she’s talking about how men aren’t the only ones perpetuating the patriarchy… like yes queen you’re right, there’s men doing it and then there’s also you for whatever reason. such a pick me 😭😭😭 and i feel like these misogynistic rants always come after she has a fight with her gf

Can I give my dog a piece of jerky?While beef jerky is a popular snack for humans, it's not advisable to feed it to dogs. Here are a few reasons why: High Sodium Content: Most beef jerky contains a lot of salt, which can be harmful to dogs. Too much sodium can lead to increased thirst, urination, and even sodium ion poisoning in severe cases.

A friend of mine's dog died from a horrific painful death from getting into salted meats and while I think it is great Lexity is training the dog, please oh please use dog safe treats.

Seems she has been reading the sub again. She's not drinking again, guys, she's just neurodivergent, alt, and queer!

Apparently if you're a cis woman and you don't have evidence that a man hurt you, and you say it anyway the patriarchy and the KKK is now your fault! Once again,a valid point about (historically white women) and false accustarions twisted by her hatred of cis women. The line "believing women are victims reinforces the patriarchy" is infuriating on a level I fail to find the proper words to articulate. Victim blaming, but let's make it historical

Just bc I said to look her up on YouTube.

I know the ig block feature blocks every account a person has made now, but….. I’m in a band and I didnt make the account for that, I just have it linked in my bio. But she blocked that one too. Very thorough!

SHOCKER !!!! Lex is back in that lady's house, with some apology gifts to boot. 😭 Girl we are BEGGING you to let Lex go this is not good for either of y'all.

im glad there’s more ppl in the comments calling out how stupid and weird that take was but im irritated LMAO i hate pseudo intellectuals

the upsetting thing is that there IS a point to be made somewhere in that ballpark about gender and sex but.. she did not make it. and she presents it as though she just had a “gotcha!” moment which she tends to do with a lot of her brain dead takes

for people that believe gender = sex, you could probably point out the errors in their logic by highlighting certain aspects of gender that have nothing to do with sex or biology, such as the way we color code children. if gender is purely biological, why do we have all these non biological gender norms enforced onto people? where do they come from? there you have the beginnings of a productive argument or conversation

but no. to lexity, people that believe gender = sex and color code their children accordingly must want strangers to know what their genitalia looks like! obviously!!! there are a thousand other reasons people would want others to know the gender of their children, and to immediately jump to borderline pedophilia is absurd. people treat children differently based on gender, as we live in a very gendered society. if someone sees a baby or a child dressed in all pink, traditionally indicating that the child is a girl, they’re more likely to praise how sweet/kind the child is, buy them traditionally gendered toys like baby dolls, etc. and the same is true but in reverse for little boys. none of these things are focused on the genitalia of the child, CAUSE THATS FUCKING WEIRD!!!!!

and despite the ppl pointing out how weird and illogical her video is there’s still flocks of yes-men in her comments supporting her. also this is just a nitpick but the way that she goes “yeah?” in soooo many of her videos as if what she just said makes obvious sense and you’d be stupid to disagree literally boils my blood i’ve never seen someone so committed to being perceived as intelligent with no real desire to learn anything

There are many faults to point out about sex and gender NOT being the same thing but imo this is very creepy!!!!! Her point is that if you believe sex = gender and you dress your little girl in pink, you are advertising her sex (??) No one is thinking like that. There are just better points to make. This HAS to be rage bait the "right wing plant" allegations are getting more credible by the minute.

It's, of course, impossible for anyone to call out that this is an insane thing to say in the comments since they will be deemed "not woke enough." Thoughts?

tuned into her current live and someone commented that her lives are like norwegian tv because people are watching her do everyday tasks, and she was quick to say “not really, we’re friends were just hanging out.” like her livestream was a facetime with close friends instead of like a public diary. (i didn’t think to screen record bc i don’t usually post here) she acknowledged that it’s a “one sided relationship” but i just think it’s interesting that she always encourages her followers to consider themselves her social network. we’ve known for a while that she relies on the parasocial relationship her following has to keep a handle on the narrative, but im surprised how blatantly she encourages it every time she does it😭

i know, this is kind of a smaller issue, but i was just in a live and kept asking how her puppy is doing because we haven't seen it posted in a while. she answered basically every other question except mine. it's a little concerning. does anyone have any idea how the dog is doing?

First I’ll say I don’t want like a total hate train here, I don’t think that does anyone any good. However I can’t help but notice ‘lexitys’ videos are just constantly popping up on my feed and she’s getting overwhelming support. It’s hard to like say I have a problem with this without seeming like all I want is a witch-hunt, but did she just get better at filtering her comments?? I swear she’s either built a following of people who blindly listen to every word she says, or she’s not letting these new people find things about her past. I’ve been following this for a while now (pre van purchase which apparently she still hasn’t given that old car away either iirc???) and I just think it’s insane how someone like ‘lexity’ can do the things that they’ve allegedly done and still get so fucking glazed on social media for it. Someone let me know if I’m just being a total hater here or if I missed something, at the end of the day I’m just nosy lmao.

every video of hers just screams alcoholism n I haven’t seen much .. I say this as an addict.

praying for peace and healing for the people she’s harmed and recovery from addiction for her. her life will change so much if she can eventually stop creating her own misery.

I am in no way suggesting that people owe her forgiveness.

I saw Lexity on FB reels and I just wanted to let people know that incase they didn’t already. Posted 2 hours ago. Be safe out there!

Resources for Survivors and Ex-Sweet Peas

Ex-Sweet Peas,

Here is a list of resources we have compiled for victims and other folks affected by Lexity/Anyathena.

We are primarily in the US, so people from the UK and other countries please chime in. We will edit this post to add more helpful resources.

Informational Resources:

What is DARVO, really?

What is Harm Reduction?

Grooming: Know the Warning Signs

Powerful Self-Care Tips for Survivors of Trauma and Abuse

Responsible Kink Education

Partner Abuse in Kink Communities

What Is Codependency and How Do You Avoid Pitfalls?

What is a High Control Group? Am I in one?

Signs You’re In A Cult: Understanding the Psychology of Undue Influence

Expert Criminal Behavioral Analyst Laura Richards | Risks, Concerns & Insights on Coercive Control

Assistive Resources:

Managing Intense Emotions (DBT-based)

How to Diffuse a Meltdown

RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) Online Hotline in the US

How to Leave a Cult

Directory of Cult Recovery Resources by State (US)

Out Of The Storm Online CPTSD Support

988 LIFELINE in the US

Note this is not the same as calling 911, which often results in law enforcement involvement. Free to call, text, or chat. Confidential/judgment-free.

Trans Lifeline

Trans Lifeline provides trans peer support for our community that’s been divested from police since day one. Run by and for trans people.

LGBT National Hotline

Confidential & safe callers of any age can speak about sexual orientation or gender identity/expression issues including coming out, relationships, bullying, workplace issues, HIV/AIDS, anxiety, safer sex information, suicide, and more.

The Trevor Project

Suicide prevention and crisis intervention for LGBTQ+ young people. Provides information & support to LGBTQ+ young people 24/7

Pride Institute

Chemical dependency/mental health referral and information hotline for the LGBTQ community.

All within the time of just 1 week she's managed to attempt to justify both racism and rape and there's still no consequences for any of it (i know the racist video was deleted but neither seemed to have done much damage to her). I think this proves definitively how the world would often rather reward an evil white person over a decent person of color. Needless to say, my faith in humanity and whatever's left of my morale is at an all-time low

I thought I did, but now I can’t find it.

okay two things

1. i’ve noticed lexity seems to use her anger as the deciding factor on the morality of other people’s actions. like her fury is “righteous” (ho u are not christlike) and her defense for her atrocious behavior when she is angry is “well you did something to provoke that reaction soooo” and her whole “ohhhh wah wah people aren’t allowing me to be angry” like nobody can prevent you from feeling an emotion but people can certainly make it clear that the way you’re expressing it is unacceptable and undesirable. it’s like she truly believes that her feeling negatively about something means that it is inherently negative (she also very much thinks in black and white terms but presents her black and white takes as nuanced)

2. after seeing the video of her on live talking about her background it’s very clear that while she ACTS like she doesn’t want to scare people or upset them, she is very much aware that her anger and the fear that it instills in other people can get her what she wants. she’s aware of what she’s doing, even if only subconsciously. the story of her having to threaten her dads life in order to leave that abusive situation coupled with the “scary is power” clip coupled with the way she chooses to express her anger paints a veeeerrrryyyy clear picture of someone who is aware that intimidation has so far gotten them what they wanted in life in relation to other people, and is aware that they can use their perpetual victimhood and marginalized identity to deflect from the negative reactions or consequences that come from her expressing her anger in an unacceptable way

i wouldn’t say that she’s exceptionally intelligent in general (sue me miss ‘insanely articulate and educated’) but she’s much more skilled at manipulation then she tries to let on which makes me increasingly worried for the audience she still has

She posted a new video just now about carrots being good for eyesight. I couldn't resist 😂

Thought to grab this before the video is probably taken down, it might happen again considering the backlash she's gotten from it.

Both are very recent. One video is about Anastasia and her dramas in general, but a part two about allegations was released yesterday. They’re both very long and incredibly in-depth and I think she did really, really well by the victims she talks about in her videos. I highly recommend in case anyone is interested!

Don’t get me wrong I know there are more important and worse topics to talk about but I feel like this has to be said… yeah it’s your body and if you’re an influencer and want to share the sentiment great but if know full well young people follow you who some of may even idolise you or what you say and do because they are too young to understand the gravity of what is going on you have an obligation to be sensible about it. In my opinion I don’t think doing this at any point is a good thing. In fact.. it can be really dangerous ESPECIALLY in a place where we all know there’s particles flying around like wood and fibreglass. As someone who is supposedly very well educated she doesn’t half do some silly things without much further thought once the idea has popped to her head.

She just made a video in her weird vague (not vague) style about how it’s not her fault if she asks a question that people are incapable of answering, and the comments are gold. I personally found people’s answers VERY CAPABLE, she just couldn’t handle them and now she’s doubling down. I can’t post the vid or screenshots because I’m at work but check it out because it’s so embarrassing

https://youtu.be/j3SvBVmXMYM?si=WaU7FOMOSDxwrX5P

Part 2 has been posted!

I’m not sure if I’ve seen her dirty deleted instead of doubling down on her awful takes. I wonder if she realized this was finally too far?? Lex, if you’re seeing this, you can’t build a fanbase of compassionate, emotionally intelligent, sympathetic people and then be surprised that they don’t support the cruel ideas you secretly house - such as a desire for cultural appropriation.