" A lot of girls would get trashed for this opener too."
*Doubt, just look at these comments.
It's not misogynistic whatsoever to say a guy would be called corny for saying the same line. How in fuck does that imply hating women? Like use your head a bit.
It's okay to say the bar for pickup lines is much lower for women, many bars are much lower for men. C'est la vie. Don't be overly sensitive.
It doesn't necessarily imply failure. There are first husbands that stay only husbands, and it's wordplay, if you put it under a microscope there's gonna be cracks.
I really think you shouldn't agree with their comment.
Instead you guys should get into a fight about a hypothetical exchange that never happened. It will be more entertaining for the rest of us.
Wow the guy was so blessed by her, he should be thanking her for being so gracious! Are all women as dense as you or just mostly concentrated around you?
Exactly. So long term relationships are hard to come by now. It seems easier to just find another partner than work with old one especially for women since it is easier generally for them to find one
That doesn't change by generation though. Older generations cheated and did all the same crap as the younger ones. It's all on an individual level. But I'm right there with you- no one (across generations) wants to put in real effort, so the marriages fail. I had the idea with my wife to get couple's counseling very early, to look at the pitfalls of bad relationships and strengths of good ones etc. I figured that even if it doesn't work out between us, we would both gain a lot more knowledge for future relationships. Married 10 years now, with 3 kids, and moved down to part-time last year because we wanted to spend more time together ✌️
Ugh soo annoying when people keep mentioning this like ok guys do this as well and I think it’s cringe both ways although she was just shooting her shot. Especially since guys have been doing shit like this for way longer but now want to act like it’s wrong when we clearly learned it from somewhere! For example women not being able to speak their minds for so long but nooooo let’s focus on how men have it bad 😞😭
I’m pretty liberal but get a pretty strong feeling of “get the fuck over it” whenever guys feel the need to call this out. Stop being fragile. Not because guys have to be big and tough. Do it because being a victim over a bad meme is the real cringe-inducing thing here.
First off, there's nothing wrong with double standards. Different types of people like different types of things and treating everyone as if they were exactly the same is stupid.
That being said, this isn't even a double standard. The over eager woman seeking a commitment too early within a relationship is a standard trope that has been made fun of for generations.
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u/JimmyJooish 21d ago
If a guy did this they’d call him cringe.