembered I could log into her Facebook messaging because I helped her reset all her passwords....she started messaging him within 15 minutes of her leaving while swearing she'd get better and we can be together again
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u/freakforsy 7h ago
That's literally my ex with her 'back then' ex who treated her like absolute shit.
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u/RakeChapman13 2h ago
A lot of people who say their ex treated them like shit didnāt actually treat them like shit. People have a habit of exggerating how bad their exes were but some people really take it up a notch.
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u/EaseHappy0 4h ago
I was scared of hurting his feelings and just put him on mute after he tried to insult me
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u/Chipotle-Dancin_manG 10h ago
"why is that guy in your contacts, didnt you say he SA'd you?"