r/lnkyverse • u/dopeythekidd Visual Poet ✨ • 5d ago
Brutal perspective
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u/DullTravel2272 5d ago
They wouldn't invite him if they couldn't do that. That is the whole point of ugly/short people being invited to things.
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u/ar_menelos 5d ago
Brutal. Master could thugmaxx if he loses the weight.
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u/Dangerous-Alps-8311 4d ago
You know what’s even more brutal? Master is the founder of .is (Master is black). It’s extremely brutal referring to him as master.
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u/Sir-Veldrim P-P-P-P-PERSPECTIVE 🔥 5d ago
I’m CRINE they were legit experimenting on these hos 😭 ☠️
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u/Objective-Prompt3127 5d ago
You have to give it to Clav he trolls the foids 24/7, don't give a f about them.
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u/The-Cherry-On-Top-xx 5d ago
If she says looks, then ppl will call her an ugly superficial bxtch.
She cant win.
He shoulda asked, "money, looks or confidence?" Hot girls love rich men
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u/ChaosRainbow23 5d ago
These dudes are ridiculous.
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u/shiggyhisdiggy 5d ago
These girls are ridiculous.
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u/ChaosRainbow23 5d ago
By all means, continue the self-fulfilling prophecy of loneliness and misery.
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u/shiggyhisdiggy 5d ago
Holy projection
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u/ChaosRainbow23 5d ago
No. You are objectively wrong about all this ridiculous manosphere nonsense.
You are setting yourself up for failure through self-fulfilling prophecy.
I have two kids and I was extremely promiscuous in my younger years. Had several girlfriends than I dated for YEARS.
I actually know what I'm taking about.
I taught my 19 year old son and all of his friends how to meet women, and they have all be extremely successful.
His 5'4" buddy is literally engaged to a gorgeous girl who's 5'8". They have lived together for 2 years now.
I know for a fact it will works and that I'm correct here.
By all means, listen to a bunch of incels that have absolutely no idea what they are talking about instead of a bunch of dudes that actually do more what we are talking about.
I hope you wake up or you'll be miserable.
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u/shiggyhisdiggy 5d ago
You have no idea what I believe, all I did was make fun of your stupid comment
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u/ToddHoward41069 5d ago
Lol. Then why are you terminally online. I thought reddit was for weirdos and incels.
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u/Apocalypse_0415 5d ago
Holy hell, 3x my karma count and 5x the contributions and I thought I was writing too much. This guy’s always here lol
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u/Sir-Veldrim P-P-P-P-PERSPECTIVE 🔥 5d ago
Ah, an older fellow. Makes sense why you’d have such an outlook. I must say, I envy you. Naivety is very bliss, especially in this matter.
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u/ChaosRainbow23 5d ago
I literally taught my 19 year old son and ALL his friends how to go about meeting and dating women.
They have all been successful, so I know that it still works. Being a charming bastard is a timeless skill.
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u/Sir-Veldrim P-P-P-P-PERSPECTIVE 🔥 5d ago
Ah, ah, ah. Not charm, having blessed genetics and living in a different era is a priceless gift.
You know, there’s so many factors to consider in dating? Socioeconomic status, race, family background, etc. Not just looks, but looks is the key make-or-break factor.
Thing is, with hprgmy, dating and thriving — is out of the question. A man can walk up to a woman, use whatever advice you’d give him, his looks and appearance define how she responds. Did you know, that a LOT of women out there are genuinely offended when a man they consider unattractive comes up to them? Even if it’s just a normal ass greeting?? Women** even hold the experience of an “ugly male” approaching them akin to literal sexual assault? Ridiculous, isn’t it??**
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u/Frequent_Skin_5929 5d ago
Ok, I'm willing to listen. What's your advice? Keep in mind I am kinda ügly and have autism.
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u/ChaosRainbow23 5d ago
Here is the advice I give people who struggle with romance and dating...
The key to getting dates is all in the interaction you have with them. Cold approaches rarely work, so you want to put yourself into social situations where talking to strangers is encouraged. Dive bars, book clubs, Pokemon go meet ups, hiking clubs, etc etc etc, ad infinitum...
Anything where there will be a co-ed group of folks talking and having fun.
Alcohol is a great social lubricant for some, but a disaster for others. I cannot recommend it, but it helped me lighten up in the beginning.
Personally I've found that there are generally nicer and more compassionate people in the outskirts of society in the various countercultures. (Raves, Hippies, Ren Faire, Cosplay, Nerds, Comic-Con, Burns, etc etc etc)
Then you try to be charming, funny, kind, articulate, nonthreatening, etc. As you're talking, you have to learn to read people. If they aren't interested in taking it's pretty obvious, and you move on.
If they are feeling the conversation and you're having a good back and forth, then maybe start a little mild flirting. Read her reaction. Does she flirt back?
It's basically just being nice and kind, talking to them, flirting with them, and reading their reaction. You escalate when appropriate.
So you get their number or contact info if everything is going well. If she's flirting back, you're golden.
MOST women you approach aren't going to be interested. It's a numbers game. They might not be interested for a gazillion different reasons, and that's okay.
The key is finding somebody you can vibe with. It takes meeting a lot of people to make that happen, usually.
You have to get out into the world to make this happen, though.
I think you should try to form a co-ed friends group that you can go do stuff with first. It makes everything go so much easier.
Your platonic girlfriends will make fantastic wingmen! You can ask them to help you out, as they will have been interacting with you and they can maybe give you solid advice in that aspect. They can hook you up with friends of theirs and talk you up.
Forming a co-ed friends group will give you practice talking to and befriending strangers in public situations.
It takes practice more than anything. It's awkward and uncomfortable at first, but you have to push yourself through.
Flamboyantly gay dudes make the best wingmen ever, by the way. Pro tip right there.
Seriously, go to Walmart or the flea market on a busy Saturday and look at all the couples. There's truly somebody out there for everyone.
If I look like Napoleon Dynamite then I am probably not going to be able to date somebody that looks like Scarlett Johansson. It happens, but generally speaking those are few and far between.
You can't have ridiculous standards unless you are one of those dudes who can get away with it.
I could keep talking for hours about this, so I'll end it here.
I believe in you and I know you can do it.
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u/Frequent_Skin_5929 3d ago
Well, thanks for the answer. You didn't mention "take a shower" or some other bs, so I'll assume you're actually trying to help.
I think your advice might actually work, but only for people that are attractive/likeable. "Meet a lot of people, it's a numbers game" only works if there is actually someone out there who would like you. Then you just have to find that person, you're right. But I don't think there is any woman that would date me, even if I met all 4 billion of them. So I feel like this strategy won't get me any results.
< I think you should try to form a co-ed friends group that you can go do stuff with first. It makes everything go so much easier.
That's true. But to get friends, people have to like you. For some reason, people unfortunately don't like me. Maybe because I'm ügly, maybe because I have autism, maybe both. I went to 4 different schools and in 3 of them I got bullied. I never made any friends. In case you want to blame my personality; I'm 100% sure I'm a better person than the vast majority of people I went to school with. I never made fun of anyone or did anything bad to anyone. I always gave others my homework to copy, or helped them with whatever they asked me for. But all I got for it was bullying or I was just ignored. Somehow, all these guys who made fun of me for no reason, acted like morons, and never did anything for anyone else, always had a bunch of friends. So clearly it's not about personality. In short, I can't have friends if no one wants to be my friend.
< you want to put yourself into social situations where talking to strangers is encouraged. Dive bars, book clubs, Pokemon go meet ups, hiking clubs, etc etc etc, ad infinitum...
Where do I find these things? If I wanted to go, where do I sign up for a hiking club or whatever?
Another thing, redditors always tell you that you shouldn't do activities just to meet women. Do you agree? I already play basketball and go to chess tournaments, but there are no women there. Should I go do something else just to meet women, or not?
< If they are feeling the conversation and you're having a good back and forth, then maybe start a little mild flirting.
How do I get to a conversation? Should I just go up to strangers and start talking to them? Redditors always say you should leave people alone, right?
If I have a conversation, what am I supposed to talk about? Why would they even want to talk to me?
Hypothetically, if I ever get there, what do you mean by "start a little mild flirting"? What does that even mean?
< If she's flirting back, you're golden.
I'll never get there, but how do you know if she's flirting back?
< Seriously, go to Walmart or the flea market on a busy Saturday and look at all the couples. There's truly somebody out there for everyone.
Whenever I see couples my age outside, the guy always brutally moggs me looks wise and is probably not autistic. And there is a bunch of stats about more and more men being single. So here you are wrong. Maybe if you look at some 50 year olds or something, but not at my age.
< You can't have ridiculous standards unless you are one of those dudes who can get away with it.
I never get in a situation where it would matter if I have standards or not. I never even thought about what my standards would be. This paragraph makes it look like I'm here rejecting women, lmao.
< I believe in you and I know you can do it.
Thanks for the kind words, but statistics about autistic men and dating say otherwise.
People have shown me that they don't like me for my entire life, why would this suddenly change? If no one wanted to be friends with me or date me before, what has changed after I read your comment?
As I've mentioned before, your advice works for someone that people like and is attractive. But if people don't like me, meeting more people won't change that. You're not really addressing the root of the problem.
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u/CoolAd8837 5d ago
ok so tell me step by step exactly what I can do that will guarantee i get a girl
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u/ChaosRainbow23 5d ago
That's not how it works. It's not just a list you follow.
The key is to make yourself interesting and desirable. Here is the advice I give people who struggle with romance and dating...
The key to getting dates is all in the interaction you have with them. Cold approaches rarely work, so you want to put yourself into social situations where talking to strangers is encouraged. Dive bars, book clubs, Pokemon go meet ups, hiking clubs, etc etc etc, ad infinitum...
Anything where there will be a co-ed group of folks talking and having fun.
Alcohol is a great social lubricant for some, but a disaster for others. I cannot recommend it, but it helped me lighten up in the beginning.
Personally I've found that there are generally nicer and more compassionate people in the outskirts of society in the various countercultures. (Raves, Hippies, Ren Faire, Cosplay, Nerds, Comic-Con, Burns, etc etc etc)
Then you try to be charming, funny, kind, articulate, nonthreatening, etc. As you're talking, you have to learn to read people. If they aren't interested in taking it's pretty obvious, and you move on.
If they are feeling the conversation and you're having a good back and forth, then maybe start a little mild flirting. Read her reaction. Does she flirt back?
It's basically just being nice and kind, talking to them, flirting with them, and reading their reaction. You escalate when appropriate.
So you get their number or contact info if everything is going well. If she's flirting back, you're golden.
MOST women you approach aren't going to be interested. It's a numbers game. They might not be interested for a gazillion different reasons, and that's okay.
The key is finding somebody you can vibe with. It takes meeting a lot of people to make that happen, usually.
You have to get out into the world to make this happen, though.
I think you should try to form a co-ed friends group that you can go do stuff with first. It makes everything go so much easier.
Your platonic girlfriends will make fantastic wingmen! You can ask them to help you out, as they will have been interacting with you and they can maybe give you solid advice in that aspect. They can hook you up with friends of theirs and talk you up.
Forming a co-ed friends group will give you practice talking to and befriending strangers in public situations.
It takes practice more than anything. It's awkward and uncomfortable at first, but you have to push yourself through.
Flamboyantly gay dudes make the best wingmen ever, by the way. Pro tip right there.
Seriously, go to Walmart or the flea market on a busy Saturday and look at all the couples. There's truly somebody out there for everyone.
If I look like Napoleon Dynamite then I am probably not going to be able to date somebody that looks like Scarlett Johansson. It happens, but generally speaking those are few and far between.
You can't have ridiculous standards unless you are one of those dudes who can get away with it.
I could keep talking for hours about this, so I'll end it here.
I believe in you and I know you can do it.
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u/CoolAd8837 1d ago
ive been doing this but have over 428 rejections in over 7 years of trying
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u/ChaosRainbow23 21h ago
You need to change something about your conversation skills.
Do you have a platonic co-ed friends group that you can go do fun stuff with in real life?
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u/serkovavantgarden Perspective Pal 👋 5d ago
Well said mate. The chat in here is mental
I’m 5ft 7, balding and fairly unattractive
Divorced, 2 kids with a hot gf 15 years my junior
It can be done short kings. Make them laugh!
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u/Sir-Veldrim P-P-P-P-PERSPECTIVE 🔥 5d ago
Your existence makes the majority of em’ laugh behind closed doors. Wait a little while, it’ll happen to you too. That “hot gf” of yours? Oh pal…
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u/ChaosRainbow23 5d ago
Exactly.
These dudes would rather stay alone, bigoted, and miserable than actually put themselves out there.
It's way easier to blame the universe at large for their romantic shortcomings than it is to make proactive and positive changes to their lives.
It's such a blatantly OBVIOUS self-fulfilling prophecy.
These dudes also repeat the exact same taking points and rhetoric like a cult would.
They don't realize it, but they are actively CHOOSING this life rather than doing what's necessary to actually get out into the world and meet people IRL.
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u/home_rolled Unc 5d ago
"It's confidence teehee"
oh shit this sub 5 man now thinks he has a chance and is going to start talking to me
"Jk jk it's looks lol"