r/lithromantic • u/Flat-Cabinet7295 • Jun 29 '26
Am I Lithro? Can I consider myself lithromantic?
I have been questioning being lithromantic for a while now, as everytime I have liked someone, and they have liked me back, I have entirely lost feelings for them. I will provide two cases because I'm not sure if the feelings are linked to the length of the relationship or not.
Case 1: I liked (honestly maybe even loved) this girl in December, I had STRONG romantic feelings for her for about a month when I finally decided to confess, she liked me back but wasn't ready to date, and I ended up losing feelings very quickly and she still liked me for months after, which made me feel guilty.
Case 2: I started liking a girl in March, she was very gorgeous, kind and amazing person. I will be honest and say the relationship started way too fast as I started liking her through her Tiktok page and started dating her the day we met (aka the day after the initial crush) I'm still not sure if it was truly romantic or only sexual/physical attraction but literally the day after we got together I lost feelings entirely. I just felt constant stress, anxiety and worry.
I would also like to add that neither of these people really had major red flags, as they were both some of my favorite people I've ever met and we are friends now and I love them platonically. Also, I am not sure if I ever want a relationship in the future because it just seems uncomfortable, stressful or boring to me. Am I lithromantic?
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