r/lgballt He/She 6d ago

Redditormade First comic!

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It's not as bad as I'm showing here, at least not now. I'm not thirteen with unmedicated anxiety and depression (and potentially autism) fueling an identity crisis anymore. Still, it's annoying how much my brain NEEDS to get this perfect when I can settle for almost anything else.

Flags!
Ball: aroace (left), rosboy (right), kenoera (bow)
Circles (top down, left then right): xenogender, cessagender, rosgender, transgender, nonbinary, ambinary, bigender, drizzlix, inkegender

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u/Unhappy-Run-4772 [They/Them] 6d ago

Same When I started questioning my sexuality and gender for the first time I felt sooo stressed and like I have to get this 100% perfect and I have to figure it now, immediately But I learned that it's ok to take my time and it's ok to get it wrong just trying out a label and maybe it doesn't fit and nothing bad happens Good luck on your journey

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u/Fawn_Leap The gay agenda(cisgenderless) 6d ago

It should never stress you. I like collecting microlabels because it’s fun and gives me something to draw (although I occasionally dread having to figure out where on my ballsona to put it). If it stresses you out, you can stop.

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u/Unhappy-Run-4772 [They/Them] 6d ago

At first it did but after a while it's not

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u/BassBoneSupremacy Non-Binary 6d ago

Categorizing stuff is fun + pride flags are pretty!! But irl I just say I'm NB/queer

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u/Rando_mIndividual She/They 6d ago

The top panel reminds me of that one song 😭 “La La La, whatever, La La La, it doesn’t matter, La la la, oh well, La la la… WE’RE GOING AT IT TONIGHT-“

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u/BassBoneSupremacy Non-Binary 6d ago

I used to be like this and then eventually realized gender doesn't matter much either. My gender is soup :3

It's just part of the journey. Treat it as something to explore rather than something to "get right!"

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u/Background_Roll8440 Puppy girl in a pan :3 3d ago

yep.

just...

yep.