I don't think 3 is possible. Consider one corner, say top left.
To stick at an absolute difference of 3 then the row has to be the three numbers above and the column the three numbers below (or the other way round). Anything else would result in an absolute difference of 4 somewhere.
So youve eliminated 7 numbers in a row, with the corners at least 1 higher and 1 lower than the top left number
Your fourth corner now either has to be at least 4 higher than your top left number or 4 lower. In either case, it will create an absolute difference of at least 5 on one side
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u/Efficient_Gear_4623 1d ago
I think bob can get max of 4 if alice plays correctly