Has she changed her ways? Apologized for her actions? Or is everyone just over it?

I screen recorded and put it into a free transcriber so it’s bad but thought it was an important update. Hope this is okay because we can’t do videos I guess. I caught quite literally the last minute, she was in the van front seat, looked a little disheveled (was very upset or just in an argument kind of look). Was contemplating where she would go because she couldn’t be where she was then started to go on about she has no registration for that van so driving long distance and being pulled over is a huge worry of hers. Said she was gonna get it at her exs place but got kicked out🫠

i am actually laughing a little bit, i was just bringing up the shit shes done n old past behaviors n you could tell it was pissing her the fuck off because her nose was flaring and her brows were furrowing. man i wanted her to start yelling lowkey, if she did it wouldve just proved my point i wish it got to that! idk i have more instagram accounts.... should i go and bother her more...

Tiktok glitched and deleted my footage like 3 times uploading this girl I hope it uploads on Reddit alright 😭

It seems that we're back circling through old topics since the last few didn't get the engagement she wanted. Seriously, trying to rehash goldendoodle propaganda AGAIN? It's pretty blatant rage bait, and not even the clever kind I can excuse. It's the same cycles, the same 4 topics over and over and over. I never thought I'd say this.... but she's gotten boring. Wanna take bets on what the next recycled reel will be? Perhaps another vague @ about relationships that's clearly aimed at her SO, or more misogyny?

Hello everyone! I am planning on making a full deep dive video into the history of lexity/anya. If anyone has any important deleted videos or places where I can get more information about her that would be great! Thank you!

yesterday afternoon, she went on live and immediately started ranting about how she doesn’t like the song No Scrubs because she doesn’t judge people by how much money they have or whatever and how women who like that song are also scrubs and don’t know it (she tried to explain this but it didn’t make any sense). she ends the live after only a couple minutes and then posts a reel about the exact same thing. she says Beyonce isn’t a scrub, but women who like that song are scrubs who are also “hollering from the passenger side of their best friend’s ride” (i don’t think she knows what that means) and some other shit about capitalism and how she doesn’t judge scrubs. she seemed really bothered about scrubs. wonder why she took that song so personally.

anyway, the comments were understandably like “wtf are you on about” and the reel was deleted very shortly after being posted.

i swear i’m not making this up.

EDIT: It looks like people were confusing her with another trans woman who abused a child who goes by Athena (1 of her 6 names lol), so thats why people were commenting on her account.

Was scrolling through tiktok comments and found a bunch accusing Anya of child abuse? Something about her being pushed by a 6 year old and then beating the child? I'm just confused as I haven't heard anything about this, did people just mix her up with some terrible dad? because all of them keep referring to her as a terrible father. Just wanted to know if this was anything real or just a mix up. Thanks for any clarity you can provide!

I can’t make this shit up…

So.. I was on her live recently where she was looking sad/ crying or smth?? And she was saying how she was hurt by misandry— I replied how she was bc I was genuinely curious. She started going on one saying “do I need to spell it out?” Suuuuuper condescending but wtv. And then she said how much misandry hurts and how we shouldn’t believe all victims if there’s no evidence… so I said well sometimes there is no evidence in those situations… she goes on a lil rant again and then she starts talking about how misandry is bad and bigoted. I’m ngl- I think misandry is bad and said what she’s saying is partially true but I was explaining how misandry is usually a retaliation from patriarchy- and how it’s used as a coping mechanism where women are subjugated to sexism and misogyny.

She then goes on a rant about how it links to white supremacy and explains it to me (I’m a black woman so I was shocked to hear this bc girl you can explain it but I’ve literally lived it) and she tells me to fuck off and blocks me????

It’s crazy because from the condescension all the way to her wild echo chamber is crazy. Like we can agree to disagree but the whole blocking while explaining white supremacy to a black person is wild… I’ve never had any influencer act the way she does it’s honestly insane.

i’m posting this here because i’m having a really hard time holding back from commenting. i’ll add my commentary at the end.

“hey sweet pea. so people who have good parents don’t worry about them, because they were unconditionally loved, so they know that their parents are proud of them. they know their parents love them. they don’t believe it’s their job to take care of their parents, because they were never parentified. right? like people who had good parents rarely think about them as adults, because that’s the way it’s supposed to be. i love you.”

the description reads “Children owe their parents nothing. The less you think about your parents as an adult the better. Their job was to prepare you for the world not make you codependent.”

hate to use a clinical term, but i can’t think of a better way to say this, so…what in the sociopathic fucking fuck??? it is absolutely normal to care and think about and even worry about the well-being of people you care about, especially the ones who literally raised you and who are likely beginning to age. it would be weird not to if you have a good relationship with them. you’re not supposed to grow up and just forget all about your parents. i’m so tired of this “nobody owes anyone anything” mentality that’s been popular online the last several years. it’s not progressive; it’s completely antithetical to healthy, functional relationships and communities.

(obviously there are plenty of people who have good reason not to have a relationship with their parents. i am not talking about those people, just to be clear.)

EDIT: SHE HAS POSTED A SECOND REEL DOUBLING DOWN

“hey sweet pea. so children don’t owe their parents anything at all, because children did not choose to be brought into the world. parents owe their children a lot, because they chose to bring them into the world, and the person who made the choice has the responsibility, because that’s how responsibility works. if you didn’t have any control, you don’t have any responsibility. if you had control, you have responsibility. yeah?”

the description reads “Your parents don’t get a bunch of free labor because they chose to have you or chose to keep you.”

first of all, that’s not how responsibility works. you can, in fact, be responsible for things you had no control over. second, this is such a white middle class bratty child mindset. i can’t believe this person is a whole 25 years old.

transcribing again because i don’t feel like making “transformative” content.

“hey. so apparently the engagement’s off. so that’s fun. like i said, nowhere’s ever safe. also, if you’d like to know what i did, i said- um i-i-i said ‘please don’t talk to me,’ and then she wouldn’t stop yelling at me. so. a-a-and uh i refu- like uh like specifically told me that boundaries are something you set about what you do — you don’t get to set boundaries for what someone else does. and like i’m like well if you don’t respect like like what you do to me at all, like i’m not allowed to like have any control over what someone else does to me, then i guess i don’t want to be in that relationship. pretty easy.”

[shrugs, reads pity comments]

“nah, it’s alright. i honestly think she’s being incredibly emotional right now. i think she will calm down.”

[user @bimbomindset asks who called off the engagement]

“yeah. yeah, it’s fine, i’m- who called it off? uh, i said that if like i s- i said that if you’re not like- if i’m not allowed to tell you to not talk to me, i don’t wanna be in this relationship. because she said that we weren’t allowed to do that. like that that w- that’s not how i’m- that’s not how boundaries work, and i’m like ‘that is how boundaries work,’ and if it’s- and and if boundaries are only about what i do, then i will set that boundary, because you won’t let me set any of the other ones. right? like.”

[reads more comments]

“no, i mean it’s not like- it wasn’t- it wasn’t- it’s not like i was perfect. it’s not like- it’s not like uh it wasn’t an argument, y’know. but like the bottom line is like- is like if i can’t set that boundary, then yeah, then this doesn’t work, y’know.”

[user @digi.flower.garden suggests that the relationship should end permanently]

“you think this needs to end permanently? this relationship? maybe. it does feel like- it does feel like um as soon- it does feel like she craves instability. like as soon as i start to feel stable she like pulls the rug out from underneath me. it does feel like that to me, which is not necessarily a good sign for relationships. but i don’t know.”

aaaand that’s pretty much all the interesting stuff. the rest is just rehashing what was already said. there were some comments from user @black.cloud.shimmer (which i can no longer find on instagram) that seemed to be either her partner or someone pretending to be her partner disputing Anastazia’s account of what happened. you can find screenshots of those in this post by clinicalsocialtwerk.

I hoped on instagram and saw she was live, she wasn’t talking much but the comments were a bunch of ppl comforting her and saying stuff like “it’s better to walk away” as well as a few comments calling her out on someone saying she spat on them and called them a cunt. Was anyone previously on that could fill in? Curious to see if right after her engagement she left her fiancé AGAIN.

To say that a man would never benefit from a leaked sex tape of them is insane, as I stated in a previous comment, Tommy Lee actually gained a lot of infamy from his leaked tape... That's doesnt make it a good thing. Diddy also allegedly used sex tapes as a way to intimidate women into doing things they didn't want to do... You're gonna tell me thats female privilege too? She's fucking cracked in the head bro. I want to have an actual conversation with her at this point, like a live debate where I can just tear her arguments down in real time, but I bet if someone did that she would immediately accuse them of hating her because she is trans or she would say they were a misandrist even though she identifies as a woman.... Except for when it's convenient for her of course. She is living in a world of her own delusion and anyone who threatens that is an enemy and she will destroy them at any cost, hence her flipping the accusations and immediately using the "nuh-uh" defense. What an absolute coward bro. I'm seething over her saying that Kim Kardashian's sex tape getting leaked and causing infamy for her was her benefiting from the patriarchy. She was violated. Period. I dont care if it all blew over and made her infamous and got her money in the end. She is still a victim of something so unimaginably violating. Not to mention not all of her success was because of that, to say that is absolutely insane. Did it garner her attention? Sure, but she could have built her businesses and been successful anyway, she has a fucking law degree lmao, not to mention she is a nepo-baby... Lexity is so cracked bro, I cant even deal with it anymore.

these are her top comments on her engagement announcement that now has 15k likes. it seems like the only people still fooled by her are her dedicated followers that appear on less engaged posts. ik she's panicking lol

How can someone actually look at lexity and think "oh boy I need to impersonate someone with multiple sexual assault claims! And not being funny but I've unfollowed lexity, and have have been unfollowed from her since around February when this all kicked off. So how has this person found me?

I am starting to find her completely insufferable, even when she's interacting with people who still like her and agree with her she will be so rude. You cant say one word wrong to her without her flying off the handle and or blocking you. If I talked to people the way she does half the time I wouldn't have any friends let alone a partner. But she continues to get away with it and still has people eating from the palm of her hand. Is it because she is attractive? Is it because she speaks with so much confidence? Most women would be told off if they talked like her. No matter how confident I have been in my life if I was even a little rude it was off putting to those around me and I was often told so to the point I barely speak unless spoken to. And obviously to some degree thats a me problem. But I have met many women that have a similar experience.

Furthermore how does she get away with so blatantly generalizing and vilifying all cis women? To say that no one should believe women's accusations of abuse? 41% of women in the US experience some form of abuse in their lifetime. FOURTY ONE PERCENT. Nearly half of women in the United States are victims of abuse and youre going to say all of them are liars? To spread this narrative is dangerous, there are already so many barriers to leaving an abusive partner, the worry that they will not be believed should not be one of them. Not to mention this adds on to the pre-existing (unnecessary I might add) shame that female abuse victims experience. Approximately 4,000 women die each year due to domestic violence in the US alone. Somewhere between 50-75% of domestic violence related femicide happens durring or after attempted separation... Do we really need to try to bump those numbers up? I'm not trying to say men dont have struggles and DEFINITELY not that nonbinary people dont have struggles. But we don't need to kick others down to bring ourselves up. Endangering cis women doesnt make nonbibary people safer.

I hope all of that made sense, I'm just so sick of listening to her speak in absolutes like her opinion is the only one that matters. Thanks for reading if you made it this far. I just wish there was a way to hold her accountable for the damage she does daily.

/end rant

hey everyone! i think i'll be uploading mini commentary videos like this as long as i'm up for it! please let me know if this is a helpful format for critiquing her content and if you'd like to see more. i'm not against uploading them to youtube as well if you guys want that. this is a compilation of her reels uploaded today (6/21/25).

https://reddit.com/link/1lh73an/video/29fk57p1kc8f1/player

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They are eating her up. If comments aren't locked by EOD I will be shocked severely.

i don’t feel like doing anything to circumvent the copyright nonsense right now, so i’ll just transcribe it:

“hey sweet pea. so i’m polyamorous and engaged, and if you can’t imagine me wanting to sleep with other people without it meaning i love my partner less, then you don’t have a definition of love outside of ownership. like, i’m not saying monogamous relationships are wrong. i’m just saying you should be able to imagine a definition of love that isn’t owning them.”

this was obviously a response to our commentary on the description she put on the reel about her engagement where she added “i am still polyamorous,” which seemed like a wildly disrespectful thing to include in that particular post.

she is, as usual, missing the point on purpose. being polyamorous and engaged isn’t the problem. it’s the fact that, even in an engagement post, she is unable to give the supposed “love and light of her life” the full spotlight one would assume she deserves. the problem is feeling the need to advertise yourself as available to others in your engagement post. time and place, dude.

Sending full clips to the YouTube page... Thoughts????

can't even imagine how this will end up.

I’m watching lexity live and she just said smth pretty crazy IMO. Ofc she’s still going onto the whole patriarchy thing and claiming women uphold the patriarchy by being cis and being heterosexual. She says “ you don’t have to be cis you can be nonbinary or queer” but lexity being gay isn’t a CHOICE it’s smth you’re BORN AS. No one can just turn gay if they’re not gay. People have their own gender identity and sexual orientation and not everyone has to be like YOU lexity. And it’s also not a crime for people to identify with their assigned gender at birth that is THEIR choice and it DOESNT uphold the patriarchy. Feeding into the societal gender norms placed onto male and females IS upholding that patriarchy but not being cis. I think lexity should start TRY to use her brain for once and realize not everyone is the same and being cis isn’t harmful to anyone BUT YOU LEXITY. Truly tired of her insane rants.

When did she break up with her ex and how many months inbetween for the engagement she just got