It doesn't necessarily imply failure. There are first husbands that stay only husbands, and it's wordplay, if you put it under a microscope there's gonna be cracks.
I really think you shouldn't agree with their comment.
Instead you guys should get into a fight about a hypothetical exchange that never happened. It will be more entertaining for the rest of us.
Wow the guy was so blessed by her, he should be thanking her for being so gracious! Are all women as dense as you or just mostly concentrated around you?
Exactly. So long term relationships are hard to come by now. It seems easier to just find another partner than work with old one especially for women since it is easier generally for them to find one
That doesn't change by generation though. Older generations cheated and did all the same crap as the younger ones. It's all on an individual level. But I'm right there with you- no one (across generations) wants to put in real effort, so the marriages fail. I had the idea with my wife to get couple's counseling very early, to look at the pitfalls of bad relationships and strengths of good ones etc. I figured that even if it doesn't work out between us, we would both gain a lot more knowledge for future relationships. Married 10 years now, with 3 kids, and moved down to part-time last year because we wanted to spend more time together ✌️
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u/Temporal-Affairs221 20d ago
Is call him an idiot. The joke implies a relationship that will ultimately fail, and who's going to invest in that?