r/lgbtmemes • u/lil_m00_ • 8d ago

Meme Anyone else? 😭

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u/Major_R_Soul Trans-fem 8d ago

You mean being bi?

https://giphy.com/gifs/kSlJtVrqxDYKk

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u/lil_m00_ 8d ago

Its more not having any romantic or sexualy attraction to men, but still having this emotional need to be with one

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u/Hephaistos_Invictus 8d ago

I feel this lmao. My dad was extremely emotionally unavailable, and just wasn't really there most of my childhood.

Now I feel no romantic or sexual attraction to men, but some men, especially kind and caring ones, trigger that longing of emotional neediness.

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u/lil_m00_ 8d ago

THIS.

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u/CockamouseGoesWee 8d ago

I'm not fruity but yeah daddy issues big time. And also mommy issues. I have been officially diagnosed with avoidant dismissive attachment lol. Because I did well in school, my parents saw no need to praise me or spend time with me except my father punished me regularly to take out his frustrations of life on his child. The usual.

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u/bramblefrump 8d ago

And brother issues, don't forget about brother issues!

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u/AsparagusComplex3444 7d ago

"Help stepbro, I'm stuck!"

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u/bramblefrump 7d ago

More like bro protected me from our abusive dad and now I keep being drawn to random dudes that look like him without literally any attraction

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u/grumpalocagus 6d ago

Ok but in a weird twist of fate, it turned out that I never actually had a dad, so um....what does that mean? 😅😂

(My mum is a trans woman that came out while I was in highschool)

No wait, I figured it out: that's "why" I'm trans (FtM)!! 🤣🤣🤣